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I really feel for you dear, I am a lady like you and I will advise you to listen to your pastors advise pls, you are too young in that relationship and I bet you are not ready for a divorce soon, that is the only parameter for a divorce according to the Bible. Make sure it doesn't happen again and maybe swear with your life that you will not cheat on Ur husband again that way you are sorted as you don't want to die yet. Things that can happen if you tell him are he will be justified to also pay you back if he finds an opportunity to cheat on you, he will take you for granted when you guys have a misunderstanding and even call you names and abuse your parents, he may involve his parents and you know that's the end of it. Think twice my sister, men are also guilty of this. Be closer to your God and be praying for your home, find a church and be serving God, an idle hands is the devil's workshop, the guilt will disappear overtime.