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pastorKosiso:
Did you say 4 years? 4 years isn't a joke and i believe you both must be familiar with each other. Call your man, sit him down and ask him what is happening to your relationship. Ask him if he still wants it to continue or he wants to move on. If he wants to let go asin break the relationship, let him go. Be strong and move on. Just be a nice girl and some good guy will locate you. Your ex might want you back since you don't give him attention, don't listen to him. Move on and be happy. Cheers

. i have & he said he stil wants me but it's as if am chasing shadows cos i don't get to see him & he barely calls that's what hurts me d most. i was told he's seeing someone else & i believe it's due to his attitude.

pastorKosiso:
Did you say 4 years? 4 years isn't a joke and i believe you both must be familiar with each other. Call your man, sit him down and ask him what is happening to your relationship. Ask him if he still wants it to continue or he wants to move on. If he wants to let go asin break the relationship, let him go. Be strong and move on. Just be a nice girl and some good guy will locate you. Your ex might want you back since you don't give him attention, don't listen to him. Move on and be happy. Cheers

i have asked him & he said he still wants me but it is as if am chasing a shadow, i don't get to see him anymore & i've been told he's seeing someone else, i can say it's true from his behaviour. he used to care about what i do but not anymore, he barely calls.

i have been dating this guy & he used to be crazy about me, he used to beat me up when he gets angry but still i loved him. i take care of myself by looking nice which he admired, he doesn't give me much money which i didn't mind because he's stil struggling to survive, until last december he gave me 10k for xmas which i rejected,i wanted to prove a point to him that because i don't complain over money doesn't mean he shouldn't be up & doing, some of his friends adviced him to break up wit me, i apologised to him because i knew i went overboard about it. 2days before valentine he called me out & we made up, d nxt day he left town & told me he had an interview on dat valentine day, i wished him well, the whole of dat valentines day he never picked my cal until midnight he then returned my cal. my problem now is that he doesn't care about me anymore because i know he's seeing someone else. one mind is telling me to let go but am still inlove with him & am hurting deep down because we shared so much in common & people envied our love. what do i do? pls advice me