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Acidosis:
hmn...not so fast I'll be back. Alternatively, you can reach out in private

how do i reach out privately

Acidosis:
I'm glad I made you smile at least. I'll be more excited to see you with a great guy

n wat of lesson 2,3,4.........

Acidosis:
I'm glad I made you smile at least. I'll be more excited to see you with a great guy

OK...... thanks

Acidosis:
Okay, Lesson 1:



dis - this
ha - her
oda - other
n - and
togeda cz - together because
wit ha n - with her and
abt - about


There is something about the way you type - it attracts some sets of guys you really don't need right now.

loool
really
dis is new .
still thanks tho

Acidosis:
c'mon, you're no longer a "girl", but a lady..! Promise you will begin to act like one?

n how do ladies act?

Acidosis:
How old are you btw?

24

Acidosis:
Hmnn Kate Kate

yes.....

Acidosis:
Unfortunately, the tone of my post work better. It will leave you thinking, and eventually reformat your thought process.

Telling you to remain optimistic about your boyfriend's personality is like asking you to postpone the evil day. A guy on tattoo who smokes, and have been accused of a rap.e in a country like Nigeria has nothing good to offer a decent girl.

Even if he has all the good attitude in the world, still dump him, there are many decent non-smoking men who exhibit good attitudes also.

Chances are all robbery, rap.e and other evil incidences in your lodge would be attributed to your boyfriend because of his beliefs, looks, and attitudes. Don't let anyone sell any false quotation about being judgmental and all. Smoking, tattoo and other similar traits are attributable to hooliganism everywhere in the world, including the America where it originated from.

You deserve better although I'm almost certain you won't leave him anytime soon. Girls like you love 'bad' guys until they turn 28, 29, 30 without a meaningful relationship.

girls like me.... smiles
To say u know lil or nothing abt me, well for ur inform I left him but dat hasn't wiped off d scar n shock in me, n dats d reason for dis thread.... n if i ever go bk, then God knows Best...
m still thankful for ur post sha, u have done nothing but say ur opinion.. m grateful

BusinessHub1:
Firstly, I must admit that you sound homely (atleast through your writing) also, you are able to identify between right and wrong, even went as far as cautioning your friend about her wayward/loosed lifestyle.

Trust me that's not where you belong.
They say bad company spoils good ones. It's not a prophesy, but if you remain in that cycle of friends/lover, it's just a matter of time you'l accept their lifestyle to be normal and maybe possibly indulge in it too (already your last paragraph saw you saying you knows he smokes).
My verdict here is simple, "KNOW THYSELF".

thanks
but how do i get to know myself more dan this
everyone keeps saying know urself,
tot i knew myself or m i too naive or wat, cz trust me, m running mad wit confusion ryt now...
OK! I know i shouldn't have given him a chance at d first place but really don't pipu change?
is it dat God has completely forgotten abt them dat there's no room for change....
or is it wrong to want to help someone bring d good out of him or her?
m so confused dat my confusion is confusing me

Acidosis:
You and your cheating married corper of a girl together with the cheating housemates, the tattooed-smoker who also doubles as a rap!st and probably, a cultist, and every other person I can't mention right now need to get out of that hole.


There is more to life than dating a fried tattoed-smoker, and worst still, living and dinning with lousy housemates and a married slay cheat that kisses anything that comes her way.

dis is really harsh tho.... can't stop reading it over n over again..... advices ain't as easy to digest as we give them.. hmmmmm it's well

Acidosis:
Alright, but please note: PEOPLE DON'T CHANGE.


All the best dear.

hmmmm...... thanks

Acidosis:
Sorry for being harsh, but I think you deserve better.

it's aiit... tho it would have sting less had u jus say it instead of all those long.......

ifex370:
If I talk now.. They'll come n say " judge not". So is better I shut up...













My only piece.. Leave everything behind

would have loved to hear Wat u have to say, judging or not..
thanks for ur piece tho

Acidosis:
You and your cheating married corper of a girl together with the cheating housemates, the tattooed-smoker and every other person I can't mention right now need to get out of that hole.


There is more to life than dating a fried tattoed-smoker, and worst still, living and dinning with lousy housemates and a married slay cheat that kisses anything that comes her way.

