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Celebrities / Re: Chioma Chukwuka Vs Gifty Powers: Who Rocked It Better? by Dedeoma(f): 3:09pm On Mar 15, 2018
Chioma Chukwuka looks astonishingly stunning
Romance / Re: My Experience With Porn And Masturbation by Dedeoma(f): 2:05pm On Jan 11, 2018
Brunosamel:
Do you know in a typical ejaculation, there are enough sperm cells to impregnate the ENTIRE FEMALE POPULATION OF NIGERIA. The cost of producing such a high quality product is about a THIRD of your daily energy. Many of your internal organs are taxed and strained during production of sperm cells. That is A LOT of energy. After ejaculation, your body immediately begins to start manufacturing more sperm. After ejaculating, you may notice that you feel weaker, more tired, and your highest aspirations are to crack open a beer and watch TV
Here is the side effects of ejaculation

I’ve made a list of common feelings that some may feel after masturbation and ejaculation .
Results may vary:

Tired, sleepy............................ Unmotivated
Random erections.................... Lethargic
Weak, low, dull voice.... Wasting time/money on pornography
Anti-social, introverted, withdrawn.. Afraid to ask women out
Low libido............. . Perverted view of women, unrealistic
Afraid of conflict.............. Poor Sex performance
Avoid interactions...... Loss of sensitivity, less intense climax
Feeling of a lack of power........... Sore “member”
Pain/tissue damage...... Missing opportunities with women
painful urination from rough masturbation habits...Guilt/dirty feeling

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve missed GREAT opportunities with women simply because I had a lack of motivation from looking at porn and masturbating. It sucked, and in order to deal with it, I would look at more porn to make myself feel better. Talk about a vicious circle.

Finally I called it a quit the the help of God and books I was able to take control of my unconscious and conscious mind and put it to higher use.

It's common for nairaland to talk about the effects of masturbation and porn of male individuals. Is that to say it has no consequences on the female gender??
Family / Re: Wife Introduction: My Mum Insists On Pregnancy First by Dedeoma(f): 1:59pm On Jan 11, 2018
Uyi168:
If i ever decide to get married,my wife to be must be pregnant first before doing the needful...e get y
some people though..
It's because u r not sure of ur capability of impregnating a woman. Go do medical tests instead
Family / Re: Wife Introduction: My Mum Insists On Pregnancy First by Dedeoma(f): 1:57pm On Jan 11, 2018
Aquariann:


Let her go and marry the spirit then.



Those LTR didn't work out for a reason. Probably she turned them down when they were ready but she wasn't. Or felt someone better would come along you know, based on the hypergamous nature of women.



This is crap. So many people out there regret the sham called marriage today. Besides, if she can't be happy and find fulfilment outside marriage, she'll never find it within marriage. And at her age, she'll only be filled with regret s of the many suitors she turned down in the past because she had to settle with someone 3 years younger than her. Remember hypergamy I mentioned earlier? NO woman desires to marry down.


He's only seeing what she wants him to see i.e a born again Christian. Secondary virgin. I wonder at which point she decided to find her morals again.



You're saying crap again. Yes age matters when it comes to marriage. Any woman who desires to marry should do so in her most fertile years. And yes, the Op would do well to marry a nubile who would not only be able to pair bond with him while also looking up to him for direction, but would appreciate the little romantic gestures he makes every now and then. A 39 years old woman carries a whole lot of baggage with her having seen it all.

If she wants a good man, let her go back to her 20s and find all the men she turned down.
NA WA O... THAT'S
HARSH.
Family / Re: Wife Introduction: My Mum Insists On Pregnancy First by Dedeoma(f): 1:51pm On Jan 11, 2018
imasong005:
I have this little story to tell you. I visited my friend many years ago, and saw a beautiful young lady in her elder brother's house, when we came out, I asked her if the lady is her brother's wife, she said no, that she is her eldest sister. She began the story that brought about the sister coming to stay with her brother. She said her sister was in a relationship with a guy, when the guy took her to the mum, the mum insisted that she must get pregnant before they will get married, mind you, my friend's sister was a virgin. The guy finally was able to convince her, against other people's advice. The guy told her that as soon as she gets pregnant, the wedding will be conducted before people gets to know of it. Gbam, she took in, and she was expecting marriage plans to kick off immediately, again the boy's mother said she should just wait to give birth, that she doesn't want the girl to lose the pregnancy as a result of stress that will come during the wedding. The girl felt so bad, cos she has been deceived and she was was been gossiped all over the place. When labor pain started, she was rushed to the hospital and gbam, there was complications, and they have one option, remove the woman's womb or she dies. Off course you and I know what decision they will go with. The moment her womb was removed, her baby died, right there in the hospital. I didn't need to tell you how the story ended. The family of the boy outrightly opposed the guy from marrying the girl because she doesn't have a womb again. The story went everywhere. Six months later, the girl went visiting a friend, and saw the guy's wedding card. When she got home that day, she attempted suicide, that was how they brought her to the elder brother's house, so that she can be far away from the guy and his family. As I type this today, the lady is almost 45 but still very single. While the guy's first son is already in SS3. Sorry for the long post .Please girls be careful, don't let nobody put you under any kind of pressure because of marriage.

Hmmmmmmmn... well said and thoughtful
Health / Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Dedeoma(f): 1:39pm On Jan 11, 2018
CaptainJeffry:
grin grin Don't even think of enrolling in a seminary now. God doesn't take left overs.

See a doctor asap.


Hey, that's unfair. Besides who made you judge. (SMH)
Romance / Re: "A Girl I Paid 20k For Sex Video And Nude Photos Stole My iPhone 7" - Man Claims by Dedeoma(f): 1:23pm On Jan 04, 2018
nely:
Abet its to early for this, the year is still young, If he had use the money for IPhone 7 plus the 20k at least he would have done marriage introduction..common sense is not common
haba... mtchew
Romance / Re: Who Would You Marry? A Flirty Working Girl OR A Chaste Non Working Girl? by Dedeoma(f): 11:41am On Jan 04, 2018
richeeyo:
A virgin at a certain time would like to taste another Banana
It's boring eating one food for ever
lol

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