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It happens when they are all responsible, but 99% of the time, it doesn’t.

The reason it doesn’t happen is because of the bad character children exhibit. Respect you see begins at home and reflects in Life.

Discipline and respect often determine how much love and blessing children receive from their parents. While responsible parenting is key, children also play a major role. Those who are obedient and loyal tend to experience deeper affection and support.

Unfortunately, when children talk back, disrespect, or even harm their parents, it creates emotional or physical wounds that can affect the relationship permanently.

Personally, even as an adult, I would never raise my voice at my mother—let alone insult her. When I see others do it, I’m genuinely shocked.

Respect is powerful. It’s often the reason people return—even after mistakes. A man may err, but if the woman he’s with carries herself with deep respect and dignity, he’ll often come back, humbled.

As men, we don’t mind going the extra mile or making sacrifices for a woman who is respectful, wise, and loyal. Sadly, many marriages fail today not because of lack of love, but because of lack of mutual respect.

Whether you’re a son, daughter, husband, or wife—respect is a foundation you can’t afford to ignore.

Badfinga:
Background check of the would be wife or husband is necessary, though it won't reveal all the informations you seek. But it will give a glimpse of who you are about to marry.
About the goodbye knacking, it happens so often. This has led to some ladies pinning their ex's pregnancy to their husbands.

Yeah we believe the child she is carrying doesn't belong to the husband. And to think that the husband is even rich but the ex she is selling herself to her is a guy (once neighbors) who is still struggling with life and doesn't give a shit about the whole thing (he literally said this) and doesn't have plans to marry her.

Acidosis:
His choice. Even if Peter Obi resigns from politics today, what's the worst that can happen? Tinubu wins again and hands over to one of his boys in 2031. That one will rule till 2038 and by then, most of you would have clocked 55 😂 We go repeat and rinse tire and nobody will be spared. It wouldn't matter whether you're Obidient or Disobedient.

The sad reality. Funny how people who have done worse are now crying fowl even though they haven't gotten a quarter of the taste of their own medicine.

happney65:
From a people who brought terrorists to win the 2015 election getting angry over online comments is what still makes me laugh and shows your hypocrisy

People who called GEJ names,brought a coffin of GEJ. Stoned his convoy, used the chibok girls as pawn in their game all because they wanted to win political power.

Beat Obidents for voting. And even told them not to come out to vote..Now getting angry over online verbal talk is the biggest hypocrisy of the 21st century

As in,if Obidents decided to give it to you back the way you do to others,you should know this country will not contain any of us. If we decide to beat you people back the way you go beat obi supporters you won't find it funny.

We haven't even done 1/3 of what you did on your way to power. And this is just the beginning because after you have failed, you are getting more and more frustrated.

Shior

God bless you for this comment you said my mind.

musazulyadain:
By now this man suppose to know his faith, why are they still keeping him there

musazulyadain:
By now this man suppose to know his faith, why are they still keeping him there

Tjra:
It doesn't make sense honestly.

He ought to have been sentenced to life imprisonment for all his atrocities.

We can't afford to be feeding him fat from Taxpayers money. Have you seen how big his tummy is?

He should his fate right now.

Ronuus and tribalists are so eager to see the pin in the ass of their fraudulent one Nigerian disappear.

What they don't know is that Biafra is a spirit that can never be quenched and if Nnamdi Kanu disappears today another freedom fighter will emerge.

Maybe this time emerge with something the Nigeria government and the Jihadist army sent to the SE will find hard to counter. 🚀💥

Badfinga:
Do you think this is a enough reason to end a relationship?

I know a girl who is pregnant and married now but still sleeps over at her ex place. She was pregnant but visiting her ex till marriage.

There’s a trend going on right now mostly by GenZ that many people might not be aware of: a lot of your wives gave their exes what we call a “goodbye/send-off sex.”

The last time I brought this up, I got messages from men telling me to shut up and stop exposing the secret. But I have to speak on it—because it’s wrong.

Even the men who benefit from it wouldn’t tolerate it if they were on the receiving end. Let’s be real—no one wants to be betrayed like that.

Apart from avoiding ladies who keep in touch with their ex, before you marry anyone, act like a stranger and ask around about her past and present ordeals. You will learn a lot.

I have come to understand that women are very manipulative. Especially with those crocodile tears the usually shed. If you fall for it and they know you do, it is finished.

Sex is spiritual than most people think. People should learn how to avoid it completely until marriage.

sreamsense:
According to you, the judges were bribed by Tinubu and your Obi has no money to bribe but to dig bore holes after loss, right? Even your best Biafran lawyers that ipob rated as no dey loose case couldn't even expose the judges that collected bribe because they were just there as figure heads to waste Obi money, right? Only ipob and many obidients are the ones I know as not wise, are you one of them because even your reasoning here has shown where you belong.

