Please note that you can avoid adultery. It is within your power to do it, if you really mean it.

Carelessness is one of the major cause of affair in marriage not devil in the real sense of it as many people always claim when they fall into error. So follow the following simple rules you will never fall into adultery.

1: Never make anybody of the opposite sex your best friend with whom you share intimate discussions.

2: Never be with anybody of opposite sex at the time your spouse must never know you are there.

3: Never talk evil about your spouse in the presence of anybody, they will know you are not happy in your marriage and take advantage of that by showing you fake care and give you what you lack with your Spouse and destroy you.

5: Never visit a website you will not be proud to tell your children and wife/ husband you visited.

6: Avoid keeping secrets from your spouse, AFFAIR thrive in secrecy.

7: Avoid confiding in the people of the opposite sex, there should be somebody of your sex you can talk to, don't dig the grave of your marriage with your mouth.

8: Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favour from opposite sex. They will ask for sex in return they are not Father Christmas.

9: Avoid thinking that anybody is better than your husband or wife you don't know what their spouses are enduring at home,what you are seeing outside is just a show biz don't be deceived. Grass is only greener in the other compound because it is far from you.

10: Divert all your sexual fantasy towards your spouse. He or she is planted in to your life to satisfy you and keep you holy.

11: Always remember that whatever every woman or man has in his or her body, your spouse has it too and they are not different from each other, it is only faces that are different it is the same package.

12: deal with any sexual thoughts that is not directed towards your spouse, kill it before it kills you. Sexual error do not begin in the bedroom,it begins in the heart.

14: before traveling have sex with your spouse and put your mind to it that you will not have sex until you come back, that decision may safe your life and destiny.

15: Men, avoid looking at the front and back side of ladies and imagine what is there, it is stupid, childish­ and dirty to do that, that is what is called lust, what is there is not different from what your spouse has, please don't be stupid sir.

16: Walk in company with good and Godly men/women if you keep company with adulterer you will become adulterous.

17: Discuss your sexual desire with your spouse and let it be met at home, don't hunt for something that will hunt you later and hurt you deeply tomorrow, your wife/ husband has the best, get it at home.

18: fill your heart with the word of God always, this will not give lust a chance in your mind.

20: Always count the cost of adultery, don't just look at the pleasure, look at the pain, loss of integrity, how you will hurt your wife/­husband, children, friends and above all GOD the almighty.

21: Always remember that the enjoyment, pleas­ure and the thrills that is in sex is just 8 seconds or less, it can not be more than that but its repercussions can last for eternity. Why trading eternity for 8 seconds, is there wisdom in that?

*BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE AND YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID*.

22: Pray regularly for your Spouse(s) and your family.

23. Don't compete with your spouse especially on evil (adulterous or argumentative) issues /activities. Always try to be the loser if such Competition occurs, and you will not only save your marriage and family, but you will eventually become the winner in the end.

May God Almighty bless your marriage (Home).

(Share this until it gets to all married couples. You may be Saving a soul or a family).

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Here is what you need to know in order to stay safe from a new, sophisticated phishing attack.

Hackers have launched a new phishing attack that is tricking even tech-savvy users. Here is what you need to know in order to protect yourself:

Here is how the attack works: Hackers who have breached someone's email account look through the emails in it for correspondence containing attachments. They then send emails from the compromised account -- impersonating the account's owner -- with each email leveraging similarities to prior correspondence, so as to make the new messages seem legitimate and familiar. For example, the phishing emails may use a subject line that was used in the past.

The hackers embed an image of an attachment used in the past into each phishing email, but configure the image to open not the attachment but, rather, a phishing page that looks like a Google login. Because the user is opening a Gmail attachment, the presentation of a phony Gmail login page does not seem alarming -- especially when the person opening the attachment feels that he or she has been viewing a "safe and familiar" correspondence. Of course, once the new victim enters credentials into the phony Google login page the criminals utilize them to access their victim's account. The attack has likely been going on for about a year with increasing intensity.

HOW CAN YOU STAY SAFE?

