gurl, i really feel you cos i had a boyfriend just like that. we started flowing after a shaky start, and after we started we couldnt stop talking. now even tho we're no longer together, whenever we meet we talk for hours.the thing is u probably mostly talk on the phone so u hardly see anything to really gist about. if u go out more often you will. and remember the relationship is just starting, so you cant expect to flow like u've been dating for a long time. u are both obviously reserved people, and he's probably feeling just as awkward as u are with the conversation. try not to make it seem like u're looking for what to say, let things flow. and there are times when there's nothing to say, it's natural even with your closest friend.talk about ur day, highlight important aspects.u can even describe a film u saw to him, or a book u read. or another friend's experience. then ask him about his.believe me, once u find common ground u'll spend hours talikng. u go gurl!