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Quinolone:
That's a very good question Bruh

Not being free around girls is a normal psychological phenomenon, its our default state as guys

Its due to the fear of failure when it comes to our interaction with girls, especially very attractive girls

for example you are thinking in your mind "this girl is too fine, don't let me Bleep up and say something that will make her loose attraction for me"

Then suddenly we freeze up and begin to choose words very carefully, thereby blunting our natural wit and charm. Lol I know, I've been there

However these are methods to totally Eradicate that unnecessary behavior

1 Treat her like you'd treat any other human being Talk to her like she's a human being, have normal conversations, talk about her family, make jokes, just literally be your self

2: Treat her like she's your long time close friend: How do you act around your friends, you smile at them, you laugh at their jokes, you. listen when they talk, you sometimes tease them

3: Remember she's just a woman, don't place her on a high platter, she's not more special than you just because she's a woman

At the beginning of your encounter with her, your job is to make her get addicted to you, to get her very comfortable with you.

This is soo true I realized that I do this subconsciously to girls I don't like, and ironically they like me in return. Wow bro, you know your stuff. Please I will like to hear more

Quinolone:
Lol sure

Eye contact Is like magic if you know how to use it

Some General Rules :
1 Don't stare, its creepy
2.look into her 80% of the time when she speaking
3: Always look at her when you are speaking, shows extreme confidence

Learn how to give warmth with you eyes - Imagine you are talking to someone that is about to die, how will you look at them, exactly, with so much care and warmth

Learn to smile with your eyes- It makes you look more interested and open

When looking at her and something else gets your attention, take sometime before you look at it, it shows you are engrossed in what she is saying ,act like there is a magnet that you have to over power before you look at that other thing. Women love attention, and when you give it just right,.she will addicted to it and want more... At this point, its like a drug, and you can choose to give her if you want by using intermittent reinforcement, this is where she begins to chase you


If you've ever had a girl chase you, you know it isn't funny, cos they can be very desperate

This is very solid advice, I would try it on my next encounter, thanks

Wow, I found out a couple of these by trial and error, so I know you are on point. I will like you to talk further on eye contact pls