I was really touched by your case, hence the following advise:
You're not in the position to be giving people money, your situation needs help. Your family should be helping you for now not the other way round or else your financial status will never improve.
Drop your ego, ask anyone that has child/children the stress they go through in raising them, needless to talk about raising 3 kids all at once. Before going to work in the morning, take part in caring for the triplet, help around the house, lift a little bit of the house chores from your wife.
Spend time to play with your children, baby sit them let your wife rest and see if there will be a change or not.
Your cannot claim to love the children if you don't love their mother.
This is my 2 naira advise, you asked for it.
Wish you wisdom to understand.
Shalom

Please I would like to know the average cost of land preparation around Ido, Oyo state. The land is not a fully straight land, while some parts are straight others are sloppy.
I would also like which option is better between manual clearing and using a tractor?


I would really appreciate any advise on farm preparation for the next farming season.