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Guys, are you leaving this fight (for rights) for me alone? Do't you think these ladies are overbearing and too dominant these days? C'mmon, don't be lilly livered. Say your mind.

Bottomline: spoilt, Pls let me know your email address. I have an important message for you.

j-girl:
God gave a partner to Adam and if you read it well, she was still able to alter his mind and make him do what she wanted him to do. That's not what an assistant does, that's what someone with equal, if not better, status is able to do.

Yea, we can understand why there is so much evil in this world. W-o-m-e-n!

j-girl, I can understand your grouse. May be you are the type the would want to'pocket' her hussy. You better imbibe the African culture. I am not against decent women fighting for good rights. However, such crusaders should take pains to school their colleagues well in order to avoid what i would like to call "overstepping''. We have decided to emulate the West in everything and ironically, this has failed to raise moral standards. No doubt, they are white and we are black in different continent and culture. If someone like J-girl hasn't got married and she needs a man for herself, I strongly advise you against demand for excessive rights. Same applies to married ones. STOP demanding for excessive rights by shunning this fight for equality

Can't u see! This is one of the so many reasons why women can never be trusted and entrusted. Here is a damsel who swore before God, elders and the entire community folks where their marriage took place that she would ever be stuck with this guy no matter what happened, now singing a different tune. Men, this is deceit, robbery and sin before God and mankind.

Seun, I disagree totally with you. Let us get this thing clear. A woman remains a woman. You cannot equate them with men. Consider the animal kingdom. The males dominate. I am not saying we are animals but some comparisons can be drawn in this context. We, men, are the world and the women, assistants(may be VPs).

The truth is that, calling the husband by name may not really be a problem. But my concern is that, anytime an issue such as this thread's comes up, some rights agitators such as Nite-Angel and others usually capitalize on it to rob shoulders with men. I want to say here that any attempt to whittle down the decree passed on women/command on their rights since creation shall attract more woes to this world. I stand here to defend, give clear reasons why women should realize that men dictate the pulse of this world. For instance, the Arabs know where women belong and have placed them in such place. For this reason, their lands have been flowing with mineral resources. This is because they have not given women leadership a thought not to talk of trying it.

nikynike, People like you will experience heaven because of truth. It is bitter but let it be told. Women, please stop competing with your OWNERS by being loyal. There is no respect whatsoever if u are the type that shouts your husband's name.

Nairalanders, I have been out of town. I just came back fews days ago; ran through this thread and saw attacks on my opinions. j-girl, Nite-Angel and other contributors could not see reasons in what i have said. But i ain't bothered because I am on the side of truth. Those of you who are twisting facts to score cheap points know that women cannot compete with men in all endeavours. By this, I would like to have this debate re-opened.
First, women are the weaker cells. Two, they are there for us to satisfy certain desires, importantly sex; and to be mothers to our children. I strongly believe that any attempt to foist on us the so-called Bergin Declaration which tries to equate women with men will be resisted. I have spoken the minds of many.

j-girl & Nite Angel, From the way both of u sound, it is clear that you are some of the women rights activists. But you should undersand that, God has given man dominion over all creations including woman. This so-called fight for equality is unreligious, illogical, baseless and criminal. A woman who is a helper cannot claim to equal the man. For instance, countries like Britain, Germany, Indonesia etc which have promoted this rights to the extreme by making women their leaders have not been able to rise up from the consequences such moves had earned them. Their economies have continued to nose-dive. Please we should understand the role of man and give him all the respect. Man is not that greedy; he knows also the kind of respect he can give to his helper, i.e, the woman.

Sometimes our SAN, Gani, can be funny. The verdict of the court, to me, is morally and legally upright. We should not allow the FG to be over-bearing in the way it deals with perceived opponents . Also, the judges are men who have been in the legal profession for decades. Their wealth of experience and logic can hardly be faulted.

j-girl, If there is something I avoid mostly, it is joining issues with a lady especially when I know the mindset as it relates to a subject for discussion. But let me reiterate that even if we are equal, men are more equal. The very day we swallowed that unwarranted call for gender equality by women, the world will crumble. You better know this

What can I do? After several attempts to get my WAEC papers, I finally scaled through last year. Infact, I have one of the best results. But the problem now, is that, my surname was wrongly imputed. Instead of Jacobs, it was written as Jaconbs. How do I go about this error? Please, the house's advice is needed.