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Donshegxy10:
JMK
Biggie, I am not fine, I don't feel good, I feel both physically and emotionally exhausted, i feel like I don't feel genuine love from people here, I miss having people that genuinely love me but regardless it is alright

About your emotional exhaustion?
Like I said I don't feel genuine love from most of the people here, when you are going through physical pain, there is no one to really care about you, I am human and it is starting to affect me, it hasn't gotten to my mental health yet, emotionally I just want to lay in bed and cry, I am emotionally drained and I am tired of crying

Yet you brought tissue paper with you?
Biggie you know how to push someone, I came prepared for you just Incase you try me

Living with nineteen other people?
Biggie it's not easy o, but I don't think it is bad, maybe it's because of my person, I know how to read people and the energy they bring, I don't pass my boundary, the first week was something else but I was able to adjust, I like my space and some people respect boundaries, we have disagreement during tasks but me I like watching people, I am a pretty laid back person, I don't disrespect anyone and I don't expect to be disrespected

Biggie, person move my money o, during the last eviction show, I have 670 left from the last money you gave us

Menu ?
It came as a surprise, I have not seen anyone going to wash, food is compulsory, but it came as a shock

What items do you think biig brother should add?
No item please, infact if you can remove that washing machine, we love free things

Least trust housemate?
Maria, because I have heard her interactions, I have also heard her, what happened is opposite of what she said, when I told angel about it she said that is how maria is,she will say certain things and do something else, everybody know that she is not trustworthy

Anything else?
I won my task again yesterday, that was like a moral boost after my injury, I am glad I have been a part of the winning team most of the time here.
About the nomination, I think I am a easy Option based on interaction with people, I am yet to process everything but I still want to be here but if I go, I believe I am a child of destiny, three weeks is not a lot of time but for me and the way I think , I believe it is enough for me to make a lot of impact, either positively or negatively, if not for my injury, I would have enjoy myself this weekend, but I am fine

Bb: It is only normal to feel like an island in a new environment, if you express how you feel to your fellow housemates, you will know that such feeling is not unique to you.

Just because something is not legally a crime doesn't make it good. Adultery and cheating, generally, are not legal crimes. Juju is not a crime. And we all know the gossip in disscusion here is malicious talks you would never have the effrontery to repeat when the gossip subject is around

100naira:
degree of viciousness in what level? Gossiping involves talking about people whether good or bad, stealing involves taking what doesn't belong to you and murder is taking another person's life so what is the basis of the comparison in the first place? The former does not get you locked up in prison like the latter two so what degree of viciousness are you talking about? wetin concern stealing, murder and gossiping in the same sentence when talking about degree of viciousness? That's like juxtaposing a lion, a tiger and an ant when trying to make an argument on the degrees of viciousness since they are all animals.

I don't remember you being this savage last year

FIGARO00:
I said what I said.

Your cry never start.

You go soon carry bottle for here.

You didn't see with their 'degree of viciousness', abi? There is basis of comparison as they are both parts of the human interaction, but one is being excused because its not deemed a crime. And I still ask you, why is stealing a crime?

100naira:
but you did draw the comparison

this was you at the beginning of this pointless discourse



I'm trying to tell you that this comparison you made is all shades of wrong because there is no basis for comparison at all.

I have still told you that I'm not drawing a comparison with their degree of viciousness. If being good ruins you, at least your conscience can be clear you never meant bad for anyone. Why is stealing a crime, please?

100naira:
So you have not seen or heard good people being killed for being good? Good people have been and are being destroyed and ruined despite the fact that they are good people, that's facts. Whether you detest gossiping or not it has never been a crime and it's part of life, like I said people will always talk about people behind their backs whether for good or bad but to compare it with stealing and murder is just not right at all.

You know the decent dressing of these days was really indecent just hundred years ago.

fertilewomb:
I have noticed this on two occasions.
She is actually a sweet child and heavily misunderstood. She is fighting a lot of demons. I actually see her as a troubled child and most of the things she does is just a way of making herself happy in other to curb out depression which she easily falls into.

