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benuejosh:
Terrorism and kidnapping is to the South East
Rituals and skull mining is to the South West.

The two brothers.

Even distribution.

There is no terrorism in the South East and Kidnapping happens everywhere. Talk about a region famous for it, we point to the North.

sonsomegrigbo:
THE FACT REMAINS THAT THE PEOPLE INSIDE THE DOT IN A CIRCLE COMMIT MORE CRIMES THAN OTHER TRIBE IN NIGERIA AND EVEN AFRICA AT LARGE...

IT IS WELL

The fact remains that the people known for oily-pepper non tasty onga coloured stew are the most tribalistic and easily brainwashed people in Nigeria.

It is well.

EmperorCaesar:


Useless expose!

He lost an election like every other losers in the last election, as there was always gonna be one winner in the end, and judging by what Sanwo-Olu has done so far, those in Lagos made a sound choice.

He is Yoruba yet frequently used tribal slur on his own people. Even if he's the son of Alaafin, that he denigrated his own tribe means they will always reject him.

Always commenting without any meaningful thing to contribute. If I ask you proof now you won't be able to provide one.

NothingDoMe:
This is what they want to bring to the Southwest.

Relax they will bring it. Na time. E fit even happen for this our generation. No be Yorubas again. The only reason you guys aren't Islamized yet is because of the wide spread rejection and condemnation that will occur especially in the Eastern region.

But it will happen someday. Your land is already over compromised.

Wow I'm kind of more impressed by the money generated than what the said culprit did. For that guy to do such it's obvious she has atleast X7 of this.
Money is in the entertainment industry. I have also come to discover that anything that has to do with social media can change your life if you know your onion.

Nnamdipapa:
So much writings and zero message.

Bia woke, what exactly is your problem.

I never expected you to see a point in what I wrote. And regarding the last line I wrote I now know the category you fall into. Continue to dey zuzu in the name of speaking truth.

justtoodark:
we are not ibos....why should we care about Biafra....??
when the brouhahas started after jonathan we found it funny but when you started addin areas to Biafra maps na their casala bursted....we have been fightin you now since then....

limit your agitation to your south eastern states only....

Who the fvck is this? 😐 I don't remember quoting you so fvck off my mention. Busy body looking for cheap attention.

AdolfHitlerxXx:
Adolf is one of the greatest men who ever lived. You hide under the bed every Monday so shaarap!

It's better to hide under the bed than to kpai myself in order not to hear the gunshots of unknown gunmen on my street. Again that's cowardice cemented with stupidity.

Nnamdipapa:
Dude is a clown. I blame FG for failing to convict him till now. What an arrogant prick

It's because of people like you that nonentities gain the audacity to say Igbos don't love themselves. Just look at the rubbish you're spitting out of your mouth.

From your statement, it's clear that you hate anything to do with Biafra. But you're not to blame; I blame the government and, most especially, your parents, who were either ignorant or clueless about history and passed the same trait on to you.

AdolfHitlerxXx:


I can bet he fled from the battlefront in his wife's skirts

And as Adolf Hitler who is your role model he kpaied himself in order not to see the battle lost. Such cowardice.

liveyourlife007:
Why should you understand him? Because you have big Ass? Mumu.
Burna boy didn't kick that guy well enough. Do you see how the guy was running towards him. What if they sent him?

Dude you don't have to be this rude. Samantha125 ain't even Nigerian. She is South African. How does having big ass being curvy correlates with the topic. You sound as if you are pained she is naturally gifted.

No one really understand Burna Boy. Dude has been off and on and doesn't have clear path to public relation, amidst other shady character of his.

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I hope this saves someone relationship.
Take a moment to read and reflect:

1. Communication is Key
- Many people highlight that open, honest, and respectful communication is vital for a strong marriage. Misunderstandings often arise not because of lack of love but due to lack of clarity or unresolved issues.
Actionable advice: Develop a habit of addressing issues calmly and openly, without resorting to blame or defensiveness.