Since Lagosians are not bold enough to confront him, you can relocate to Lagos to teach them how to be bold. You never finished teaching your state to move out of poverty lane, it is Lagos that is the richest state that you want to teach how to be bold.

You quickly deviated to Obi and his lawyers—typical behavior of a R-O-N-U. Can you guys go a day without mentioning PO? See how Obi is living rent-free in your head.

Speaking of proof—if the evidence of the broad daylight rigging that happened across the country, especially in Rivers State, was presented in court and still rejected as "no evidence," and the mantle of leadership handed to Tinubu, is it now that he's President that proof of judges being bribed will be accepted in court?

You and I both know that anyone who leaks such secrets would be as good as dead—because Tinubu is heartless and doesn't understand democracy or leadership, only rogue politics.

Mehn, thank the British and Nigerian governments for once making Lagos the capital. If not, where would most of you Yorubas even proudly claim to be from?

Just look at the beautiful nonsense you composed up there, completely deviating from the main topic.

Honestey:
It's so so bad and it's a serious cyber bullying going on out there. I replied to a guy that posted a video saying the 30km coastal road commissioned is actually less than 30km. In my words 'somd people have visited it and commended the government ' but one ANIMAL replied by calling me names. I was shocked when others started abusing me so I decided to take down my comment. Is this what media is meant to achieve just because we wanted a particular person to become the president?
How would I and others believe that such presidential aspirant meant well for the people? It's looking like a nationwide cultism and scary.

I don't support insult but If you type rubbish you get properly bashed. People who support Obi don't support condole nonsense and they are people eager to see Nigeria work.

I wonder if you will be saying the same if you a messi or Ronaldo fan and you get scolded by fans of either side. Next time you curtail your tongue.

And for the record wether PO wins or not, we true lovers PO will gladly waste that vote on him come 2027. People like me have already made up my mind on Tinubu rigging things up if the coalition won't work and I have started preparing for the rainy days. You should start doing so too.

sreamsense:
Your degree of inborn hatred has no effect on Tinubu because even past election of majority voting him which your court case failed woefully to turn it upside down is another proof that he is love by many. Defection of almost all your party members LP and PDP is another indicator that he is loved by many. Millons of love Tinubu received has countered and negated your own inborn hatred about him.

Since 1999; Lagos as most populous and richest state in Nigeria still remains under Tinubu because he is loved by many, so he never knew you existed somewhere filled with hatred. Your hatred had no effect on Buhari, he enjoyed his 8years and getting all his dues as ex-président while you are still nurturing your own hatred. How are you enjoying your life with this trailer-filled load of hatred in your heart? You better allow breeze of love to enter your soul and stop being bittered.

You don't need to know of his performance in Lagos, people he ruled knew it and his brilliant performance majority saw in Lagos won him election. Even Soludo had to hire Tinubu people to train Anambra because people that matters saw and recognized his performance in Lagos. So, your hatred about him holds no water, it is you who should free the heavy load of hatred about Tinubu in your life to enjoy breeze of life

The two bolded statement is one of the biggest lies in history.

Everyone knows the reason the Judges judged to his favor was because they were bribed and threatened.

And he wasn't willing left to control Lagos but holding it siege because Lagosians ain't brave enough to confront him (you know the word).

Brendaniel:
If you are a Nigerian and you still see IPOB or ESN as a terrorist group then you are one of the most decieved person in Nigeria...

Just pause for a moment and ask yourself this:

The ESN and IPOB the military constantly goes into the bushes to fight in the south east , have you ever seen any news of the same military going after Fulani herdsmen killing people in the same south east?

Then ask yourself again why in the whole world, the only country or institution that called IPOB or ESN a terrorist organization is Nigeria while the same Nigeria doesn't see Fulani herdmen as terrorist group while the whole world and all foreign institutions see them as the 4th most deadliest terrorist group in the world...

That's why you shouldn't believe everything you read from the Nigerian media especially about IPOB and ESN because some are purely government sponsored, don't be deceived

Everyone knows this na just tribalism dey worry them.

Iweakbro:
Little kid. Politics is not a game of emotions.

Really? But emotions triggered the decision that was taken to place the state on standstill. Funny.

BafanaBafana:
Not him, it's the federal government

But orchestrated by him. You think he can't convince Tinubu out of it if he wants to? He /they just want to extend it just to humble him to accept his fraudulent salary request.
He simply sold Rivers state to Tinubu making it stress free for Tinubu.

Basicend:
Well, Obi looks like a good man and he might be able to steer the economy in a better direction than the incumbent leader.

