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Chibydinho:
This is my first time to share a problem here and I will appreciate everyone's opinion please.
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I have a gf that I've been with for some years now and everything has been going real fine. It was all merry going, though we've had few fights, but we always made up and the relationship continued.
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The real problem started some time last year when we had misunderstanding and was not on talking terms for few days. I dogged deep and discovered that my gf is hooking up with another guy and from findings, I noticed it was just a fresh talk which now evolved because of our little quarrel.. I kept calm and waited for weekend to visit her and make up things with her and also to know why she acted that way..
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When I went, I noticed she went out with this guy and even she came back..she didn't felt remorseful rather blamed everything on me and the issue we had during the week. I didn't loose my anger because of the love I have for her and tried working things up to make up with her...which was successful coupled with the fact that the guy later went back to school.
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From then till now, she kept contact with the guy, but I wasn't bothered because our love was flourishing and rationally, I never expected them to be sudden enemies... but the issue began recently when I failed on a promise to visit her at her place and considering stuffs I was doing.
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That was some days ago and since then she has been acting funny on phone and chats and I recently noticed that the guy is back from a romantic Fb post she made and tagged him.
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Honestly, I am tired of my gf using the guy as a bait or threat to me and needs advice on what to
do to end that...

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Thanks as you help a bro out of this emotional stress... I just love this Lady.

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Op! in case you dunno we are in jet age(nobody wan stay for surulere lane na olorunsogo everyone wan dey)this your girlie has given you much clue that the chemistry is not there anymore yet you still stick to her lane.... Baba double your hustle and move on with life,meanwhile,ladies will still patronize you but go for the responsible and sensible one the set your rules and let her see you as the HEAD and RULER never spend much on her if she is destine to stay she will.....but treat her well n care for her......
As for the hoe let her maintain her track its a free world, not every relationship leads to the altar, and the eyes that one will use at old age will not be faulty at young age.....so you have a lot of journey to embark on rather than feeding on frivolities.... Get you priority right.... LIFE IS BRIEF.... Think and spend your time wisely.... Good day

the power of love can never be subsidies.....