@thetrailseeker I saw your pm how can I be of help?

Dear Lordbellish,
Haven read through your ordeal are you sure you want to continue with this wedding plans at the moment?
She still picks calls at odd hours and calls you a minor distraction.

She barely enjoys sex with you.
You’re also getting ready to travel abroad and leave her here alone where she can do as she likes.

You might be in love with this girl but you have to take a chill pill and decipher if she actually loves you too. If she’s really into you or she just wants to use you to get her family off her back(pressure to get married).

Does she chat on WhatsApp late into the night? If so clone her WhatsApp and follow her chats.

congratulations

hi zeongeon you sent me a pm. could you please tell me what it's about

I used to think it was just nigerians that love assumptions but now I see it's a general thing.

The Armed forces lady is wise. Should logic be used to evaluate the OP's post we would see that it has no bearing. There is no premise for the inference that's being drawn.

How did they infer the house help was the rapist? Why didn't the elderly ones report? for the elderly ones to have been able to get pregnant then they must have been of reasonable age and be able to tell their parents such things.

The lady isn't supporting rape, all she's asking for is proof without which no court would convict the house help.