But, where does he get monies like the N20 million that he dashes in most places? Where does he get monies to be travelling to Italy, US and all these overseas events up and down almost every day?

Only a very rich man in the current Nigerian climate can afford those spendings.

I can't trust any Nigerian politician. They are somehow all the same.

What planet did you arrive from bro?
Peter Obi was a billionaire even before he became the Governor of Anambra state. This is a verifiable and well known fact. A simple Google search would have helped.

This is the man holding the whole Rivers State hostage. Rivers people fall my hand sha. No levels at all.

Peter Obi allegedly agreed to be vice to Atiku, but Atiku has selfish ambitions that Peter Obi doesn’t want to be a part of, in order not to tarnish his good reputation. Reason the coalition is having issues.

If only Nigerians could think for themselves and realize that this man, Peter Obi is the closest thing to “right” we have in this country, everyone would be rallying around him.

illicit:
I do like every body (girls) but I prefer ibo gals, we just vibe...

It's not Ibo but Igbo. Ibo is just the short form of what the british called us when they can't pronounce Igbo. Please take note.

chidiokay:
where headphones and listen to yourself, how is sell out or backstabbing the same with Tribalism
whatever the yoruba boy did to you he could as well do to any yoruba for that matter ... so whats the point

i don taya to dey follow you argue gibberish jare, think as you like. ciao

No point as usual. Always dey carry vex enter the conversation. A conversation you consider argument because of anger and making me repeat something I have said and made very understandable many times.

As if you don't even read what I explained. Abi na comprehension issue I no just know.

helinues:
Another reprisal attack

When the North are ready to stop the killings, they should let us know

Good advice but the major responsibility lies on the government not the citizens. It's sad you would rather act hypocritical to be bashed than condemn them.

I wonder how you sleep at night. For how much exactly? What will they pay you to sacrifice your peace like this? Why!

chidiokay:
Oga stop playing clever by half, you said majority of Yorubas are tribalistic or you dont know the meaning of tribalistic

it is easier for any yoruba to admit yorubas are sell out we dont even deny it, that one no follow

i as far educational knowledge is concern, we have yoruba, igbo and hausa in Nigeria.
i dont even believe Ss & Se are not same it is just like Hausa n fulani

So in the south west how many times have we rioted with igbos or yoruba abi delusion just dey worry you
if you dont feel safe in Lagos thats on you, we have more igbos in lagos than any other foreign state. maybe they are blind, you see what they dont see.

Despite the fact that I didn’t outrightly admit this — is the bolded part a lie? My main stance is that most Yorubas are not to be trusted. They can say one thing today, and by the next minute — just when you’re about to finalize things — they say another or, most times, throw you under the bus without you even knowing.

This is something I’ve observed countless times from different people. My best friend back in secondary school was a Yoruba boy named Yakubu, but the dude always backstabbed me — even though whenever he ran into issues, I’d be the one at the forefront, taking the blows for him.

Weren’t you the one who mentioned earlier that Yorubas do rise up against Igbos in Mushin? Is the violence against Igbos during the 2023 presidential election a joke to you?

Riot can come in different forms: it can appear as threats to life, gang-ups, or outright violence against a particular ethnic group.

If you know the South East and South South are mostly one, then why brag that the West is the safest for the Igbos?

My discomfort with Lagos started after the election — and there are thousands who felt or still feel the same.

People who chose to stay did so because of established investments and businesses, not because they actually or completely feel safe. Many others, who had plans, simply made the decision not to move there for business or investment.

You say what you say because you don’t fully understand the ripple effect even the tiniest violence or conflict can cause.

chidiokay:
You are just being untruthful, their is no tribe that sell out than yorubas,

Forget any experience, if igbo get problem with yoruba for mushin, you will see yorubas behind the igbo.

Yoruba land boasts of top notch hospitality to visitor/strangers. In Nigeria of today their is no region you can feel save among strangers like SW

i am not just talking it is reality

See how you just confirmed the same thing I’ve been saying? It’s that same betrayal and sellout most of you guys do.

Betrayal and sellout isn’t standing for truth.
Please don’t mix this up. Igbos hardly betray their own but will, 97% of the time, stand for their own. They only betray you if you are a serial betrayer or a scammer.

Speaking of conflicts, how many times have you heard Igbos attacked Yorubas in Awka, Owerri, or Enugu? Please tell me. And you say your region is the only place we feel safer?

We Igbos are the most tolerant when it comes to accommodating people. This is a known fact.

If not for some irresponsible Fulanis killing and maiming, no one would hear of any conflict.

If not that the Nigerian Army killed several Igbos years ago in search of Nnamdi Kanu—because of an order from enemies of the Igbos—the current conflict wouldn’t exist.

