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Ending a bad relationship can create new opportunities, free you from a source of stress and tension in your life and also allow you to move on to greener pastures.

Follow these simple steps to learn how to break up easily and kindly.

1. Think over what you want and why you want it.
Take time to weigh your feelings and the reasons for your decision.

2. Before you decide to have "the talk," you need to let your partner know what's bothering you and give them the opportunity to make changes for the better. If you eventually decide to end the relationship, it wont be too sharp because you've already voiced your frustration, and you'll have given your partner the opportunity to change for the better.

WARNING: Skip this step and move straight to breaking up, If your partner has cheated on you or physically abused you.

3. Give your partner a specific time to change.
If you want your partner to stop hanging out with friends instead of spending time with you, set a limit on it. If your partner does it again in a week or two, you can break up.

4. Think about what you will say. You need to decide when, where, and how long the conversation will take place.
Remember to give the conversation a time limit, because the conversation can last a lot longer than it should, especially if your partner is surprised or shocked by your decision and tries to keep you talking, hoping to change your mind.

5. Choose a suitable location to have the talk. A breakup conversation should be done in private to avoid embarrassing shows of emotion in front of others. Pick a place you'll be able to leave easily, like your partner's place, instead of your own. That way, you can be the one to decide when to leave. If your partner is the violent type, then you need to break
up in public or bring back-up.

6. Don't blame yourself.
Always bear in mind that breakups are normal. Sometimes you'll be the one to dump someone and sometimes you might be the dumped, but we all experience heartbreak. It hurts, but we all survive it, and you and your ex will too. So, don't blame
yourself.
Here are few things you should do after the Break Up:

1. Make yourself scarce,

2. Confide in someone you trust.
You can talk to your friends, parents, older siblings or cousins who've been through tough relationships before. It helps to communicate your feelings rather than bottle them up and risk making poor decisions or becoming depressed.

3. Hang out with your friends or travel out. Meet people and make connections. Have fun and forget about your Ex for a while.

4. Start dating new people only when you're ready. Don't rush into another relationship.. Give yourself sometime to heal. And when you're fit for another relationship make sure you're very careful while choosing your partner.
Please let us know what you think and share your tips in the comment section below.

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Prominent Northern leaders including the former Chief Justice of Nigeria, CJN, Mohammed Uwais have called on the President-elect, Muhammadu Buhari, to declare amnesty for Boko Haram insurgents when he takes over power on May 29.

The leaders include; the Secretary to the Government of the Federation, SGF, Ambassador Babagana Kingibe and former Nigerian Ambassador to the United Nations, Ibrahim Gambari. Chadian President Makes U-Turn
According to Vanguard report, their plea was
contained in a statement issued after a two-day
conference with the theme: “Security and Governance Challenges in Africa’s largest
Democracy,” by the Savannah Centre for Diplomacy,

Democracy and Development, SCDDD, as part of its
“Nigeria Beyond 2015 Project,” in Abuja yesterday.
The cooperative statement was signed by Prof.
Ibrahim Gambari, founder of Savannah Centre,
Major General Ishola Williams, Executive Secretary,
Pan-African Strategic and Peace Research Group,
PAN-AFSTRAG, Justice Mohammed Uwais (chairman
of the occasion) and Ambassador Abdullahi Omaki,
executive director of the Savannah Centre.
They also pleaded with the Federal Government “to
expedite action on the compensation of victims of
Boko Haram terrorism and insurgency through the
established and funded Victims’ Support
Fund,” calling for urgent priority attention to the
special economic programme for the North East by
the incoming administration .
The statement further called “for the establishment
of a special economic programme for the affected
states of the North-East, focusing on rehabilitation,
resettlement and reconstruction,’’ and also the need
for “the governors of the North-East States and
indeed of the entire North, on the necessity for a
blueprint that addresses the issues of vocational
and skills-acquisition education for the youths.’’

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Hey Guys , Don't call me names nor put the blames on me , Dats what I saw I decided to share is it a Crime..

Naija People Self with there Non_chalant Attitude towards their fellow individuals

Who had a plastic surgery connected to the main plasphema (dick hole) according to the americans , Which looked like a real adult dick which was a lie , hiding his secret for 40years ... Before it was revealed and confirmed it was truth with the documents sources

Andrew Wardle may have slept with over a hundred women
in his home city of Manchester but the 40 year old is to reveal
to friends and family in a new documentary that he doesn’t
actually have a penis.
TLC’s show entitled The Man With No Penis will see
Andrew open up about his rare medical condition and tell his
girlfriend that he was actually born without a penis. It will
also investigate potential surgery that could see him have a
fully working penis built.
Andrew was born with testicles but no penis but has
managed to keep it a secret from many of his lovers.
He is set to reveal in the documentary that the few he
did tell reacted badly – with one even punching him
in the face when he came clean.
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However, he has now tired of living a lie and has
revealed all as part of the documentary which has
followed twelve months of his life.
While it isn’t confirmed that this is what Andrew
suffers, Penile Agenesis is a condition in which a
boy is born without a penis and affects one in around 5-6
million baby boys.
There is usually no known family history and the
rest of their male anatomy is generally unaffected.
Speaking on This Morning, he said: ‘I was sick of
hiding. It’s not something you can say straight away.’
Previous cases of a similar nature have seen men use
a prosthetic penis with their unwitting partner –something
they can get away with by insisting on having sex in the dark
and limiting touch. You can see Andrew’s story when TLC
airs The Man With No Penis on Thursday 11th June at 10pm
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Andrew opened up on This Morning (Picture: ITV).. By
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