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donholy28:
Hmmmm I can see giant chains of lust tied round u...she doesn't have a hold on u...ur mind is clouded with lust for her body... Repent

kilokeys:
Funnycation has a hold on u.
Konji has a hold on you.

U need deliverance.
Bathe with 7 soaps, 7 sponges and 7 up

pasqal09:
Oga, you're the one who has got a hold on yourself not her.

cyprianlah:
''In MI's voice''story for d gods my nigg.a tales by moon light

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]copy and paste [/color]

experimentist:
you gotta eat the p u s s y like groceries

BUTCHCASSIDY:
Aha! Thirsty nigga on the lose

andromida:
A chic who wants you all dark has issues and until she sorts herself out she will respond to dark niggas like you but one day she will get tired. The question is why would you be dark just because that is what some chics want why won't you be all of yourself and get what you truly want.

BUTCHCASSIDY:
Well... if you say so
I do what works best 4 me. I used to be this caring nigga, buying flowers writing poems and shiit
But it didnt work 4 me. Then I turned to the dark side, what do I get? Chics falling at my feet
A part of me still wants to write poetry etc .... but then I wouldnt want to look thirsty call it ego or whatever
works for me and Im happy as a swine in shiit

GeneralQuamdeen:
How can you play games with a girl you haven't had yet.. OP, tell us the truth, you're confused.

IamLEGEND1:
DATZ CALLED REVERSE PSCHOLOGY.


Ok why play reverse psychology? is it really necessary ?



look it up

andromida:
You are very right if you are sure of yourself no need to play games.

ivyy:
Yea I get. She bailed coz
1) Suddenly realised she cldnt keep up with the ldr especially with your trust issues. Trust is very vital for any ldr to work
2)She's fallen for some other guy who's not away

ivyy:
You are very correct mayb she wants to be single again or you were too choky. You can't move ahead with someone en you can not even get over their past. That wld cause a lot of naging from your end and wld alwys create problems. My gues is she feels exactly that way about you and got feedup she obviously loves her freedom more than she does for you. Or she never loved you.

Since uve tried your best. Try leave her alone. Move on with your life ud meet someone who's for you.
I hope uve learnt a or two from this experience? Cheers

ronald4lif:
You insisted a girl tell you her past and she gladly obliged then turn around to use it against her? Yes that's what you are doing by not getting over it. It's never easy for a girl to open up about her past, especially when it's dirty and unfavourable. But she did, and gladly so. For her to tell you the truth about her tells a lot about her person, positively. We all don't have a perfect past and judging people by their past life experience is never the best thing to do. I understand your worries about her past life and if indeed there won't be a re-occurrence in the future, I will be worried too, but you have to let it slide. Or would you have preferred she portray a holy Mary past? Guess not.

Often times, I wonder why guys make it so much an issue when girlfriends spend much time on social media platforms. Yes it's true social media serves as a gateway for cheating but there are a tens of different reasons why people engage themselves on media than cheating. And a cheat will cheat even if they don't have Internet access. I think the decision of you telling her to reduce her social media presence was not properly thought out. You both just started a relationship and you came up with such? She may be thinking you may not allow her talk to any man when you eventually end up together, even a 'hi' to a man could spring up unnecessary issues. The relationship is too nascent to be having many argument and for attempting to gag her rights to exercising freedom on social media.

Also, I think you've given her reasons to develop uncertainties about the relationship and that's why she said those stuffs. She's having great doubts of where the relationship is heading not that she doesn't love you anymore like she earlier claimed. The love is still there (if it was ever there before) but she just needs re-assurance of your love. She's scared of losing you just like you're scared of losing her too. Forget the talk of you both should just be friends until you get back to Nigeria again, that's baseless. Keep being nice, showing her some love and more love, she will come around. Finally, work on your trust issues too. The relationship (especially a distance one) is heading no where without trust. All the best mate!

Modesayo:
If u cant take the past,why dig into it...u don't judge pple COs u might do worse if u were in their shoes....wt what she has bn tru,ts normal if she is insecured...You Av to be very matured in the way u handle d relationship as her man.....God help u both

andromida:
Yes girls can change that quick when the guy is picking on a past neither of you can control.

bakynes:
I really pity you people doing overseas love, is a different thing if you met her here and mayb later travelled out bt u met her online or you guys were match made by a friend and started dating, do you really think she doesn't have someone she is dating over here. Just forget abt d girl find yourself a girl in Paris and move on it won't work if you are based in France and she is in Nigeria.

blackchukky:
deal with your insecurities about her past or you move on

the answer lies deep within you

shindarayo:
D prob isnt wt d gurl nor u.d prob is wt d past u find hard to forget.wldnt say she doesnt love u shes just trying to mk uu decide if u rily love her enuff to overlook her past, she wants u to mk dt decision alone and not because she wants u to.she wants u to understand dt she hs a past wch cant b erased, its left for u to either deal wt it or Leave.judging ftm ur story, its like uv md it obvious ure bothered abt her past and she knws dis wld alws b a barrier btw u both if u decide to not forget.she knws wat she wants inspite of wat shes bn tru, its left for u to realrlise if u rily want to forge ahead wt ur relationship with her. ...if ure sure u love her enough please try to forget, every lady has a dark past, and it takes courage to open up to our loved ones, u should respect her for dt.in the end follow ur heart but use ur head