Thanks

m a young gal of below 25 n was a in rshp wit a guy I tot loved me..
so it all started when I Jus came out of a terrible hrtbreak n a friend I met in service helped me up.
I stayed in ha house for 3 months n she helped me forget my anguished .
she had a housemate (note housemate not roommate) ,who was very quite, first time I saw him.,I jus know he smokes, he had a tattoo in his arm n it was an instant no no for me.. so I kept my distance. my friend is married but she n ha housemate played like siblings... she was closed to other guys too
there was a time I noticed she had something to do wit one guy like dat, I confronted ha but she denied...
fast forward to some months into d 3 months I was wit ha,
ha housemate started chatting with me n I got to know him better. I confronted him n asked why he smokes n he didn't deny but told me its something he has been battling wit, dat he actually stopped for a while but was tempted to do it again on his B-Day by his friends. I urged him to stop n he promised dat he has stopped... at least for d while I confronted him.
while we got closer he I was defending my friend as a very good gal but he told me not to say she brings dat guy she denies having anything to do wit to sleep over in ha room for some time now... I was shocked, he made me promise not to tell her which I did.. later on I moved out of ha house to my own apartment and one day I went to visit,i saw her crying and I asked Wat d issue was n she confessed everything to me abt dat guy. I consoled her n reminded ha dat she was married n dat she should stay away from guys which she agreed to....
While in d rshp wit guy, she'll always tell me dat she knows dat after service all will b over btw US, (dats myself n my guy) .
towards d end of our service year o started noticing her wit few guys again, like 2 guys... she didn't tell me cuz she knows I'll kick against it simply cz she's married.. so she told my guy, (ha housemate )
one of dis guys have slept in ha room n even kissed ha b4,while d oda who is my guys friend is used to sleeping in ha room n I suspect they have something togeda cz of d shady text they send to each other...
I was angry wit ha n wanted to talk to ha abt it but since she didn't confide in me concerning dat, (she always tells my guy,ha housemate) ,I talked to my guy to talk to ha..
he refused a first but later he said he will talk to ha, so I told ha to talk to him too.... once she she told me dat for ha to talk to my guy, she'll have to talk either in d night or early in d morning.. so I figured she wanted to say she'll have to sleep in his room... I agreed at fisrt but refused later... To cut d long story short, a day to when we would pass out, I read ha msg wit one of ha friendsn got to find out dat according to ha, my bf raped ha,i confronted him n he denied at first but later told d truth dat he did it but it wasn't raped, dat tho she didn't agree at first but later she gave in... I was shattered cz dis guy is someone I love wit all my being... he begged n begged saying dat it was when I asked him to talk to ha dat all d whole idea started growing in his get so i forgave him, but I refused to go bk... for her,i told ha not to ever call me again.....

now d thing is I love dis guy, n I believe in our love... I know he used to smoke n all dat but I love him n I really tot it was him,cz I m positive he loves me n is changing all his irresponsible deed lil by lil... but wit Wat happened, m confused m devastated....
I dunno Wat to do, I need help..... pls

Doxie69:
male

no wonder

sinaj:
If she doesn't quit, her conscience will kill her one day.




Let her quit b4 she slides into depression. If the man really loves her, he will make her happy by sticking to her decision.

is it dat easy
how will d man stick to ha decision if she quits

Doxie69:
Tell me something I did not know before.

She know within herself she would get laid, why did she reject the guys before only to go back and have the deed done. Some girls would be fooling themselves and claiming they are Christians. She had it the 1st time and still had it again, she must have been missing the cherry for long but decided to form rock, now she has been served

r u a male or female

SherDdon:
My dear its not as easy as it seems....love is so strong and powerful, I think they can overcome it it depends on the both of
them, and especially the guy....

I think u understand beta

pls nlañders I need mature advice,.. I'll b as precise as possible,for a friend
a friend of mine is in a dillema in ha rshp...she's in a rshp wit a guy she loves ñ who loves ha too.
they had sex on d first date ñ it continued.....
Eva since she has not been at peace (she was a devoted xtiañ b4 d siñ started), she has been distracted in ha xtiañ life....
tho she talked to ha man abt it he promised not to touch ha again
they both failed ñ went bk to it..
she loves him dearly... I know çz we av gone way bk,n she bearly take shit from guys... any fkup, she jus quit d rshp
in fact she left ha last rshp çz d dude was asking for sex,she believed she was keeping it for ha Mr ryt(she has been celibate for 5yrs)
Lil did she know she'll end up giving it outside wedlock,buh she cant find hasef leaving ha man
its a distant rshp,so they visit ones in a long tym..therefore there'll definitely b sleep overs,d guy is not buoyant enuf to pay for hotel bills during visitation
now d p is dat she's feeling guilty for d sin she's commiting wit ha man, çz she kñows dat God is not pleased,so she wants to quit
I told ha not to,dat she should pray n still discuss tiñs wit ha man buh she believes they'll still go bk to it....so amidst tears she wants to quit...
so guys I need ur advice on wat to do or tell ha
çz I believed in their love life...ñ I know she's not in ha ryt senses while making dis decision
no bashing pls
ñ yea...sorry if there r any typos

chymi:
ogun state sir

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please oooo biko, ejo sisi Abeg has anyone here printed their call up letter?? any posting yet? if yes wat r d procedures

should sex education b taught in junior secondary schools give ur opinions n reasons

true talk
wat everybody cares abt now are d num of LIKES N FOLLOWERS they get on social medias
buh d real tin to care abt are the num of physical persons dat truly appreciate ur worth n being n follow u for who u r n not wat u post

d snake would b saying 'HAD I KNOW' as its lying there eya

can male n female really be friends without any feelings of love in d future?

achinaboy:
don't even advice her, just tell her that u will be watching her when she starts going from church to church looking for miracle for fruit of the womb in future, i think that is a good advice

lol
u harsh o

Is it true,if yes does d rshp last?

nothing like dat here

jhydebaba:
Oh! Dont take it too seriously dear. I am just joking. Have a nice evening.

jhydebaba:
Oh! Dont take it too seriously dear. I am just joking. Have a nice evening.

noted