2. Shared Values Matter
- A recurring theme is that shared values (like how to manage finances, parenting approaches, or lifestyle choices) are more important than shared interests.
Actionable advice: Discuss core values and long-term goals early in the relationship to ensure alignment.

3. Emotional Maturity and Conflict Resolution
- Conflicts are inevitable, but how a couple handles them often determines the longevity of their relationship. Many people learn that walking away from every argument or being overly confrontational leads to resentment or disconnection.
Actionable advice: Learn to argue constructively—focus on resolving the issue rather than "winning."

4. Financial Compatibility is Crucial
- Numerous couples report that money problems are a leading cause of tension. It’s less about how much money a couple has and more about their approach to spending, saving, and managing finances.
Actionable advice: Be transparent about finances and work together to create a budget and financial plan that satisfies both partners.

5. Maintain Individuality
- Many people realize too late that losing their individuality for the sake of the relationship can breed resentment. A healthy marriage involves two whole individuals, not one dependent on the other for happiness.
Actionable advice: Pursue personal growth, hobbies, and friendships outside the marriage to maintain balance and independence.

6. Intimacy Evolves
- Physical and emotional intimacy can change over time, and that’s normal. However, couples who actively prioritize their connection tend to remain happier.
Actionable advice: Set aside regular time for each other, whether it’s date nights, vacations, or simply uninterrupted conversations.

7. Apologizing and Forgiving
- The ability to sincerely apologize and forgive is a game-changer. Holding onto grudges only erodes trust and love.
Actionable advice: Practice humility—acknowledge when you're wrong and be willing to forgive your partner's mistakes.

8. Celebrate the Small Wins
- People often stress the importance of appreciating everyday moments. Grand gestures are great, but consistent small acts of kindness and appreciation keep the relationship thriving.
Actionable advice: Express gratitude often, whether it’s for your partner making coffee or supporting you during a tough day.

9. Seek Help When Needed
- Some couples hesitate to seek counseling or support, thinking it’s a sign of failure. Many share that seeking help early saved their marriage.
Actionable advice: If challenges feel overwhelming, consider couples therapy or marriage workshops to strengthen your bond.


10. Have Fun Together
- Life can get busy, but couples who make time to have fun together often feel more connected. Humor and playfulness keep the relationship fresh.
Actionable advice: Laugh together often and find activities that bring joy to both of you, even during tough times.

Relationships are unique, but these insights offer valuable perspectives to consider when building a long-lasting and fulfilling marriage.

Here are additional pieces of advice I have gathered from shared experiences that align with the truths often found in personal stories on platforms like Quora:

Kndly Read:

1. Communication is Key
- Many people highlight that open, honest, and respectful communication is vital for a strong marriage. Misunderstandings often arise not because of lack of love but due to lack of clarity or unresolved issues.
Actionable advice: Develop a habit of addressing issues calmly and openly, without resorting to blame or defensiveness.

2. Shared Values Matter
- A recurring theme is that shared values (like how to manage finances, parenting approaches, or lifestyle choices) are more important than shared interests.
Actionable advice: Discuss core values and long-term goals early in the relationship to ensure alignment.

3. Emotional Maturity and Conflict Resolution
- Conflicts are inevitable, but how a couple handles them often determines the longevity of their relationship. Many people learn that walking away from every argument or being overly confrontational leads to resentment or disconnection.
Actionable advice: Learn to argue constructively—focus on resolving the issue rather than "winning."

4. Financial Compatibility is Crucial
- Numerous couples report that money problems are a leading cause of tension. It’s less about how much money a couple has and more about their approach to spending, saving, and managing finances.
Actionable advice: Be transparent about finances and work together to create a budget and financial plan that satisfies both partners.

5. Maintain Individuality
- Many people realize too late that losing their individuality for the sake of the relationship can breed resentment. A healthy marriage involves two whole individuals, not one dependent on the other for happiness.
Actionable advice: Pursue personal growth, hobbies, and friendships outside the marriage to maintain balance and independence.

