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Family / Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by demoBaba: 3:30am On May 06
Jaycobbs:
She called your family, friends, colleagues... you'll never be able to win back the trust you lost. Even if you do, it won't be at the same level.

One very big issue staring you in the face is the long distance relationship you're having with your lawfully wedded wife. Either quit the job and find one closer to home, or arrange for your wife to live with you in the new location permanently, or for as long as the job requires.

Newlywed couple, y'all need to be spending as much time together as possible.

If your wife was around, you wouldn't have fallen into that trap. Make the move and make arrangements to always be together with your wife, show her your actions and she'll see you're serious about avoiding future temptations.

It won't be easy, but it's a first step.

If you're going to step out on your wife, at least do it with someone decent. I'm not condoning adultery, but nigga, if you missed the red flags in this your new side piece, then juggling multiple women is not for you because they'll probably both connive to kill you. You're better off remaining faithful to the Mrs.

"You got high"... Lol. Bro, is this the example you want to set for your kids? I don't know what got you high but as you can see, it probably doesn't have good effects, so maybe you should FVCKING GET RID OF THAT? I dunno.

You'll need to do a lot of begging. And the people who could have helped you might already be disappointed, so you may have to do most of the shii on your own. If you want her back, be ready to crawl.

There'll probably be lots of gifts, long talks, missed calls, and spending involved

Oh, and if she decides to revenge by cheating on you (who knows maybe you missed that red flag in your wife too), then don't complain because you set the ball rolling yourself.

Look for a male figure in her life she respects (pastor or something) and get them to set a meeting where you both talk.

If you want more couple's therapy, hmu.

If, against all odds, you're able to fix this, then keep your pants zipped, keep constant communication with your wife regardless of distance (you should make time to have at least thirty minutes to an hour of flirty, dirty conversation with your wife every day if you're separated by distance. This should keep the sexual spark in your marriage going), take steps to rid your mindset of cheating, and set up time to go for therapy with her to rebuild that trust you just casually threw away.



You wrote all this ontop some1 matter?
Family / Re: Notice To Quit by demoBaba: 3:09am On May 06
oladele239:


Where the money I just paid one last year December

But you've to renew the rent at when due in November......so use your propose new rent to look for another apartment.
Family / Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by demoBaba: 7:28pm On Apr 30
thesicilian:

Next time once she packs her bag over trivial issues call an Uber for her and help her move her stuff into the car. Even let her go with the baby. Then call her parents and inform them she's on her way. As long as you keep begging her not to leave, as long as she knows that she can always use the threat of leaving to gain advantage over you, you'll never hear the last of it.


Real man way Sabi.......

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Crime / Re: Twins, Others Arrested For Stealing Rice, Beans In Ekiti by demoBaba: 4:22pm On Apr 29
The commissioner had on March 25 paraded some suspects including a burglary suspect who burgled a store at the Ekiti airport on March 7 and stole some iron rods.



Ekiti Airport? They should stop this joke jare..

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Sports / Re: Bet9ja Confirms N3m As Settlement For Lukman by demoBaba: 3:05pm On Apr 25
slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

This story nor clear

If na the cashier fault unto she connive with her boyfriend to play a fast one on the the owner of the ticket

Why bet9ja dey compensate the owner of the ticket with 3 million

Shebi the matter go dey between the cashier and the owner of the ticket...why the owner of ticket and bet9ja go dey reach agreement of 3million


Nah cashier and boyfriend settled him with 3m


Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Quitting A Job Within A Month: Share Your Experience by demoBaba: 9:54am On Apr 21
Daviestunech:


I hate this pattern of work life actually..

I actually staying in Abuja with my family, I have deal with one my client, consulting for a project in lekki area, for period of 2 months, I was staying with my brother in mainland, going to lekki everyday was hell, enter BRT at Dopemu around 5:30am, close from site around 6pm, reach house by 9:30 to 10pm. I nearly have issues with my clients, not because of anything, but the stress. I told him didn't program my life that, he was shocked.

