thanx nilla. it was.

i got banned for at least two weeks last month over a topic i posted that seun did not agree with. and i kept arguing with him over it, that sade osu topic. i cld nt live without nairaland even tho i'd just joined. i sent a mail to seun to beg him to make it short. the annoying part was i was new and i didnt even kno anythin about gettin banned. i kept trying to log in they were telling me dat my password was incorrect. i tried every single password i've ever used in my life for two days and i was getting frustrated b4 i realized i'd been banned. i didnt even get a warning or a notification. well, seun finally decided i'd suffered enuf, i had to visit as a guest every day and i cldnt post a single thing. it was reali crazy.

tio think the song is nice but it got too much airplay.

body hair - armpits, in fact anywhere but on the head
sweat
body odour
small privates
too many questions/overcuriosity
kissing as if d point is to swallow ur tongue

i'm so discreet i dated two guys for over three months that only both of us knew about it. or so i hope at least i told no one. but u kno hw guys r.

sorry candylips, i cant give u my addy here cos it has my name in it, which i'm trying to keep private. so u gimme urs n i'll add u on my yahoo messenger. ok? make we carry our toasting go the next level!!!

na wah o. so what should i do now? make i no talk again say because candylips go pick on me? besides, u are supposed to be answering a question. and the days have passed where u pull a girl's hair or throw stones at her to show u like her. abi?

candylips, i just realised u're a guy. no wonder u're demanding practicals. and why do u pick on me regardless of what topic it is?

ohhhhhh, now i understand. he's a new member who thinks he has to introduce himself! ok good boy. now we know all about u. welcome to the class. hahahahahaha.

any old ondo state university staff school, ado-ekiti students here? or does anyone know sefunmi aladetoyinbo(girl), toyin ige(boy) or stanley nwakwa, gloria alade, mubarak abdulrahaman?

and why should we even believe ur story, considering this is the first question u're posting, and maybe u just want to catch our interest?

clpins,
u obviously got lost.

i totally agree with kdk. the dead stay dead. i cant explain ur experience, but i'm sure there's a logical reason for it.
if u choose to be superstitious, i can say it was an evil spirit.i know someone who had a similar experience. there's a belief that once u step out of ur room immediately after u wake up, the first person u see is the person, usually a witch. u shld accuse that person instantly and not spare them. it is also said that this person must be related to u no matter how distant, cos only them have access to ur blood. l
ol, alot of superstitious bullshit to me. thank god i have never and will never experience it.

thanks everyone. just to correct a wrong impression i might have given. i'm not 25 and he's not 52. that was just an example. but there's a 15-year gap in our ages, which sounds formidable. but when we're together it just fades away. i've met guys who were 2, 5, and even 10 years older, and the age thing was always there, either immaturity or over-maturity, lol. anyways thanks. at least i know some people would understand.

why arent there any replies to this topic? possibly because the asker answered the ques herself! i think everyone probably feels the same way, though i'd say be careful whose 'pipe' u test. lollllllllllll.

i don't see why she can't get out of her marriage, especially since she was deceived into it in the first place. but what is the possibility of the second one working? there will be too many things and people involved. if she wants a divorce, let her get it and stay alone for a while, not rush into a relationship with the other guy.

;Dare u sure it's not really u? because most of these 'my friend' things are really the people involved, lolllllllllll. just teasing though.

why do nigerians, and people in general find it hard to believe that a young girl can fall in love with an older guy? if a 25 year old marries a 52 year old, all hell is let loose: she's either a gold-digger or a thief, or even a witch who wants to kill him and take his money. it never occurs to anyone that she might actually be in love with him. pls help, cos i'm in that position, and we plan to get married soon.

@segun111
i dunno about chemistry but even when u kiss some people that u dont really like u can feelsome sparks! why do u think one night stands work? chemistry comes in but a great kiss can happen without it. and as someone else said, everyone has his/her own definition of a great kiss, a beautiful kiss, an electrifying kiss, or just a kiss!

wait till u kiss me man!

Well my fair lady, as a relationship advice guru, i'll say this to you. If you and these guy don't really have much to say to each other, then you probably shouldn't be together in the first place. When people are well suited for each other, things flow as they have . Love is natural and not demanding. trust me.

i dont mean to be rude, but u are not such a good 'relationship advice guru' if u say they shouldnt be together. Considering they only just met, don't u think they need time to first find common ground or 'similar interests or ideologies' as u said?