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I hope he's being serious

I don't understand Governor Adeleke , you are not In ruling party or major opposition party . How do you expect to win?

PureSperm:
I'm a Christian by religion.

if you can not convince her to practice the same religion, Do you think she'll be a loyal partner?

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders, Please there's this issue that has been bothering me for a while now. There's this lady whom I met and have been dating for about 3 years now.

Though we've been doing alright all these while but suddenly she started having dreams concerning my family. Last night, she had a dream and she said inside the dream, my elder sister was berating her why she hasn't gotten pregnant for me all these while.

The truth of the matter is that we've only been cohabiting for 8 months and she hasn't for once missed her period.

Whenever we made love, I always noticed that she'd go the bathroom to pee and wash her private part. I have asked many elderly people around what that means and they keep telling me she doesn't want to get pregnant. Is that even possible at all?

The other disturbing part is that her mother is a traditional religious woman who worships the gods of her village and my woman also does the same. Recently I've been considering on how to marry her and have even been working towards it, and would be around March, next year.

Please, Nairalanders, what could be the problem. Should I go ahead with the whole relationship, considering how her family background is surrounded by the traditional religious practices of her family and how fetish she's. Could that also be the reason she has been finding it very difficult to take in?


Please mods, help me push this to the front page so that I can hear from others experiences and get a wider advise on how to go about this.

which religion do you practice? Have you done fertility test,?

Op which religion do you belong to?

nnamdi640:
Honestly, I think it is hard to get mentally stable girl in this present generation

my dear, nobody really well na management Oo, try manage one

Namaster:
EXTREMELY stiupeeed comment!

He's irresponsible for not wanting to shoulder the BURDEN of another adult and the children that could result from such a union.

Would you rather he gets married and grow to RESENT his spouse for jeopardising his "Soft Life"?

The OP is a self aware man.
He knows what he wants.
And he's doing things that won't jeopardise it.

He's a GREAT man!

To OP:

Order yourself some SPERMICIDE, Postinor 2 and a box of condoms; then INVITE that girl to come and eat indomie.

LOL, YOU WAN KILL OP kpata kpata

Drifter02:
Although I'm afraid I might die alone, nonetheless I still have to admit being single without any extra responsibilities- no kids, no wife - is one of the best things to keep happening to me.

I was talking to one babe just this evening.. telling her to come, I'll cook her indomie and buy her something soft and babe was smiling coyly and bro.. I was seeing the future and I didn't like it

The future of me getting the girl pregnant filled me with apprehension. Imagine, if the girl's pregnant and I had a kid on the way, I won't have no time for myself anymore, my soft life will no longer be soft, I'll always have to be worried about money, about not losing my job.. my happy life will now be sad and constantly apprehensive and all the ills that comes with having a girl pest on your life..

Omo.. married men, I'd like to say "I feel for you" but na lie.. because asides from enjoying constant puzi you knew what you were getting your asses into.. and I'm so glad I'm not you.. and in any case not all of you have money issues

you will know what you did to yourself in your old age if you refuse to change Now. You Better have Ur own child Now. In your old age if you don't have Ur own child, no body will care if U exist or not. Even your siblings children may care less about their uncle. No matter the amount of money you have, a time will come when those close to you will start taking advantage of you , after all u no get wife or a child. U better change Now And get married

UkoAnnang:


Choosing a partner is like sporty bet

The one you think will play na im go cut

marriage na serous gamble oo

If you are waiting for perfect alignment, perfect time, perfect person, you will never marry.

U must offend each others .



No perfect marriage, it's all about how you manage it. That dreams of perfect marriage without challenges at all re for kids.

jiggyman:
Loool why? Please give reasons and case studies

I grew up as catholic,was a mass server,member of legion of mary ,etc but later began doubting many of the church's teachings which is little difference from Idol worship.No one preached to me I just realised that most terms used are derived from Roman idol worshippers since it's Roman Catholic church. If you've been in Pentecostal all your life,it will be difficult to pray together as family and this might affect your future children decision, which could lead to some of them being atheist. Catholic believe too many things that's the issue.

adaperry25:
Yes I know it's good to get a partner who aligns with same faith but aside that one has to look at personality of whom you're marrying.

