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hi zeongeon you sent me a pm. could you please tell me what it's about

I used to think it was just nigerians that love assumptions but now I see it's a general thing.

The Armed forces lady is wise. Should logic be used to evaluate the OP's post we would see that it has no bearing. There is no premise for the inference that's being drawn.

How did they infer the house help was the rapist? Why didn't the elderly ones report? for the elderly ones to have been able to get pregnant then they must have been of reasonable age and be able to tell their parents such things.

The lady isn't supporting rape, all she's asking for is proof without which no court would convict the house help.

Interesting read, let me help you call
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naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]It's easy for these women to jump and attack any man once they hear he hit a wOman.

It pisses me off! Not because i support domestic violence but because majority of them who do these bandwagon thing aren't really women who deserve respect from men.

Yes he beat his wife.

When they are done, they will tell us how the insults have helped him in anyway. I feel his pain, I know he's sorry he hit her but I'm sure he lost it and there is a reason for that.[/color]

Nice post but let's look at this critically.
What exactly could the woman had done to deservethis kind of beating (look at how she looks like an accident victim)? Cheating? Slapped the man?
In as much as the woman could have done something extreme, you shouldn't beat her like she stole at computer village.

I know it's painful to see aspersions being cast on all men especially when few are guilty but men dothe same to them females too.
Peace bro!

pyrrhic:
I have this girl in my dept, she's got my eyes wide open and she knows Igor feelings for her. We talked very well, not until I broke loose and told her I'd love to date her . After I broke loose, she started giving me attitudes like, she'll see me Nd say even a hi, she'll jus act like she never saw me. I've tried all I cud to make her be the friend she used to be wit me but to no avail. She now sees herself as one God ova me. Don't know what to do to get her back. She's he one my heart beats for. Somebody, anybody, pls help

This is strictly my opinion:
When people don't value you, take the tiny piece of your dignity, carry it shoulder high and walkaway.
Bro, the first rule is Don't Woo The Girl.
When you woo most girls they add you to the queue of already waiting brothers and tell stories of a new crush added to their collections.

For now,
Ignore her, act like she doesn't exist.
Increase your swag.
Befriend her friends and ignore her.
Move with girls more beautiful than she.

donMIG:
Ok...but today we r hookin up...wat do u suggest we talk about?

Her hobbies

Most embarrassing moment
Happiest moment(tell her you both would create yours)
Talk about the entertainment industry and what's happening there

Her kind of movies(you both should be able to find a common point)

I don't know about others but I love to connect to the emotional side, since she's a fresher:

What difficulties she's experiencing in school?
When last she cried?
How much she misses home ?

As she tells her own stories, tell urs too.
Add a lot of humour, girls love humour.

When she's in the emotional state, escalate.
By escalate, I mean use touches, touch her hands and draw imaginary lines on it.

If you guys are close, compliment her hair, touch it, ask what style it is and tell of how soft the hair is.


When you both are done and walking out, hold hands or let your hand rest on her shoulders.

Let her know you care.

Don't forget use humour, lots of humour but don't appear like a clown.

#This is just my opinion it's subject to correction.

jake2much:
u no get sence. wen u matured more u will know marriage is more than dat

why do people like to debase and insult others over their honest opinion? the chic say she no like ugly face you begin insult her na wa o. izz no fair o

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Alot of peeps are in relationships for the sex, thrills and bragging rights.

Looking at it from another perspective, some men need ladies who can spur them to action, whom can help them excel, achieve their dreams and be a source of inspiration.
They want ladies who understand that sex is something mutual and for the enjoyment of both parties not something you do cos you want monetary gratification.

They want ladies who wouldn't heap their father's responsibilities on the bf.
sometimes, i advise my guys to look for girls who are content with what they get from home so that you gifts would be gifts and not some form of compulsory levy.

Also ladies should look for guys who share the same ideologies. If you know you want a NSBM r/ship look for those who share same, it's easier and better that way.

Also worthy of note is the fact that some guys have re-orientated themselves to see ladies as sex objects, same way some ladies see guys as dogs and money machines.

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Quincyolarks:
Okay Thanks!

You are welcome

Quincyolarks:
Okay Thanks!

You welcome

Quincyolarks:
Did you attend the interview slated for last week tuesday?

no

Quincyolarks:
I was told it has been postponed, did you get info on the new date? I suppose it was slated for last week tuesday but had to be postponed cos of the eid holidays but I haven't received email for the new date.

nop. don't know about that.