6. Intimacy Evolves
- Physical and emotional intimacy can change over time, and that’s normal. However, couples who actively prioritize their connection tend to remain happier.
Actionable advice: Set aside regular time for each other, whether it’s date nights, vacations, or simply uninterrupted conversations.

7. Apologizing and Forgiving
- The ability to sincerely apologize and forgive is a game-changer. Holding onto grudges only erodes trust and love.
Actionable advice: Practice humility—acknowledge when you're wrong and be willing to forgive your partner's mistakes.

8. Celebrate the Small Wins
- People often stress the importance of appreciating everyday moments. Grand gestures are great, but consistent small acts of kindness and appreciation keep the relationship thriving.
Actionable advice: Express gratitude often, whether it’s for your partner making coffee or supporting you during a tough day.

9. Seek Help When Needed
- Some couples hesitate to seek counseling or support, thinking it’s a sign of failure. Many share that seeking help early saved their marriage.
Actionable advice: If challenges feel overwhelming, consider couples therapy or marriage workshops to strengthen your bond.


10. Have Fun Together
- Life can get busy, but couples who make time to have fun together often feel more connected. Humor and playfulness keep the relationship fresh.
Actionable advice: Laugh together often and find activities that bring joy to both of you, even during tough times.

Relationships are unique, but these insights offer valuable perspectives to consider when building a long-lasting and fulfilling marriage.

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Musk have tweeted, it's a terrorist attack. Sheathe your swords fellas.

alanto:
The way obidients chose their moniker can be overwhelming but it always denote their IQ. Of all the nickname a man can have on a faceless forum you chose to be mugun.
Oga o

ALanto in Igbo language exactly means, "land of Kidnappers" but I'm sure it makes sense to you. What makes sense to you might not for others.

The Mugun he bears have an "N" and not the usual Mugu.

Meanwhile we know popular APShit supporters here that bear verified silly names like, offpointNG, confirmedzombie, pressmybutton, which can be denoted to "press my mumu button" because that what he always remind me of.

And the funny thing is they even live up to this names but to you & them this names makes sense.

Dude attack your RONU crew first before you cast the stone on the most sensible youths in Nigeria.

jmoore:
Law of karma and Tinubu that sold hard drugs is now your president. Abacha children and grandkids are still enjoying his loot.

Did he get there based on popular vote? Was he rightfully elected and the majority choice of the people?

No, he didn't get there because a lot of people voted for him but because he literally bought his way to power.

Dude is still actively evil that's why he doesn't give a hoot about what you guys are passing through. His time is coming. Bookmark this for future reference.

Regarding Abacha how did he die? It was said he died of a heart attack but report has is it that he was murdered and their have been several controversies surrounding his death.

Even FFK aka anywhere belle face has an interesting story surrounding his death.
Read here 👇
www.facebook.com/realFFK/posts/general-sani-abacha-was-killed-by-one-of-late-yasser-ararats-bodyguards-he-admin/10159504880017210

So in general dude General Sani Abacha did not die a Natural death.

Go and Check all the evil men in history, they never end well. Even the Bible made us to understand that. If you know history you would have known all this.

Once you both are having any form of sex, then it a sin. Don't get it twisted.

They will avoid this thread like electric charged barb wires

The want to eat their cake and have it. Even they end up marrying one, because of their lack of self control, they would become obvious cheaters in marriage which will make the once virgin girl to go cheating too.

And in the end they will begin to tell you "how character beats virginity," how a girl can be a virgin but still have bad character," simply because they have been served a piece of their cake.

As if "self control" is not a fundamental aspect of good character.

I don't support cheating of any form but I just love how Nature works, what you give to it is what you get.

You do bad, you get bad in the end. If you escape it that evil will hunt your generation. You do good you get rewarded with good in the end.

If you don't believe in the law of Karma, the law of nature will humble you.

HelloHelloagain:
Your imam have told you another rubbish Abi ?

Let me juggle your memory incase the Friday slamming did shit it .

On October 7th 2023 rabid infested Islamist invaded Israel screaming allah akabar on the top of thier lungs killed and abducted dozens of Israeli civilians.


