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i try not talking to him . i really do i try acting like im okay and that he wont leave me he is just confused. but i cant its so hard. i told him hopefully hell let me know by friday cause that is our three months. i asked him how much longer this break is going to be he said idk. and then he said breaks arnt short. but how much longer do i have to wait ya know. it stinks it really does but i just always feel second with her i feel like im never going to win. he told me he didnt want to go back to her cause i had asked him if he wanted to be with her he said no. why would he tell me no if he didnt mean it. he was happy with me everything was fine it was just me and him then she texted him one day telling him i love you. ill love you more then shell ever think of loving you. why would someone say that ? i feel like she is playing head games with him. because she is unhappy she wants to make him unhappy and second guess everything, then i poor my heart out and tell him how i feel one last time and i get nothing back from him . yes i know he needs space. but dont sit here and tell me you love me and you love me more then i love you if your going to do this to me . its just not right

me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months almost 3 and he took a break becasue he still has feelings for his ex girlfriend. i knew in the beg he still loved her but i thought everything would be okay. they were friends. and everthing was fine. they dated for 1 year and 6 months. it was his first love. what i dont get is why he cant move on. so were on a break now. i just dont know what to do . evryone tells me to leave him but i really cant i really truly love him . i asked him how much longer it would be and he doesnt know i ask him why cant he end this and be with me he says he is not ready. they broke up because she was turning into one of her friends who he couldnt stand and now they are not friends. she treated him like shit. she only cared when it was convieneant for her. when she was with her friends she treated him like he didnt matter but when it was just her it was all about him . when he took this break i was heart broken. i finally got the guts to tell him this, i told him that this was the happiest three months ever but if he wants someone who is going to treat him like shit go be with her casue im not one to treat someone i love and care about like shit so go be with her and he said will you stop . i said to him i cant stop thinkin about this . i cant keep feeeling like complete shit. ill stop talking to you until you figure out what you wantand hopefully its by friday cause thats our three months i love you bye. and he said i love you too bye. how can you love someone when you would do this to them? i keep telling him that its normal that he is still going to have someplace in his heart for her it was hs first love. it happens. but i just dont know what to do. not talking to him hurts. not seeing him like i did hurts. i cant not text him i just dont know what to do help me please!!!