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Warning!The post might be Long and Not For Lazy Readers but if you stick to the end...you can find the summary in bullet points

Ever tried to woo a girl and she said:

”you are such a nice guy or good guy let’s just be friends or maybe she said she sees you as a friend “?

Well you don't have to feel bad because almost all of us have been there…

And what she sees you as doesn't matter because your own attitude and reaction towards that is all that counts just like her body count.

I believe you probably already know what friendzone is right?

If no friendzone is basically you like a girl and she has decided you are not worthy of anything else but being a friend…

In other words she aint gonna date you.

And even if she does date you ain't getting anything except the opportunity to buy her strawberry lemonades ,shrimp scampi,ice cream or do her endless favours.

Anyway you don't have to worry about being friendzoned any more because in just a moment I will share with you strategies and principles that has help me escaped the friendzone and almost never get hurt or used by women…

But first…

You have to understand this isn't an exhaustive list and there are more ways to go about it.

Now let’s jump right in.

1.Give them an option for thinking differently.

You could do these by simply telling her ‘here’s what i want and if you don't want the same thing that’s totally okay with me well, i am moving on and you are not gonna see me anymore”

Remember you don't have to be mean while telling her

Well guess what you have just done with this?

You have just put her in a situation where she has to take responsibility for her decision and unfortunately that's what they hate most.

They like to dodge accountability and always look for who to blame and now she is the one to make the decision.

2.This one is one of the 48 Laws of power by Robert Greene which is “disdain the things you cannot have”.

This is not a tactic to get the things you want in life but it is simply for your own peace of mind.
Sometimes unless you let something go…it cannot come back to you.

Simply disdain her and move on to something better or someone else and who knows she might come around but you will be in the position to choose them or not…

However i know you might be really into her and can let it go easily.

Dont worry i have got your back

Here’s what to do:

Start focusing on the one thing all humans have which is “flaws”.

Start looking for her flaws to turn you off and it could be stupid reasons that doesn't even make sense.lol

3.Another thing to do to escape the friend zone crap is to .... Yikes!!!

I will continue when you drop at least 10comments