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Celebrities / Re: Pascal Okechukwu (Cubana Chief Priest) Granted ₦10 Million Bail by demoBaba: 12:37pm On Apr 17
edenex:
Efcc is an organisation that lacks focus and should be shut down. The agency has no tangible achievements. Hadi sirika. Ganduje. Immediate past governors are all living large after cashouts. So many things efcc should look into. But they are not


EFCC wasn't the one granted him ball, the agency has done their job, by arresting him and produce him before court of the law. So blame judiciary
Properties / Re: Landlord Throws Graduate-Tenant Properties Outside In Uyo During Heavy Rain-pics by demoBaba: 3:48am On Apr 15
Why adding GRADUATE to the headline

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Sports / Re: Bayer Leverkusen Win Bundesliga For First Time In 119-year History by demoBaba: 7:29pm On Apr 14
huptin:
This is Extraordinary...congrats Bayer...congrats Alonso


Without losing a match.
Politics / Re: Asari Dokubo Visits Gov. Fubara, Declares Loyalty. (photos) by demoBaba: 4:16pm On Apr 07
illicit:
I hope asari no get property for Abuja sha


🥵


Abuja no b rivers.....you can't demolish someone documented property.
Celebrities / Re: Bobrisky Pleads Guilty, Convicted By Court For Abusing Naira by demoBaba: 2:45pm On Apr 05
jchioma:
Haha! He’s been advised. Well, this will make things easier for parties involved, including the Judge and prosecutors. Las las, a fine (paltry sum) will be imposed, and life goes on with lessons learnt. Hopefully, Dude will be more discreet in future.


That's it
Crime / Re: Court Sentences Tiktok User To 3 Years Jail For Defaming Eniola Badmus by demoBaba: 10:13pm On Apr 04
Dialpad:
Absolutely stupid for pleading guilty... in all you do, Never pleading guilty.

She can never get visas to most countries

Much you travel? Enjoyment full 9ja bro.

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Politics / Re: Wike Inspects Ongoing Projects In Guzape Diplomatic Zone, Others (Photos) by demoBaba: 8:05am On Apr 04
kokoA:
Wike is performing a miracle in Abuja.

All those projects has started from previous government. Not wike approval
Business / Re: Name One Household Or Food Item Whose Price Has Come Down by demoBaba: 12:06am On Apr 01
Wainey:
Price of food isn't just going to drop and this is not about Tinubu.
Naira started dropping like a month ago.

Sellers aggressively stocked up their warehouses when Naira climb to N1700-1800 thinking it will climb further, so wait for sometime, some of these people already have 3months worth of items stocked up and they will always sell at the price they bought

99.9% Nigerian traders are very greedy, until we've price control.

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Health / Re: See The Big Scorpion That Died In My Bucket (photo) by demoBaba: 8:12pm On Mar 30
EreluRoz:
The mother is somewhere, so don't be too free.


You forgot to mention him Papa
Nairaland / General / Re: The Origin Of "Go And Flit My Room" (Throwback Photo) by demoBaba: 11:25am On Mar 26
Freshtruth:
You use this and u never marry or at least born pikin


Village people on the lead on your case

If you come still dey your papa house join

Village people has succeeded


You suppose don born finished

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Celebrities / Re: Content Creator, Egungun Proposes To His Longtime Girlfriend by demoBaba: 8:00am On Mar 26
Zonefree:

What happened to the last picture? undecided

She bought those clothes for him? undecided undecided



Don't mind her
Education / Re: Reactions As SS3 Student Buys Benz by demoBaba: 7:48pm On Mar 22
iCauseTrouble:
What else do you expect when the president is a druggie?
How do you tell young folks to work hard?
There is no difference between drug and fraud


You've problem
Politics / Re: Bashir Ahmad Reacts To List Of Terrorists Funders by demoBaba: 10:57pm On Mar 20
damosade:
Religion of peace disturbing the peace of the world.. Terrorism is their slogan not peace..
You see the clear difference between those that believe in christ Jesus and those that believe in Mohammed Allah..


