confetti:

Hi nladers,

Please I need advice on how to overcome the pain of heart brake. I ve bin courting a guy for years now and he just broke my heart. I wouldn't want to go into details as I don't even know his reason since I cant remember doing anything wrong in particular and we didn't quarrel. I have tried asking what the problem was but no answer and it hurts me very deep.

I keep shading tears but its not helping me, He is actually the only friend I have had for years now so at the moment I feel lost since I have nobody to talk to. All I need is advice on how to keep myself busy as I find it unbearable when am alone.

hello poster first thing tell your self this is not the end of life . more to come .just let go of the past & try to focus on the future .
How to stop thinking about it?
At any rate, if u are thinking about him what can you really do about it. Nothing. You are not with him  now,did he know that you are shading tears for him  no . Tell your self  there are  many pains in this life apart form love . well i was in your situation i keep one imaginary  friend  I know its sick but its help me a lot for my loneliness . I am the only one that matters. This is really my own fault and problem. I really want to stop fretting about the past.

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michelin89:

If she grew up in Lagos, then it is possible.

well i agree with u miss she have seen her brothers and sisters weddings

well i am engaged to edo gal form lagos . she is 26 years old and she is last born of seven children all her brothers and sisters are married . I want to ask u this is that possible this my wife to be dont know how there traditional marriage preform according to there tribe . help pls

Nenum:

Why is it that when you love someone the person becomes a pain in the as*s, so bad that you wanna run mad, but once the person aint around u would not be able to breath, as u would rada dey be around to make u mad instead.

well i use to watch this in movies and laugh on the ppl who act like in pain due to love . And one fine day i fell in love and i feel they are correct
its so so so so so and so so pain full . yes its pain in as*s as well as every were .

well NL ppl i m getting married in august and i m planing for my honey moon with in lagos with 200 k naira buduget pls advice me were the nice place or hotel i can have my honey moon for 6 day s,

man jcob its not possible harder u try u miss her more I think u breath her so just keep the things  on the time soon every thing is fine  and
take is easy there are much pain in this world apart form  love

my woman say its thoothpick .

Beautiful lady is sunshin between two mountain,

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I love u

well i am about to marry edo girl just want to ask u how much dowri u can pay