She's Catholic and I'm not and she's a good lady. The condition she gave was that she can't leave her faith.

I've searched and she's the only one that ticked all the boxes aside the faith issue.

I got no choice

I think it's not good for husband and wife to be attending different churches , I grew up as catholic but later began doubting many of the church's teachings which is little difference from Idol worship.No one preached to me I just realised that most terms used are derived from Roman idol worshippers since it's Roman Catholic church. If you've been in Pentecostal all your life,it will be difficult to pray together as family and this might affect your future children decision, which could lead to some of them being atheist. Catholic believe too many things that's the issue.

The truth is that they haven't decided to fight insecurities in this country

Hmmmm this world plenty things dey happen o

Bad thing go happen to Wike politically if Fubara decide to Decamp to Apc

Physical battle are fought with physical weapons.....Apostle Arome Osayi

The God of all flesh I like the theme

capnies:
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My wonderful friend, this is not GOD you're presenting here, this is a heartl bully

That's your opinion at the moment, one Day you will accept the truth

We are all gamblers.

Timoleon:
Check the upper right side of your fun, you'd find a symbol of sun/brightness. Click on it.

done, thank you very much o

Nairalanders please help me oo


Nairaland site is dark from my phone ,help me change the theme

Modified

Thanks @ succession @ Theama @ Elock1 🙏🏻 ,I don correct am oo

Any name that mean snake

2cribz:
Hobby fx is next

Hahahahah

what did he do?

Host78:
I'm just really weak this evening. Like guys I don't even know where to start from right now.

So, I have my exam next week starting from Monday.

My arrangement was with this my friend to pay my school fees.

The thing is I get paid on the 16th of this month, about a week+ from now.

So, I'll need money to pay my fees before my exams.

I made arrangements with him since he said he has funds with him.

This arrangement was about two weeks ago. He lends me the money and I pay my school fees and then pay him back on that 16th once I get my money.

I spoke with him physically last week and he assured me that he's with the money and I will get it on Thursday which is yesterday.

Since yesterday I've been trying to reach him and couldn't. Visited him multiple times but his brother kept telling me he's not around.

Today which is Friday, he came to my place this night and was telling me that he has spent the money on some clothes.

I just weak. I no even fit talk anything once he said that.

All that kept running through my mind was where do I start from?

I understand it's not my money. But why give me the assurance and then at the last minute just cut me off?

This is the same person that I gave my spare laptop to and he's currently using for his business because he couldn't afford to pay for it o.

He's the same student as much as myself and knows that this will mean extra year for me o.

How do I raise money between now and Monday eh?

If you can't help at least let me know. I knew he had money then and that was why I made the arrangements and now this?

This cut me really deep this evening honestly.

you can never know who's truly your friend until you start facing challenges. Keep record of the lessons you learn in hard time

Many of them in ADC are actually working for TINUBU


Jagaban for a reason

GeneralOuki:
As an Abia man, I understand Ikwere perfectly but I struggle to understand lots of Ebonyi dialect. Unless I calm down and listen attentively, na inside osimiri I go see myself

tekwekwa gè mini pata ngu o ( no gree make water carry you o )
#Izi

Igbo peoples later they will say they are not.


Here in Ebonyi we have Many dialects but we all identify as Ndigbo, infact Anambra Man may understand ikwere better than my dialect.

What kind of threat is that? Something that will not move them naija politician at all. My prayers always is to never be in a condition that doing government work would be the ONLY option left for me

If Muslims hear that NNAMDI KANU convert to their religion SULTAN OF SOKOTO MAY CALL FOR A CELEBRATIONS .


I think the SOKOTO prison make him look fit only that am not sure that it's safe for him.




Free onye Ndu NNAMDI OKWU KANU

Sai baba well-done sir I hope you are not one of the terrorists supporters

I want to Join Nigeria army













Online oo that's E-force

That Essex girl well done