Not all northern are Muslim, 35% of them are Christian......move out of your grip okay.

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Family / Re: Why Is My Mother In Law Asking For My Genotype? by demoBaba: 7:40pm On Mar 19
StraightGaay:
Does she love you?

Oga answer nah
Family / Re: Why Is My Mother In Law Asking For My Genotype? by demoBaba: 7:39pm On Mar 19
PHZADDY1:
When result come out your mind fit no touch ground angry


E no go touch ground.....werey dey speak English I love my wife and my girl.

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Romance / Re: Man Caught Allegedly Having Sex With Girlfriend In Bush (video) by demoBaba: 7:27pm On Mar 19
illicit:


Abegi


Stop making a mountain out of a molehill


People fvck anywhere, everywhere


It's not rape

😑



I dey tell you bro.....I remember during my service Year in Beune state omoh.....guy nah anywhere but nah copper to copper things.

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Crime / Re: N84bn Fraud: EFCC Re-arraigns Kogi CoS, Lists Ex-Governor In Amended Charges by demoBaba: 7:36am On Mar 15
Kingpele:
APC and corruption are 5&6...u could see why naira is crashing against dollar...this political bandits from presidency to local government councils , legislative will steal naira and convert it to dollars with the help of this bdc operators then give some bribe to judiciary and pocketed the rest ...this dollars will be taken out of circulation ..hence making it harder for business men who needs dollars to do international businesses.... corruption in this country is in full gear since the coming of the drug lord


There was no corruption Nigeria before until, Tinubu became president abi?
Car Talk / Re: Peugeot 504 Price In 1975 Vs Price Of Bread In 2024 by demoBaba: 2:09pm On Mar 13
Justnation:
Tinubu has destroyed Nigeria totally


What's your problem with Mr President? Ask your popsy his salary in 1975. Did you think 1,800 that time easy to get?
Politics / Re: EFCC Increases Charges Against Abiodun Agbele To 24 by demoBaba: 10:16pm On Mar 12
This case done tey nah
Sports / Re: How Much Anthony Joshua And Francis Ngannou Made From The Fight Last Night by demoBaba: 1:56pm On Mar 09
Cassandraloius:
It doesn't make sense, make una stop to calculate another people money cheesy

Comrade calm down

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Romance / Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by demoBaba: 12:40pm On Mar 08
BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"

But if this your guy stay in Canada it's not long distance relationship. Lagos is long relationship dey play.
Food / Re: Trending Video Of Noodles Sold In Nylon Bags by demoBaba: 6:36am On Mar 07
Judolisco:
Haba... Dis na age long practice now... It's from packets of indomie or spag that gets damaged during offloading.....be like say some of una no get work again


Most of those guys are villagers, selling those stuff inside nylon as been happening in the city many years ago......we understand the country is bad for now, but let have positive mindset about our beloved Nigeria.
Crime / Re: Robbery In My Neighbourhood In Abuja by demoBaba: 9:43pm On Mar 04
oglalasioux:


Google could have helped you but you chose to be emotional. Nyanya is under the FCT not Nassarawa State. Nassarawa state starts at Mopol Junction just by AA Rano filling station. By the way, Nassarawa State is closer to Abuja than Gwarimpa Estate. Don't let the heavy traffic decieve you.

Educate him jare
Family / Re: My 13 Years Old Has Become Terrible! I Want To Send Her Back To Nigeria by demoBaba: 7:01pm On Feb 23
9ja boarding skool you say? she'll add with her bad behaviour.

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Business / Re: See The Amount My Daddy Bought 10bags of Cement 32yrs Ago (see Here) by demoBaba: 8:52pm On Feb 18
money121:
He bought 10bags of cement at rate of #700

Mean 1 bag #70 shocked shocked

Do you think is possible to happen again in nigeria?

fergie001, Mynd44, OAM4J Seun Nlfpmod


Ask your Daddy his salary at that time.

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