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Please I need to talk to someone my head is really aching me, cause a lot of things are just adding up.

Olalan:
You have to dig for more evidence now and confront her, let me prepare your mind that you might find more nasty revelations but the earlier the better. Like I wrote earlier a wife who has a lover they both visit a traditionalist is like living with a time bomb waiting to explode.

She deletes all the messages I was just unlucky to find this one.

I just need someone to talk to, can't go to family and friends cause of shame

Olalan:
OP, sorry you might be living with a cheating wife, more worrisome is the babalawo talk. You need to be very careful and try getting more evidence after which you confront her. But you must be wise in your confrontation with her cause she and her lover might want to harm you. Never underestimate what people who visit traditionalist can do.
Really the rate of cheating wives is so alarming this days and this I still blame on multiple sexual relations before marriage.

Brother I don't want to go through her chats anymore the headache and heartache is killing me. Am afraid of what I will find

Heebah:
Why dont u confront her with this evidence instead of giving urself hbp!

And if she says it is true what then will I do, I wished I didn't check her chat.

Am angry and confused

I am worrying myself over nothing

Thank you all.