₦airaland Forum

fijiano202:
bull crap....the Synagogue Church at ikotun is not like this fiction joor


mumu journalist don collect money..u went to find out abt collapsed building but na fiction him write

nduchucks:
@op, I'm not sure that you should be expressing reservations on your parent's decision to have one more child, regardless of how many they already have.

Some married couples decide not to have any child at all, so that they will have enough money for both of them without having to spend on children. Now imagine that your parents were such a couple, you would not have even existed.

So oga, find ya level well well o, because if lorry hit you today and you die, those children will still live their lives.

Rosarie:
seriously coming here will not evn stop a ninth child.u should b talking to ur mom which i can c u u ve not.na wa ooo.in dis jet age.me sef dey plan according to economy.no matter how Hot i n hubby are.i remind him we re or nt ready ooo.n worse u cnt talk to dem cos it will b embarrassing.but seriously no mtr d embarrasment tell dad politely dey need a full stop

Empero1:
@OP

It is unfortunate that you want to eat your cake and still have it . I loathe pretenders . The truth is that you owe obligation to the said manager that directed you to the organization where your bread is now temporarily buttered . From now onward , never enter into an agreement formally/informally on anything you are not sure of fulfilling in the long run . Always be diplomatic when doing so , by immediately creating a clause that can guarantee you blameless exit route should you find it inconvenient to pally along in such association . It's always better to be on the offensive side of the world that to be of the defensive side ... This is one secret of long life .

Your silence when he laid down his condition(s) equaled to affirmation to his given terms to you , thus his assumed right of ownership of committed relationship with you now . Should you insist in reneging from the agreement you had with him without finding a way to placate him , then you have got every reason to be afraid of your life and job . Except if he has a heart of gold to forgive and not forgetting of course .

My advice to you should be to try by all means possible to have a meet with him , in an open place of course . Try to bear your mind to him and let him know that you are very grateful for his kindness toward you and that you would ever remain grateful to him . However , that you have scrutinized his request for relationship with you , but that in all sincerity you don't have same feelings for him as he had for you . But wait , if you are not married and still searching , and the guy in question possesses some good traits you would consider in a man for marriage , while not give him a chance to date him , not minding how blunt he was in his approach . Never say never . You can date him without allowing him to shine your " kpomo " .

Allow him chance for date with you . Within the first week of dating him , try to be sensitive whenever you are with him , in the process should you observe any ill-character he posses that you won't tolerate from a potential suitor , then you should use such as " banana peel " , to terminate your relationship with him . In summary , never push away someone that does good of this magnitude to you , without giving him/her justifiable reason for doing so , else you would be putting your life and future in line for bad things .

PhockPhockMan:
You've to be specific on your next destination. Obama encountered more stiffer opposition and yet he still prevailed.
Good bye.

dunkem21:
My clone; Aurevoir.

Chart your course donmalcolm21, but sitting on the fence is worse mediocrity. If you have not made up your mind on which candidate to queue behind, then ...

Do you want Chekwas Okorie? ..or who?

If APC pay better money, Pls decamp and boost their campaign ..remember to tell me how juicy so I can consider.

When Nigerians are ready, I have a man at heart. ..Till then, Its Ebele.

See you at the ground for a mastery test of the dun of the game ..'21'.

manmade:
*whispering to the OP ear* O'boy how much dem promised u to decamped ,I hear say Fr mbaka chop 800 milla to do same.

chacoonder:
Nice transition..You wont regret it.

learnine:
sometimes i just wish Nigerians have a better alternative to GMB and GEJ.
i feel Nigerians should be very careful with what we wish For.
Be careful of these "power thirsty politicians" who wants to attain power at any cost.
quote me right i am not pitching my tent with any of GMB or GEJ.
all am saying is there is no credible leader amongst them. i rather vote for "None of the above"

SeverusSnape:
Sorry for the interruption, Put I think the OP gave you a good reply, That is the same path I'm treading now. I had high hopes in APC, But just look, they gave us a "garbage in, garbage out".
I ask, what is fashola doing there??...can't they give us fashola or even Rochas.
It's unfortunate that we'll continue like this for the next four years.

hahn:
Lol. Whatever happened to



??

ChinemeOkpan:
The money misappropriated in the NNPC alone every 3 months is enough to build two functional refineries. Not to talk of the hundreds of government departments/parastatals/agencies.

You obviously do not know that it is acute corruption that is the problem and not bloated salaries. I don't care if they get 2 million dollars a week as long as they do their duties properly and stamp out corruption.

Some deputy directors in Ministries in Abuja make 10 times the amount House of Rep make

Go and read

ChinemeOkpan:
You could be right, however you have not answered my question.

If you think that the salaries of the members of legislative arm of government is the major problem in Nigeria, then you are the one that needs to do a lot of reading

espn:
we the YOUTHS are the problem of dis God's own country. Imagine a president of a country saying he is going to use technology to fight corruption and some daft youth can't reason but to use sentiment and see dis as a solution to tackle d issue of corruption.. A country that would always find all possible ways to manipulate whatever form of technology. Let technology be used to fight all crimes instead.