Nobody in that house understands her, cos nobody has gone through what she has at her young age. One minute she is happy, the next minute she is crying. Nobody understands her except Arin.

She and Arin has a strong deep rooted connection, maybe because people tends to judge their outlook appearance most times without cutting them some slack (Arin with the numerous piercing, and Angel with the indecent dressing/ vibes).

Angel is not an Olosho, no matter what people say about her, she is not.

Kikikikiki

teacherbim:
Is it true that Boma's fans are called ABOMINATION

Someone who is probably a virgin

KIDDRICAsHAWK:
Person wey dey craze. Na so e easy and he never put baby in any woman. Mstcheeeeewwwwwww

I left him to his BS last week. I would pity JB, but she is a snake

MizzD:
Michael says a lot of BS with so much confidence! Urghh

I dunno who wants that one's baby except JB

fitzmayowa:
Errrrrrmmmm Michael should pipe down on this put a baby in her like the gals are just baby factory machine......Whew!!!

Being good has ruined lives, how, please? The last time I was involved in gossip I remember is when I was in the early secondary school class. I've seen how gossip ruined lives unnecessarily, and I don't like how it makes me feel guilty to be gossiping. I also get restless when I meet someone I gossiped about. I also hate it when someone gossips about me, and I do all I can to not do something I can't feel good when it's done to me. You might gossip, but I detest it, and try to distant myself from gossips, as you can be sure you will be the subject of the gossip next time you are not around.

100naira:
Being good has also hurt and ruined a lot of people and things so I don't understand your point. Are you saying that you have never been involved in gossips in your life? People talk about people behind their backs all the time whether good or bad so I'm scratching my head trying to figure out how murder and stealing are being juxtaposed with gossiping.

I'm just trying to make you see other parts of life that are not beneficial. I'm not measuring by their degree of viciousness. Gossip has hurt and ruined lots of things, but excusing it because its part of life is akin to me to excusing a lot of other bad behaviors because its parts of life

100naira:
how can you compare gossiping to murder and stealing? are they in the same category? you might as well compare murder to kindness while you are at it since it's also part of life.

Who, please?

Giel:
Angel has 1000 + abeg naira but she doesn't really know how much she has because she hasn't counted in a while.

Angel is making me laugh in this her diary session.. she's very fun today.
She says big brother thinks he has seen something before in this house but the food fight that is coming, he will really see something due to this abeg menu that he put in place.

Big brother then said he should add payment for hot water or a swear jar.
Angel says if he wants her to just go home he should just tell her

Angel is begging big brother to cancel washing machine because she has been sad about it and she knows big brother doesn't want her to be sad.

Angel's least trusted Housemates.
She doesn't trust anyone not even herself because she's a human being and she knows how she is.

She doesn't think he is genuine. He can switch up on you at any time. He has an ego.
She says her perception of him is slowly changing though

Gossip is part of life, just like stealing and murder. Doesn't make any right.

100naira:
the thing just tire me, gossip is part of life whether you initiate it or you are in the midst of it so it's natural to see it happen in the house and most importantly gossips gives the viewers certain information we are not privy about. With the way some people react to things like this we wonder why prospective housemates will go into the house and play safe.

Face your Pere who called Maria untruthful, meaning she is a chronic liar, first. Let's see that one, since its free for all here

Geezeem:
He is vindictive
He doesn't forgive easily

But this is not very glaring

There is just something about the guy I can't connect to.

He uses his playfulness to cover multitude of sins

whereas Pere and Maria are too obvious

Well....... in the coming weeks, this place will be free for all .... it will be WM's fans vs Cross' fans

And i will be here for it

This swap is actually good for his game

How will Queen know there are snakes about?

safarigirl:
As a women empowerment and girl child activist, I feel like Queen should be so kind to take time out of her busy schedule, to talk to some of these women on how to support their fellow women.

The amount of mud these women have thrown on each other over deek is alarming.

Angel has not done enough for three people to spend 30 minutes out of their one hour that is supposed to be for chilling, discussing her matter.

Another mumuism is cooking

Threebear:
Biggie just set Maria up twice .