On the 8th barrage of missles were launched into Israel from GAZA.

On the 10th Israel strated responding.

Now was Israel at war with Lebanon?

No

Was Israel at war with Yemen ?

No

But in the virtue of the 72 virgin connection from Yemen boom Israel collected on the water front .


Lebanon started firing and you expect Israel to go into Lebanon and give Hezbollah candy Abi ? They should not respond

I wonder why there is victim mentality in Islam why? And you guys like to scatter history and change it to suit your rubbish reasoning

You don finish this people. You have said my mind.

I just pity people who take this guys called clergymen serious. After running around I just decided to stay back at my Catholic.

At least a place where if you do something wrong someone will call you out and call you to order.

One in a million moment. Affliction shall never arise in death in our lifes.

Now Speed aka Akpi alias NiggaRaw Nwanne has become more popular. All Thanks to Burna Boy.

Accusations can be funny and shocking sometimes, definitely not something any of us will like to face especially if we are not guilty of what accused, but what do I know, those guys in the music industry sure know what you and I don't. 🥴

Softmirror:
The should not make the mistake of keeping him like Nnamdi Kanu. He should be killed straight!!!

And you think if MNK dies the journey ends? Simon Ekpa is already there, and even if he dies a more dangerous freedom fighter will emerge. Dey play! Biafra is a spirit that can never be quenched. The day you realize this is the day you realize peace.

Hamster Kombat the undisputed - LORD OF DUST

TriCee:
Lol, na too much expectations kill una. Keep tapping though

Move this front page for me with this caption:

The dust bender

Emekaonline:
Hahaha. It is not difficult to spot the emergency lovers of Nigeria. Where were you when police were deployed during Peter Obi in Anambra? To your dude brain, Democracy was not in danger then? What a shame. Did you know that it's that bad then that oppositions politicians were not even allowed to campaign FREELY in Anambra? Go and ask your family that were old enough to know that even El Rufai was detained on the order of your Peter Obi. Please stop the bullshit and use your brain

Gbam! I no talk am, this one falls into the ignorant category.

We heard the story a d we know the real story. I've been through this countless times and I don't have the strength to argue this joyful afternoon.

Kindly visit the thread below where I responded to one of your kind – to rid yourself off this sickening ignorance.

👉 https://www.nairaland.com/8166474/why-didnt-tinubu-handle-fuel#131167406

Pharaoh let my people go!

"This is an attack on democracy! How can you have a free and fair election when opposition leaders are being rounded up and thrown in jail without any charges?" One user queried.

Another user added, "The APC is using federal might to intimidate us, but Edo people are not cowards. We will vote for the candidate we believe in!"

The day some ignorant Nigerians made the decision to vote APC, that was the day the destruction of Nigeria started.

APC is only hear to steal, kill and destroy, A civilian government that is daily becoming a military government.

Nothing good can come out from a government who the principal (Ebola BAT) believes that "power is not served but grabbed by force and because he feels it's his turn."

"People who voted APC again after the disaster called Buhari, after seeing the signs from tax collector and chief Briber are either ignorant, tribalistic, religious fanatics or naturally stupid/foolish." Quote me anywhere.

You hired an unqualified pilot who doesn't know any button to push other than the autopilot button but asking us to pray to God to direct the Pilot hands.
O wrong nau!

Tinubu is like a Pharaoh who is here to stay. The sooner you come to terms with this, the better prepared you'll be to handle the challenges that will come in the next six and a half years.

EreluRoz:
Jonathan wasn't actually a good president, he destroyed Nigeria before leaving office as a revenge for losing the election to Buhari.
If any ex president should return to fix Nigeria it should be Obasanjo, he's the only ex president that can fix Nigeria.

You Tinubu and APC supporters won't kill someone 😂
What an opinion! 😏 Anything to massage your shattered ego is always welcome to you and your dodgy kind. The vast majority knows the truth.

Tf. The South is just where these lots know how to flex their muscles. Very sentimental and political motivated zombies.