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Wumine:
Weak?  Did you just say weak? Dont generalize, cos i dont fall in that category. Once an ex always an ex for me and that is the end of whatever i ever felt. He's an ex for a reason. I dont go back once i've said bye bye. 

Osama10:
This was somebody you loved so much at a particular time, so whether we like it or not there is still that weakness on both sides, we just pretend to be hardened but deep inside we all know whats up.

yankite:
no matter hw bad a
person is there is always somethign good about dem,wey we fit no no but the person we close to dat person
no say he get somethigns wey dis my ex don do me wey i no fit forget lailai.

jayfoster:
Just as there's an emotional angle to s3x and relationship, there is also a spiritual angle. There exists a phenomenon called SOUL TIE, and the exchange of blood and other body fluids facilitate this. Besides, no two human being or lover are the same, so one must miss an attribute in an ex which the present guy/gal doesn't have. It may even be the fact that the ex was the first.

However, emotional, spiritual and social issues can all be resolved. It may take some time. But some people jump into new relationships without resolving and dissolving these issues. Worse still, some people keep multiple partners at the same time, yet they get into marriage with these kind of faulty foundation. In this case, even if the spouse is more endowed than all the exes combined and in all departments, there will still be wahala.

There are exceptions to the rule, but it takes a discipline, hard work, patience and determination to make your new relationship or marriage work, in spite of the fact that the new partner may not be as good as an ex in a particular area.

me2me:
****am not weak to my exes, i wld rather be laid by a gutter rat than my exbf ****   

 
@sleekchic: u look damn innocent though,

It could be that you have not had a b.f. you are very proud of, or you are not telling the truth

neily:
join them

bimbor:
Well i doubt if that person will still retain your sim, as @x-real said,if u have d serial number i.e the IMEI of d phone,this time,call your network provider tell them your phone is stolen and give them d no,they'll do the rest.

Good Boi:
Sorry to say this, INTIMACY IS THE PIVOT OF THIS TOPIC

tonte23:
A school of thought says" old firewood no dey die".  BElieve or not all the girls i have slept with and broken up with are still being bleeped by me.  No matter how we have quareelled and cursed and sworn not to have anythng to do with eachother; anytime i think of any of them and wanna have intimacy i just call them up, we make up on the phone and we book another appouitment for sex. And GBAM we "score" and ita ll starts all over again. quarrel, curse, swear and ,

livedit:
Lol, OMG! You all are so funny. But a-hem. I am NOT weak to my old boyfriend. I do know that when you are "intimate" with this person, your spirits have also joined together. This is why it's a good idea to make sure you are fully delivered from that person. This is speaking on the lines if you were "intimate". But it has been my experience that if your "ex" still have a strong hold over you is because you have not completely set them free. In those cases, only God can delivery them from out of your spirit. I was with my ex for many years and it took me nearly twice as many years to get over him. He too believed since he was the one that "deflowered" livedit, that he has a right to me forever no matter whom I'm with. But the bible says: The Devil is a Liar!!! God has delivered me from him and there is NOTHING that man could ever say or do to get me back or have ANY kind of influence on my life.

adaphik:
Hey not all ladies. However, I'd speak for myself. From my experience, only a gun to my head would make me do that. In other words, I CANNOT.