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Hmmm,marriage,I need advice before mine turn something like this,out of 14 children my dad had for differnt women,no one was a graduate but I stood on nmy ground and said to myself that I will break a record in my family,so I strugle alone,went to higher institution,finish went for NYSC,but things were very hard and still hard,so I decided to marry cos I ve no where to go,I married this guy who lie to me about everything,he has no job,I pay the bill etc,yet he beats me up.now the question is where do I go to cos am tired of the marriage,please help.

True life story,I came from a polygamous home,where everybody was on his own,one one to help,out of 14 children from different mother,my mum is the first wife,no one was able to go further than secondary school,but I was determine I strugle to further all alone,it was hard but I press forward,finish went for NYSC,came out got a small job.was in love with a guy who never had my time,but one thing is the job I was doing no salary because someone made away with company money on my acct so my salary was not giving me each month,I was in pains,no one to help,so this young guy came and said he want to marry me,I never wanted to,but due to my situation I married him,now am regreting why I married him,because I pay all the bills and still feed him,yet he beats me up,what do I do,please respond am dying.

Its possible the exam was prospon to her wedding day,all the best dear.

For me mine is complicated