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BusinessRe: Learn How To Buy And Sell Phones And Laptops From USA Right Here In Nigeria. by Dimex03(m): 8:03pm On Feb 19, 2020
The link no they clickable
PoliticsRe: Leah Sheribu Gives Birth To Baby Boy For Boko Haram Commander by Dimex03(m): 10:45pm On Jan 25, 2020
CArt:
Your brain needs a total check up shocked
and that of those who liked it
CrimeRe: Man Found Dead In His SUV In Agbara, Ogun State (Graphic Photos) by Dimex03(m): 8:20pm On Dec 09, 2019
No wonder they close Diya gate early yesterday. me kuku find one busy path follow
SportsRe: Van Dijk: If Messi Wins Ballon D’or, There Are No Losers by Dimex03(m): 7:21pm On Dec 02, 2019
Your username tho shocked shocked shocked
chiefolododo:
Messi bought the award again
RomanceRe: She Left Me For A Medical Doctor And Now Wants A Second Chance by Dimex03(m): 10:21pm On Nov 26, 2019
Now that you have used all the word like "Stupidity" "get the Bleep" and others which one I'm i going to use?? undecided undecided
KingSatan:
cheesy

You are not ashamed to share your stupidity to the world.

What the hell happened to Growing up Mr?

She called and you gave her 2k to buy foodstuffs. BROTHER YOU ARE MAD! AND I CURSE YOU angry

A "Nigerian" Woman treated you like used rags because she didn't see the big picture, now that you are made she is crying and you are asking us what to do in such situation?

If you don't open that your smelly mouth and tell her to G-E-T T-H-E F-U-C-K O-U-T, then i will terminate your manhood.

Hungry leeches looking for free meal tickets.
Technology MarketRe: Brand New Xiaomi MI 9 6/128gb by Dimex03(m): 5:20pm On Nov 26, 2019
110k
RomanceRe: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Dimex03(m): 11:14pm On Nov 16, 2019
Chai... Bro, she's playing you the film a lady played me during our undergraduate days. If you go dull am you will fall very hard. Take my word "she's GONE" undecided
holaxi:
You might be right though cos I don't know what a guy and girl will be talking about at after 11pm for 43mins+. But I try my best for her. If my best isn't enough then she's free to do whatever pleases her. One bad thing about me is once I lose the feelings, there's no gong back.
Technology MarketRe: Pristine Samsung Note 9 by Dimex03(m): 2:47pm On Nov 11, 2019
Called earlier but you gave a different price from what you put up there.
Technology MarketRe: by Dimex03(m): 10:39pm On Nov 10, 2019
How much for the sound bar ??
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by Dimex03(m): 7:46pm On Nov 06, 2019
Honestly, i like share and even quote you. That's how they do, I don't even know how come you finding yourself in a pant down position with her. Arrrg!! I won't even give her the chance to.
tetralogyfallot:
Unrequited love is the most painful thing in this world. Yes, i have been in a "situationship" where the girl diverts all my love to another person and the saddest aspect is that the guy doest even love her. The more i press further to love her the more she hates me, my guys i have to go spiritual before God finally relieved me of her love. Shes now begging me pants down to consider her but God has given me a better n loving girl. When somebody takes u as an option, never take that person as a priority.
SportsRe: Bayern Munich Sack Niko Kovac After 5-1 Defeat by Dimex03(m): 11:01pm On Nov 03, 2019
shocked shocked shocked grin grin
Omoh89:
And vervede still Dey form boss for Barcelona,well like someone said him get the president nude pictures
RomanceRe: 7 Things To Agree On Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady by Dimex03(m): 6:33pm On Oct 23, 2019
Writercruze:
Arguments and disagreements are part of every relationship. It doesn’t matter how much you love your partner; there’s always something to argue or disagree over.

But there are certain things that you must agree on before taking your relationship to the next level. Otherwise, the relationship may not stand the test of time.

Like I always tell people, love is not the most important consideration when choosing a life partner. Some people are madly in love with themselves, but their marriage didn’t last. Do know why? It’s because they fail to agree on some sensitive issues.

