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Kobojunkie:
OP is the one who made this seem it is all about sex( physical touch aka skinship) since he declared that his woman decided there would be no ski ship until much later.

Go read his op again to see this.

Hahahahahahaha! u nor go fit kill me with laugh oh! u are very funny ah swear

mctech:
I'm surprised at the comments I'm seeing here.
Are there no married people here?

Bros I understand how you are feeling especially as you have abstained for two years.

Firstly, you need to wait about three months for the foetus to form before touching your wife so as not to cause damage.
Or do you want to risk having an slowpoke child? And even after that there are styles you can't do. Touch your toe, doggy etc are forbidden.

Secondly is the emotional toll of a first time pregnancy on your wife.

If you watch Holy Ghost Service regularly, you will realize that perhaps the most common problem people have in marriage is conception. Nine out of twelve testimonies are always about babies.

You escaped such a big issue please try to make peace with your wife and find a middle ground.
However, there are other ways you can pleasure yourselves, decently, though.

Nawa ooh! you guys should always read and comprehend na! sex is not really the op's major problem per say but the wife's total lost of affection and hence making him look like he's living with a male friend

correctguy101:
This man... Wicked advice but it might work.

Just withdrawal of attention and most women will go crazy. If Oga take this ya advice, awa iyawo go know say oga don vex..

Na the best advice be this.she deserves this kind treatment to reformat her brain

zoomman:
He really did...not all men can withstand it including me. I hope the lady won't regret this action of hers.

The OP na real man abeg... the young man really tried and he get patience sef

Enskynelson:
Do you know that a married woman with understanding and suffering from low sex drive will act differently? The way she is acting as explained by the OP is not only about low sex drive. Is it low sex drive that makes her not understand that her husband too has sexual needs? Is it low sex drive that is preventing her from trying to satisfy the desires of her husband? With those questions, you will know that even though she may have low sex drive, there is something else she wrong in her actions. A woman who really cares though suffering low sex drive should be able to sacrifice once in a while, should also be able to communicate how she is feeling and plead her husband give her some time... but u see this lady, she has more issues than just low sex drive.

You are very correct my brother.

Ozzyk:
Thank you.... We don't even talk aside from occasional gists and what to eat
We fit dey bed together make we no talk for hours make everyone just dey press phone

Nawa ooh! una see wetin i dey talk?nna eh! that woman is intentionally punishing you.she just want to drain you emotionally and it's very painful . please don't stamp ur authority as the head of the house before she turn you a SIMPLETON oh .. she's just been emotionally wicked... the thing just dey vex me here... please take this matter serious if u value ur marriage

So many of guys here don't even understand the op's pain because you are not in his shoes... no sex for now is a little BIT understandable but not allowing ur lawfully wedded husband to touch,kiss or come close to u in the name of first pregnancy that's just few weeks old is a no brainer... the woman has lost her love for him.

OChimex:
This is going to be lengthy.
First how old are you?
You sound naive and immature.
If that woman is pregnant and being a virgin, her body would be in a total shock, cooking a baby inside her.
I asked your age becasue marriage is more than just sex. Now you have to show maturity and understand this. You have to be selfless and think more about her.
So you dont know that knacking a woman without protection would result in pregnancy?
If you were a sex maniac, why not have used contraception, like implants, so that you go knack her tire before getting pregnant?
Again, welcome to the marriage hood where its meant for men not kids.
You must find yourself some good soap becasue this journey go long.

The only way out now is, show her love, care and attention, she fit give you hand job for now until her body fully adjusted, then she fit give you quicky...

See talk

Obagreatdatoye:
Listen to this

Please stop supporting bad things.you guys don't read and comprehend... the no sex aspect is a little bit understandable but the main problem here is affection, emotional connection and at least some touching, kissing and the lovey dovey stuffs at times

I will never take such inhumane treatment from the woman i spent my hard earned money to marry... and you guys saying hormanal bla bla should stop that rubbish...i have been married for more than 10yrs and nothing of such rubbish happens.op has every right to be angry and disturbed.

Op your wife nor try at all! that's wickedness of the highest order.no affection,not even touching.ha! she doesn't love you at all bcs hormanal changes does not stop her from showing u affection

Kobicove:
This Sowore guy is so desperate to be in the news all the time

Isn't he saying the obvious? some of una na goat, always supporting evil bcs of the 30k peanut you are getting from the criminal government without thinking of your unborn kids... receive sense in Jesus name.please pray and reject 30k for survival

He's replicating oga bubu form na

eepeepook:
Five pages of opinions and I have come to a conclusion. I am going to knack her. Somebody has promised to borrow me money sometime before the month ends.

All the pastors, politicians, hoodlums, gatemen and family men knacking other people’s wives, are they spirits? Make una leave that curse statement for your peers. A randy spouse will cheat regardless of how his/her partner behaves. It is inborn for many individuals. That she pestered me for six months, going to seven now, shows how desperate she is. A desperate person is a dangerous one. I would have let go if she gave up after a fortnight. Now, it’s accumulated anger which she’s awakened which I will pour on her body.

Thank you to those who responded and good night. Enjoy the remaining ninety minutes of Valentine’s Day.

Go ahead my boy.karma is a bitch...an old buddy of mine knacked somebody's wife despite advising him against it,fast for ward to when he got married and they knackered his wife too which ended up ruining his marriage and i reminded him of what i told him then.trust me that guy's life is a mess now.KARMA WILL HUNT U

sweerychick:
Kid I’m sure you don’t even know the road to the market, half bag of rice and semo alone there is upto 80k

Big lies!! u can only deceive SIMPS

Carndidlaydid:
Yeah no lies.. women are wired to save knowing fully well that no one knows tomorrow...

Would you blame her if she decides to spend 120k and save 60.. we dey festive period shikena

You are just busy supporting and defending your fellow thief. birds of the same feathers fly together

So many of you guys here must really be deluded to think his rogue of a wife bought those things for more than 60k! i really detest women taking advantage of good men.

Thieves

Let there be peace

Happy birthday geny