1. Always think twice before entering login credentials -- ask yourself why you are being asked for them. If you are already reading Gmail, why all of a sudden are you being asked for your Gmail credentials?

2. Do not log in to sites via log-in pages generated by clicking links. For any site on which you will enter sensitive information, always reach it by entering its URL into the Web browser.

§ To get the attachment to open a phony Google login page, hackers use a data:text URL -- beginning something like "data:text/html,https://accounts.google.com/." While that may appear to be related to Google, any URL that starts data:text is not a link to a website but rather content to be displayed locally. Never enter passwords or other sensitive information into any webpage with a data:text URL.

§ Enable multi-factor authentication. If somehow you fall prey to a Gmail phsihing attack and give criminals your log-in name and password, multi-factor authentication will continue to protect your account. Without access to your phone, for example, criminals would be unlikely to be able to access your email even if they know your password.

§ Businesses worried about similar types of attacks should consider deploying anti-phishing technology. Green Armor's Identity Cues (which I co-invented), for example, helps ensure that a real login page looks different for every user and can only be generated by legitimate web servers; technology of that sort would make it obvious to users - consciously or subconsciously - that the bogus login page is illegitimate.

§ Do not rely on warnings by web browsers: The red warning used on insecure web pages, the certificate warnings used for invalid certificates, and the "unsafe site" may not appear for data:text URLs. (Web browser companies should change this - any data URL should display a warning.)

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A Ghanaian refugee who almost died while walking across the U.S.-Canada border into Manitoba on Christmas Eve will lose all of his fingers, a toe and possibly his arms.

Seidu Mohammed, 24, who is being treated at a Winnipeg hospital for severe frostbite, was especially saddened by news from his doctors that he will lose a toe since he's an avid soccer player.

"It's very bad news," Mohammed told CBC News in an interview at the hospital. " I don't know what to do right now. When I lose my toe, what am I going to do?"

Mohammed said he fled Ghana for the United States in 2015 because he feared for his life due to his sexual orientation, but when arrived in San Diego, he was detained for a year.

He applied for asylum but a judge denied his request, so he fled to Canada, said Mohammed.

And so, he said, "I run for my life."

'Nobody stopped'

Mohammed and another Ghanaian man, who he met in Minneapolis, decided to flee to Canada. The two of them took a bus to Grand Forks, North Dakota, then flagged a cab and spent $400 for a ride to a spot near the U.S.-Canada border.

"There is a big farm around the border and we passed through," said Mohammed. "It was very difficult because when we stepped in that farm, the snow was [at] our waists."

For at least seven hours, the two trudged through the snowy fields toward their destination: Canada.

The pair ended up lost. On Dec. 24, they found themselves walking alongside Highway 75, near the Emerson border crossing.

The two men tried to flag down trucks passing them by on the highway. A truck driver finally stopped to help them and called 911 to get medical help for the frozen men. They've been in hospital ever since recovering on a specialized burn ward of Winnipeg's Health Sciences Centre.

"If not him, we would have died in that snow," said Mohammed. "Nobody stopped 'til this Good Samaritan, God sent [this] man. … We were about to give up."

On Monday, Mohammed and his friend met the Good Samaritan for the first time since that day.

"He was crying. We all started crying because he saved our lives," Mohammed said.

Journey 'worth it'

Mohammed is one of hundreds of refugees this year that have crossed the Canada-U.S. border into Manitoba between ports of entry.

According to Canada Border Services Agency figures, there's been a fivefold increase in the number of refugee claimants crossing between ports of entry in the past three years.

Mohammed has filed an application for refugee status and this week retained an immigration lawyer. Refugee claims are typically heard by the Immigration and Refugee Board of Canada within two months.

He is hopeful he'll be able to stay and work in the country and is grateful for all the help he's received from various groups, including the local Ghanaian community.

"I want to say thank you to all of you who show caring."

For Mohammed, the loss of his fingers and toe is a price he's willing to pay for freedom and a better life.

"The journey was worth it. I'm happy I'm here. To go back, I lose my life," Mohammed said.

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