So, if you are dating a Nigerian lady, ensure you agree on certain things before taking the relationship seriously. So, in this article, you will learn the things to agree on before engaging a Nigerian lady.

Crucial Things to Agree on Before Engaging A Nigerian Lady

#1. Commitment

If there’s no commitment in a marriage, such union will not stand the test of time. One partner will always feel cheated and this will degenerate to a serious marital crisis.

So, before you decide to engage her, ensure that you guys share the same view on commitment. Every beautiful or successful marriage, you see is a function of both partners’ commitment.

And once you discover that the lady isn’t ready for commitment, please don’t engage her. She can never give you a good home. Trust me; nothing frustrates a man than having a wife who’s not committed to the marriage.

It’s better to break up a five years relationship than marrying someone who will not be loyal to the marriage.

#2. Privacy

This is another area Nigerian couples often have issues in marriage. Ensure you agree on this with your girlfriend before taking the relationship to the next level.

Privacy in this context has to do with access to your cell phones and other personal belongings. If you guys both agree that you want to be open with each other, it’s okay.

This means that your girlfriend has your phone pin or pattern and you have hers too. It also indicates that you can sneak into her phone and check what she is doing and who she’s chatting with. Similarly, she can do the same with you.

If you both agree on this and it has been working for you guys for a while. Then you are in the right direction.

#3. Bestie And Ex

You see these two guys – Bestie and Ex, they have destroyed many homes. About 67% of infidelity in marriages are with Besties and Ex. Yes, it’s that serious.

If you are dating a Nigerian lady, ensure you guys agree on the fact that no male besties or unnecessary contact with Ex. Don’t take the relationship to the next level if you guys haven’t agreed on this.

My friend had a terrible experience with his girlfriend during our NYSC days. His girlfriend was always around a guy who she claimed was her best friend. According to her, the Akwa Ibom boy was like a brother to her, nothing more.

My friend innocently allowed things to go because he wanted to be a gentleman. Guess what happened? He met the so-called bestie in banging his girlfriend. It was a terrible experience, and they ended the relationship.

Imagined my guy didn’t discover this thing on time… What do you think would have happened? The bestie would have still been banging her in my friend’s house.

If you are dating a Nigerian girl who’s fond of contacting her ex all the time, don’t take that relationship seriously. You guys can still be having fun together, but it will be dangerous to marry such lady. Okafor law is dangerous and never allow anybody to manifest it on your woman.

#4. How You Settle Disputes

I have always mentioned that there’s no perfect relationship anywhere. To the best of my knowledge, you only see perfect relationships in Zeeworld, Nollywood, etc.

So, if you are expecting a relationship without disputes or fight, you are living in a fool’s paradise.

It doesn’t matter how many times you fight in a relationship. What matters is how you guys settle your disputes.

If your lady always shuts down and gives you the silent treatment after every argument, try to work on it before engaging her. If you can’t find your way around it, then she is not your soulmate.

How will you feel if your wife is keeping malice with you over a little disagreement? It won’t make sense.

#5. Lifestyle

Lifestyle is another area you must agree on. If your girlfriend is living a lifestyle you don’t like, try to discuss it with her. Don’t allow love to accept what will not work for you. It will never end well for you.

If she goes to clubs and parties, talk to her about it. And if you guys aren’t on the same page about it, don’t take the relationship seriously. You will always have severe issues with her if your lifestyle differs from hers.

#6. The Name Game

This is another important area you should agree on. Do you want her to change her surname to yours? If yes, discuss it with her while dating.

Some ‘Nigerian babes dey form feminism’, they may not want to change their surnames. But if you discuss this from the onset, you will not have issues with it.

#7. Careers

Career is a sensitive area that must be discussed before you take the relationship to the next level.

If both of you are working, is her career going to affect your family? For instance, if you are a banker and your girlfriend whom you want to marry is also a banker, how do you cope? It won’t be easy.

An ambitious career woman wants to make it to the top of her career ladder may not have time for the kids. And if this isn’t something you can take, quietly work out of the relationship. It’s better than having issues in future.