BraveAfrican:
The APC has based its campaign on change because they know its what all Nigerians crave...we are a lot wiser now than ever before. Like everyone else, I desperately crave a change but if we are to truly go for a change, let's be sure of what we are dabbling into. Is the APC trying to tell me they have to recycle a ex-military leader who ruled over three (3) decades ago ? Don't we have better options and brains to lead us into the future. We the youths have to realise we are in the 21st century. A lot of things have evolved. Its evident in the performance of some young politicians....most of the best performing state governors are from a younger generation. GEJ's campaign speech in Lagos might be wrong in every sense to anyone who likes but he got one thing right --- "Our fathers have failed us". We all desire a change but it should be a positive change and not just recycling old junks...APC may be that platform to offer change but in my own humble opinion, GMB is not what we really need at this point in time. The APC is in the quest to seize the central power mortgaging its presidential candidacy to the wrong man. I want not just any change, I want a POSITIVE CHANGE...a positive change has nothing to do with a change of party either PDP/APC/APGA/etc...its in the individual/person in question. APC offers a change in the party dominance of the PDP at the helm of affairs but they served the wrong menu (GMB) to the electorates. Our change will come but fellow Nigerian youths, its not here yet...God bless Nigeria.

mrofficial:

@Op, that's the reason we all want change. If APC doesn't perform, we vote them out. As this will get them on their toes to want to serve the country. I don't see any positive development since GEJ assumed office, so there is nothing to lose.

MalcoImX:
Never, my man. I've always been an advocate of good governance. I am sure I'd cause to disagree with you, but on this one you'll forever be thankful for taking this decision.
But may I request, even if you prefer to be party-less you join the Buhari train. Don't doubt it, he has good intentions for the country. I just read Ekwueme's interview and it looks there's no sign of him being bitter about Buhari, with all the things they claimed Buhari did to him.

Jayne2014:
Nice op. This has always been my position. A polity that has Buhari and Jonathan as the two main options is greatly flawed. Which of the other contestants can one vote for? I prefer to waste my vote on that dark Horse.

MalcoImX:
I am moved. Don is really and truly a person. It takes a man to go on introspection and chart a new path. You have a conscience that's why you can see the truth and be healed. May God continue to assist you on this wise and spirit-filled journey.

Dlionsheart:
Like serious ??

ahhh!

your case is serious.

I give up on you.

Mogidi:
@donmalcolm21

I feel your pain and there are things the president could have done better without the North refusing to accept him as their president from day one.
But I hope you read the WikiLeaks excerpts which revealed what Tinubu really thinks about Buhari. The same Buhari El-Rufai said is unelectable due to extremism
Are you ready to pitch tent with the well marketed terrorist posing as messiah?

If Nigerians hated Buhari in 2003, 2007 and 2011 because of his deeds, am sure Nigerians will still see through the smoke screen of APC marketing. A man who failed at everything he's ever done in his life is marketed as a messiah.
Only in Nigeria would a man who hasn't worked in 30yrs be promoted as an economic messiah/guru.

If only Osama Bin Laden has the APC publicity team to turn him from a terrorist to a lovable terrorist.
Anyway I wish you the best, GEJ however is here to stay till 2019, nothing will change that.

Dlionsheart:
And you think that Mr. President, if reelected to power this year will remained this silent, gentle, etc about the boko haram insurgence and the chibok girls??. No bro, I don't think so. The Jonathan you're seeing now will be different, I tell you.


All hope is not lost.

SeverusSnape:
Nice one OP...
Buhari and Jonathan, None of them deserves my vote, but all the same, I'll vote the lesser evil.

LouisVanGaal:
I feel your pain Op! GEJ is a crafty man...and here in Naija, litu thingz trip us..we tend to be sentimental and show signs of weakness in pressing for what we truly want/deserve!
Why MOST persons are voting for GEJ is not because of his competence, but because of his outward demeanour..like his perceived quietness or his puerile smile...all these things he has perfected with time to beguile us

Dlionsheart:
Bros, that's how I felt sometimes but I always ask myself, if all Nigerian leave them without exercising our civic responsibility, where will the change come from

SUBMARINE:
Bye bye

Dear comrade

Kiss Beer and Obiageli for me


GEJ till God says otherwise

Djicemob:
OP what exactly are you saying? Are you saying you have no bearing? #JustAsking

SweetyZinta:
Change or no Change God has used jonathan to teach godfathers a bitter lesson(imposition of candidates against d will of d people) Imagine!! obj said he prefers Buhari 2WIN & Take him back 2 prison than 4 Jonathan 2win. Smh 4 Naija

diluminati:
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Mogidi and all idi0ts, ask your president...

where are the chibok girls? would he atone for the lives of thousands of igbos that were massacred in one bomb blast or the other? and you want him to continue? what crass stupidiity[/size]