₦airaland Forum

Big congratulations to Arsenal, my prayers were answered for them. I am so happy for them.

Bournemouth were wasting goal chances like kalokalo. At least 4 extra goals should have come from their side.

Drforsuiciders:
Oga if u believe story of a woman, that means i can sell paradise to u. Una neva sabi women at all, a woman will always paint story for d society to believe her without questions

Your comments through the thread showed that you've already sided with the sister-in-law and her SIX children. Six children, not one, but six, yet you are blaming the wife who is enduring this.

I don't believe you are married, because if you are you will understand the strain of living under this kind of situation.

The topic is filled with filthy language, and should be deleted.

Phils:
It seems there may have been underlying issues in the marriage even before the sister-in-law moved in.

Two years without a child should not automatically become a source of pressure, though society in Nigeria often makes it one.

Regarding the food and household expenses, if your Sister is not solely responsible for providing them, she should avoid focusing too much on how fast things are being consumed for now, so she can protect her peace of mind.

On orderliness in the house... With six children from the visitor, some of them should be old enough to assist with dishes and basic cleaning. Your sister can politely involve them in maintaining the house.

Your Sister should have a calm and honest conversation with her husband, explaining how the lack of privacy and the prolonged stay are affecting her emotionally and their marriage. Together, they should discuss possible timelines and arrangements for the sister-in-law to get her own place.

If the environment continues to affect her mental health, you can help her to temporarily engage herself elsewhere in a productive way, for example through further studies, professional development or work, rather than making it look like she is simply running away from the marriage. Leaving a marriage is a major decision and should not be made purely out of frustration or pressure from outsiders.

I sincerely wish her peace, wisdom, and a positive resolution.

You deftly avoided the issue where the sister in law is already accusing the husband of showing too much love to the wife. Thereby planning to take over her brother's home and displacing the wife.

Kobojunkie:
1. Your sister's husband, not the woman in question, is the problem. Your sister should address her husband's lack of respect and possible complete disregard for her opinion directly. 😒

2. Again, the problem is that the root of your sister's marriage to her husband is fraught with no respect for her in the marriage, and all these points back to her relationship with her husband. If she is tired of being disrespected, she can move out of the marriage. However, if the man is not a violent man towards his own children, I suggest your sister work towards getting shared custody of the children as opposed to full custody. That way, the man will also need to make time out to take care of the children who are also his. 😒

3. Your sister needs to make the decision herself. She needs to be tired of the disrespect enough to want to change things for the better for herself. Otherwise, she may come back attacking you, claiming you made her do what she did not want to. So, leave her alone to do this for herself. Only help out where you are able to. 😒

You jumped into resolution without reading the content of the matter under discussion. The marriage has not been blessed with children, yet you are advising on child custody and the husband's treatment of the children.

SAMBARRY:
If you don't have time or resources to raise decent children, close your legs or use condom

Those you are advising cannot be found on Nairaland, but are in different slums across the country. So you should rather visit them there with megaphone to drive your message home.

iwaeda:
They lied they will not change the dates,they way APC will implode. Let me just laugh ahead.

Implosion in your dreams about APC, but in reality cohesion at the end of it all, because there is enough to go round for everybody to eat to satisfaction, as they are the party in power in almost all states in Nigeria.

By the way I am not a friend of Tinubu or of his rogues in power, but just telling you the reality.

Angelfrost:
Please don't be daft.

I practically call out several state governors on this forum for lagging behind Lagos and Abuja all day long.

Unlike you, I don't settle for half measures in the name of religion and ethnicity.

Use your brain before equally mediocre thinking crooks in power use it for you.

Demand for more... You hear?!!

Smh!!!

Mr.Guru on all government and sport matters, all the demands you have been making in the past to your state governors and LG Chairmen, that is if your assertion is true, have they translated to better management of their financials and governance which can rival Lagos State Government? If not, then I repeat, let your anger be more directed to the state of affairs in your own state and LG until they are brought at par with Lagos State.

Angelfrost:
I'm sorry... But, what facilities?!!

Abidjian, Capetown, Kigali, Nairobi, Rabat, and other cities in Africa have 24 hours electricity.

Does Lagos have this?!! Does anywhere in Lagos, even Ikeja or Banana Island enjoy uninterrupted Power supply?!!

Please name those facilities...!

How much does Lagos generate from Tourism compared to other African cities?!!

