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A friend Shared his life experience with me concerning his sexual lifestyle.

Below are some of the things he told me about Masturbation;

He got into the vicious cycle of this addiction and it surely has left a dent in his life. These were the few problems that he noticed with him because of mastrubation addiction.

1. Since he got into the loop, He had lots of problems concentrating and now that he have got out of this addiction, He still at times loose his concentration. his grades at one point in school dropped by half.

2. he would get turned on for no good reason while sitting in a lecture or in an occasion.

3. He Got addicted to pornography and got to such a low point that there would be times when he would desperately want to matrubate and none of pornograhic images or videos or comics would help him.

4. The first time he had sex with his girl was a nightmare..He was so excited that he was done even before i penetrated (Pre-mature ejaculation).

The main reason why this issue is made public is is because when a person is mastrubating, the indvidual tends to focus more on climax and pleasure,hence brain and body are rushing things up for the finale.

5. His erections were not hard enough during sex initially and hence there was little to no pleasure. (I know a lot of people are going to pound me for this, as they believe that this is a seprate problem and needs to be treated indvidually).

6. He also started having severe mood swings and got into depression. He related this to mastrubation because now that i have started having sex regularly and effectively,He is visibly more content and happy.

Why He considered this more harmful is because He have read that if you mastubate, you are generally trying to push your brain to artificially simiulate the whole body which is not the case if you are having sex.

Now that He have completely stayed from this, it has helped improve his sex life, concentration, i stay happy and no severe mood swings.

His personal suggestion would be to just keep away from it. There are chances once a person stops masturbation it might lead to having wet dreams, it can get embarassing if you are sharing room with your siblings, but it might not be as bad as falling into addiction. When it all started he did not have enough resources to read about it.

Note that He have concluded all of this based on a lot of observations in his life and after a lot of reading. If your view is different please be it, try not to be too rude with comments.

Peace, love and empathy.