Put a Target on her back .

Denied her immunity .

Gave her a strike .

And left her for the dogs.

Maria do and come out of that stupid house .

We'll contribute that prize money for you .

I've never done a GoFundMe for a housemate but I'm willing to do for Maria .

We must punish her with excess money , a car and a house .

Can we now all agree Maria is manipulative

Giel:
Jaypaul has 1600 abeg Naira and BB token worth 200

I love Jaypaul's sense of humour

I didn't get addition to abeg menu but he did say he didn't want anything.

Least trusted.

Pere and Maria.
He says that everyone has realised that the 2 cannot be trusted but in the beginning no one realised this.
He says this is because Pere is such a fantastic actor and dangerous Gameplayer.
He says Maria is also a contender and a dangerous player, he says but for Maria, Maria likes to twist people so she is not on good terms with a lot of the Housemates but he says they fit so perfectly. Mr and Mrs Smith.
He says he told them he wonders how sex between them will be.

Ah, fight between my family people.

Giel:
Yousef has 800 abeg naira.

Least trusted.
Angel.
She likes to lure you into her zone and then she exits out. She's basically mostly selfish, you can't leave anything with her.
He says she can say she got you, the she leaves you stranded. He says she can leave you stranded on a desert and take the last ferry away.
He says she will tell you she doesn't have something but you know she has it.

Pere only called Maria what we viewers and the other HMs have always thought about her.

Because Cross kept something for Angel and JMK that she wanted. Cross still refused to give it to her after all her craze. She now understands Angel comes first for Cross, before her. Its paining her

FIGARO00:
Pls, teamie, why?

You forgot untruthful and sneaky

PlayMaker14:
Okay, but did you listen to your in-laws diary session?

He called the drunkard Maria manipulative, and he doesn't trust the snitch.

Well, you now know one who doesn't care

Leaforever:
I don't know any woman who likes the office/class flirt dt licks 'ALL' d boys. It's a natural reaction.

There are some enemies of happiness...sadists

Eeghe:
Which human being would not like Cross

Pere has finished Maria

So did SARS say.

Romanoff:
Na energy or vibe wey she dey give na.

I don't talk maliciously about other people around me. I'm talking about other people on a show.

Romanoff:
They are in a confined space. Of course they'll talk about each other. Don't you talk about other people?

Are we not talking about others people?

Now, we know why Maria trash talked Cross

Whats the other woman's business?

Romanoff:
She is. She keeps crying wolf for being slut shamed.

It is not wrong for a woman to call another woman a slut if the woman puts herself out there as a slut.

Why should her dressing be of concern? I hope you were not part of the people that protested against SARS, sha, whether online on offline, since you have the same reasoning with SARS. And its not her fault the way people choose to see her, its their business. These same guys will idolize Rihanna and Nikki Minaj.

Romanoff:
The way she dresses and the way she's with the guys. It places the tag on "slut" on her even without evidence. Then the way the guys see her, it's so irk worthy. The way they even talk about her is just......

You summed it up well.

creolehunt:
If theres anything to be picked from the Executive Lounge gist, it is how hateful, man-thirsty and resentful Maria is.

As she said on stage, her plan was to have the men feeding off her hand, falling over themselves about her and clashing over who will get her attention. Alas, na only Pere dey manage look her side.

With this realization, frustration kicks in. Knowing fully well that her well choreographed strategy has failed, with the Hope's of 90m slipping away, she now turns on the person who is living her "dreams". Take a bow Angel.

Granted that Angel isn't particularly rated, she certainly gets the attention Maria craves. Maria thought she could pull a Nengi when she doesnt even have half the sex appeal or exotism of Nengi. Perhaps she believed her light skin would put her a step ahead,.

Every single beef Maria raised against Angel was about a man, which is shameful considering she is almost twice the age of Angel. No man wants you, yet you wont let the young blood enjoy her life. E be things.

Okay, thats cool. Why have you crucified Angel without any evidence?

Romanoff:
None for now. I was leaning towards WhiteMoney but I'm liking Yousef and Saskay as well. So none yet.