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Food for thought. This article is worth being in the front page. Every family, school and political office holders need to read and digest this article for a better Nigeria.

For centuries, African societies have often been labelled as backward, underdeveloped, “Third World,” or somehow lagging behind the evolution of humanity. While these labels are deeply rooted in historical, economic, political, and colonial narratives, we must also be courageous enough to examine the systems within our own societies that continue to shape our progress—or hold us back.

One of the most fundamental places to begin is how we raise our children.

For generations, the African child has been raised within a culture where discipline is too often confused with punishment. Flogging, hitting, humiliation, intimidation, and fear have been normalised as legitimate tools for correcting children. In many homes, schools, and social institutions, obedience has been valued more than understanding, and silence has been mistaken for respect.

But a child who is constantly afraid of punishment does not necessarily become disciplined. Sometimes, that child simply becomes afraid to think, speak, question, or make mistakes.

We must begin to move away from a culture of fear and towards a culture of understanding, accountability, communication, and positive discipline. Flogging and physical punishment should have no place in our homes, schools, or institutions. Children should be corrected without being broken, guided without being humiliated, and disciplined without being made to feel worthless.

We need to raise children who are confident enough to ask questions, courageous enough to challenge ideas, intelligent enough to think critically, emotionally secure enough to express themselves, and creative enough to imagine possibilities beyond what already exists.

A society that punishes curiosity will eventually produce adults who are afraid to innovate. A society that discourages questioning will struggle to challenge outdated systems. And a society that teaches children to obey without understanding may produce citizens who follow the status quo even when the status quo is failing them.

Perhaps one of the greatest transformations Africa needs is not merely economic or political—it is psychological and educational.

We must rethink what we call discipline. We must rethink what we call respect. We must rethink what we consider good parenting and effective teaching.

The African child does not need less discipline; the African child needs better discipline. Discipline that builds character rather than fear. Discipline that teaches responsibility rather than submission. Discipline that develops emotional intelligence rather than emotional suppression.

If we truly want a more innovative, confident, intelligent, expressive, and progressive generation, then we must be willing to let go of methods that belong to the past and embrace approaches that prepare children for the future.

The future of Africa is sitting in our classrooms, homes, and playgrounds today. How we raise those children will determine the kind of society they build tomorrow.

David Agama (ABAT)

Modern day relationship is soiled

Health is wealth, take good care of yourself

Big fat lie

When will humanity ever be at peace?

National sport festival should be held every year as usual. The unity of Nigeria is attainable through the sport festival.

Okay sir, I agree with your age, You are 19 sir.

dollytino4real:
short time 4 wetin bros

No be you sey you dey into hook-up?

dollytino4real:
be grand ma

How much for short time?
I am in Abuja.

dollytino4real:
Yes, addiction com dey bring cash na plus plus for the addictor

Be like sey u too dey into hook-up

If we get this kin thing everywhere for this country, this country go better in few years to come

She is not a bizness girl, "she is a business girl"

Na craze world be this o

Nigeria happened to all of us

Samirana360:
Na only fools dey take this one seriously

You don't know what you are saying, my guy. Primate Ayodele has been in the forefront of political prophesies since the early 2000's. I have seen many of his prophesies come to pass. I remembered he successfully prophesied the emergence of Boko Haram in Nigeria.

It is stupid of any christian to support this senseless Israeli killings.

Opoh

The wise one's should leave marriage for we the foolish one's. Marriage is not for the wise.

I am David, call me on 09167852805. Let's go down for a ride

I thought he was like 60 year old

Las las, peter Obi cannot solve Nigeria's problem.

I love Rufai Useni. He just showed that he is unbiased

If na Nigerian dog, him don see better meat like this o

As far as the basic knowledge is passed, the university is good to go

It is funny how women fall in love with immature guys,
Javis is a typical example.

Nothing special, all female animals go through the same pain and eventual healing.
If y'all keep bringing up this topic, women will either be scared of childbirth or feel society owes them everything.

Porn and masturbation is the hardest addiction to quit, but with God, all things are possible.

Mbape is unarguably the best forward of this generation

Ohh, my black race