What is the air quality?!!

What is the livability compared to the nations' capitals or major cities above?!!


In 2026, Lagos is still what you are bragging about in Nigeria, a nation with over 200 million people, and 36 states?!!

Have you no shame nor decency?!!

Use the same energy and anger to advise your own state governor and local government chairman, it will make more sense than being mad about other people's affairs.

Freshtruth:
she will settle me she will have to see my people to returned the diary

Return the dowry, after many months of sleeping with her, where is that done?

Sope otilo, na under Oshodi bridge remains for you.

erai30:
My dinosaur refuses to shed skin

Let us kill it to celebrate Ileya festival. The meat is sweet.

Freshtruth:
Atiku spend money for this gal head that year, Dbanj come still collect national cake join, Emeka Ike still chop too.


I am ready to marry and take good care of her if she will accept I am ready to sell my father bungalow to do a weeding ceremony and move in with her

After selling your papa's bungalow and moving in with her, when she becomes tired of you as usual and throw you out, where will you sleeps then? Under bridge?

heykims:
What's the difference between Portable and this guy?

Portable won multiple boxing belts, your akpi never won nada.

Capis?

Larrycool1234:
I



Abeg who be dis one ?

Abeg who be dis one?

Crystal Palace please give Arsenal the EPL Cup tonight by walloping Man. City silly.

kiddaz:
A little over 4.3 M GBP in a Barclays Trust Fund Account

You get 4.3M GBP in your overseas bank account, and you still get time to yarn dusts on Nairaland, isn't that incredible?

LagosOrigin:
The tinubu that you supported, we've seen how much of a good administrator he is .

Have you even eaten today?

If he has not eaten, how did he got money to buy data to browse your lies?

plessis:
I don't know who's better between slot and tinubu.

But Slot and Tinubu far better than Obi.

OredoPikin:
🤣🤣🤣
Rejected by?

Rejected by OredoPikin

Hungrychicken:
See the comments up there, enemies of Nigeria’s progress and them never chop today o.

Hungrychicken you don chop today, since there are no more corn or millet anywhere?

SlavaUkraini:
https://dailypost.ng/2026/05/08/tinubu-not-different-from-jonathan-atiku-peter-obi-kwankwaso-sowore/

The real truth, and nothing but the truth.

Our leaders from independence, and before that, were and are still bunch of crooks, angling to rip off the nation of its common wealth.

RealityKings1:
I dey find Mami water

At Night,
Dem full Allen Avenue, Lekki in Lagos.

Dem full Ring Road for Benin.

And at Akure, dem full Alagbaka and Igbatoro junctions.

Visit any one of them and pick your choice.

OredoPikin:
Lolz
Out of that 42m from SW, the people u are laughing control at least 40%
Other Nigerians at least 20%
The yorubas won't be more than 40%

But in their region, Yoruba don't even have 1%
The joke is on you🤣🤣

Just watch and see, some of them will tell you na dem dominate the South West number.

Flo36:
Na family business... Yoruba/Fulani are brothers

Obi and Kwankaso nko, dem be enemies?

dequir:
Man. City will maul Everton today. Doku has become a monstrous goal poacher.

Doku dunks it in for Man. City. One of many to come.

puremaker7:
which team are you supporting

Arsenal for now, just to lift the cup. Man. City has been dominating it too much.

Man. City will maul Everton today. Doku has become a monstrous goal poacher.

MrSly:
Dear Farooq kpogri, your article has an undertone of a political jobber. Even someone who is conversant with Nigeria's retrogression would easily see through you. Is nigeria well led, No!!!! However, you can't be shouting about a problem without offering solution. PO is the solution due to his track record. So on point it is the turn of the South. So if you want a nigeria that is fair to everybody then we must start from the foundation. So Atiku starting to fix 9ja by rubbing the South of their turn as if they are second class citizens just for his greed is wrong and I and all well meaning Nigerians will resist it. So it is about wrong policies of tinubu and his criminal tendencies and endictments. However, the right antidote must be used and the right process followed. You can't say you want to treat malaria by by inviting the tse flies into your house to eat up mosquito.

You do not want Atiku because he is from the North you also do not want Tinbubu because he is from the West, then the rest of us Nigerians do not want Obi from your region too. Do with that intel whatever you like.

#As copied above.

Last last, everyone will align to Tinubu's second term ambition by fire by force.