Source: https://www.naijalovetips.com/7-things-to-agree-on-before-engaging-a-nigerian-lady/
The number 1 and 3 ehn solid angry grin
SportsRe: Ronaldo: I Deserve More Ballon D’or Awards Than Messi by Dimex03(m): 6:51pm On Sep 18, 2019
Ronline:
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin That Ronaldo na witch. He no let Messi even breath..
I admire him, I honestly do but deep down inside of him he knows who the true G.O.A.T is. It's evident they are both super great but CR7 seem to be painting his life around Messi.
SportsRe: Ronaldo: I Deserve More Ballon D’or Awards Than Messi by Dimex03(m): 5:31pm On Sep 18, 2019
Always comparing himself with Messi... Messi seem to be his greatest nightmare. Baba thiago wey no get time, CR7 should stop shouting Messi Messi every time
Technology MarketRe: Sold by Dimex03(m): 7:35pm On Sep 11, 2019
Is it pay on delivery ??
I'm very interested
Technology MarketBrand New Android TV Box by Dimex03(op): 11:51am On Aug 15, 2019
KII pro Android TV box for sale @ affordable price. With this TV box, you have access to thousands of channels. Enjoy this football season on this lovely TV box. It goes for 27k call or WhatsApp me on 081eight8five188two2 or call 080sixsix02three91zero.
Technology MarketRe: Watch DSTV And IPTV Channels Free by Dimex03(m): 11:36am On Aug 15, 2019
KII pro Android TV box for sale. Brand new @ affordable price. Going for 27k, call or WhatsApp m on 08188518822

BusinessRe: 2in1 64GB and 32GB USB2.0 Flash With Complete A To Z Digital Marketing Courses by Dimex03(m): 6:08am On Jul 31, 2019
How do i get it and can you put the videos on a 64gb
Technology MarketRe: Who Wants Samsung Galaxy S7? by Dimex03(m): 10:54pm On Jun 20, 2019
Picture and location
Technology MarketRe: ✔️For Sale: Open Box TVs for the Executive Homes-Quality Without Compromise⚙️ by Dimex03(m): 9:36pm On Jun 09, 2019
Time to patronise graceglory is fast approaching. I love his tvs
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Frigo Glass Aptitude Test by Dimex03(m):
cheesy
Technology MarketRe: **PHONE SWAP CENTRE**SWAP IT NOW!!! pin:265DA560 or 08033923897 by Dimex03(m): 12:30am On May 20, 2019
Dimex03:
grin 2 weeks old Redmi 5A for sale @25k. Chat me up on 08188518822 or call 08066023910. Comes with pack and charger.
Available
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Frigo Glass Aptitude Test by Dimex03(m):
cool
Technology MarketRe: **PHONE SWAP CENTRE**SWAP IT NOW!!! pin:265DA560 or 08033923897 by Dimex03(m):
grin 2 weeks old Redmi 5A for sale @25k. Chat me up on 08188518822 or call 08066023910. Comes with pack and charger.

Technology MarketRe: Techno C9 With Damaged Screen; 6k by Dimex03(m): 7:59pm On Nov 23, 2018
Location
Technology MarketRe: Post Your Scrap/dead/faulty Phones For Sale Here by Dimex03(m): 3:49pm On Nov 21, 2018
certifiedvik:
price ?
55k
Technology MarketRe: Post Your Scrap/dead/faulty Phones For Sale Here by Dimex03(m): 1:36pm On Nov 21, 2018
4X4:
since it has a serious issue I'm offering 10k
is that what you called a serious issue ??
Chai... Bros you dey vex o
Technology MarketRe: Uk Used Motorola Z Play Extremely Neat by Dimex03(op): 9:47am On Nov 18, 2018
Available
Technology MarketRe: Post Your Scrap/dead/faulty Phones For Sale Here by Dimex03(m): 9:43am On Nov 18, 2018
Motorola z play with 3gig ram n 32gig rom. Super neat. No scratch. It get stuck on the Moto icon when booted normally. The only way to boot it is through recovery. Every other things work perfectly when booted through recovery. Interested?? Call me or whatsapp me 08188518822

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