But because of hatred and stories passed down since the civil war, most people from other tribes have intentionally refused to live or invest in the South East, fearing they would be killed—which hardly ever happens.

Lastly, how can you say there’s no region we feel safe like the South West? Have you forgotten the South-South is close to the South East and we have a good number of Igbos there doing business comfortably and peacefully?

How many times have you heard Igbos had riots with Akwa Ibomites, the good people of Cross River State, or even Bayelsa—like you guys do in the South West?

How can you say the South West is the safest when your people attacked us during the last presidential election, simply because we decided not to vote for Tinubu—for reasons very glaring to everyone today?

As an Igbo guy I can't feel safe in Kwara and can't also feel safe in Lagos.

Even in the North, have you also forgotten that we have Abuja, the country’s capital, where I lived before moving abroad and felt safe all my life? Come on, think for yourself, man.

Geesunny:
That is not the only place the Bible talked about tongues. In 1corinthians 14, it talked about the interpretation of tongues. If there is need for interpretation,then not all tongues are of recognisable language. In the original greek translation of the bible, 'others tongues ' actually mean 'of uncertain affinity ' or not naturally acquired. The things of the spirit are mysteries.

So this is a reason so called men of God should fake it right? Keep playing. My stance is simple. Speaking in tongues actually exist but 99.9% of the time it is faked.
DO WITH THIS INFORMATION WHATEVER YOU WISH. Don't quote me again.

chidiokay:
Incase you dont know, yorubas have a long history of not condoning nonsense.

All that "Our son" " Our brother crap dont prevail in yorubaland, you mess up yorubas go open your yansh in public

When Obasanjo was president is biggest critics were the yorubas, go n check those insulting bode george they are yorubas

weytin.you no know you no know

A few of the sensible ones not the majority. I have lived and interacted with your people far too long to know.

The vast majority of your people aren't straight forward, can deny, sell you or opt out of an agreement at the last minute leaving you helpless, stranded, most times because of cowardice, greed or simply the dislike they have for you.

That's why majority of you guys hardly condemn Tinubu. We find more daily supporting instead of condemning. Something Igbos would have never done.

The fact that there is a faction, when everyone is suppose to be on same page says it all.

Igbo don't flow like that. If we want to go all in (especially when we stand for something right), we go all in not minding whose ox is gored.

If you are an elder in Igbo land and you mess up, we mess you up. We have a believe that fools also grow old. so we don't worship elders like you guys do and find it hard condemning them.

Me saying this doesn't mean we don't have our baggages too. I'm just correcting the notion that "you all usually condemn the wrongs in your society."

Exceed15:
Is Obi your president? Transfer your aggression on the sitting president that put you in this hardship

I consider him my president but APC E-curators attack him as if he is the president.

Exceed15:
Is Obi your president? Transfer your aggression on the sitting president that put you in this hardship

I consider him my president but APC E-curators attack him as if he is their president.

Did I just hear 5 million? lmao! For this skinny malnourished cow. Celebrity Comedians and hype sha.

I'm waiting for the people who feel they are more Yoruba to call them Omo Ale.

Helinues shinjawest Ttalk Yarimo and co food don set oo.

Tell us how they are disgracing the Yoruba nation for speaking the truth and how Peter Obi is the chief architect of this.

LibertyRep:
The man the refused to be cowed.

Going forward, anyone can support my candidate of his choice without being bullied.

You mean the way you guys bullied Igbos in Lagos during the 2023 presidential election. You guys can't even take half of what you dish out.

jayAjoku:
how do you know shahhababa is not human language that is comprehensible? have you heard all the human languages that have ever existed across civilizations?

But at least someone there should be able to recognize it just as God made it obvious on the day of the pentecost.

It's not just that, It's also the constant repeatation of the word or a particular word. If you can discern you will know immediately.

Why would you be repeating shabahbahbah after every one two words spoken?

You can also go to Google and check, there is no known language with the word shabahbahbah. It's only used by African clearly men to truly appear spiritual.

ArclordZerro:
This is the truth. Common sense. I think the problem with Nigerian believers esp. is that they don't read to understand the full chapter. Just pick a verse and make a note of it and they're fine. That's the reason why lots of people don't get this point till today. My two cents.

Yeah. Another thing people don't realize is that, the establishment of the school of tongues by some church pastors is enough reason and evidence to know it's all shades of wrong.

I mean why would you go learning something the holy Spirit bestowed on the disciples of Christ?

This is a topic that itches to the 3 layer of the skin and if you want to know how tolerant or aggressive that man of God you respect so much is, bring up this topic.

One word — Legends. Their memes will forever be legendary. Especially Osita AKA Paw Paw.