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Ovulo:
You may have probably been hypnotised by the lady....thank your stars for you are free now.

WatchYourSix:
Oga..dont let anyone tell you what to do...just do what is reasonable for your family....u said she don born for you...that means she has you by the balls...u have to be responsible foe your kid.....

But marriage is not by force ooooo ..... make nobody go kill you or give u hypertension..from your rightup you seem very frustrated....just calm down....stayimg away for your source of frustration is not a bad idea...

How ever u must let her know u are not being manipulated...no need to fight...if she demand for unreasonable things...do what you feel is reasonable and leave the rest....

U can only afford one bedroom..rent am if she no want make she go her papa house..

Toktee:
You are in relationship with Olosho...

why do u have to move out of your house for her?

Did you people married legally ?

why do you have to run when she threatens with vigilante?
Is she responsible for your success?


Why don't you eject her?

Are you sure she's not the one paying bills?


Eject her nothing will happen to you.

iRepNaija1:
OP, there are a lot of details missing in this story that strangers on the internet cannot help you parse through. The only person who can give you the answers you seek is your partner/mother of your child. You need to sit down and have an honest conversation with her. Address your concerns but avoid making baseless accusations (because all I've read are suspicions and not confirmations).


Bro even if I do that right now, she doesn't want to give a listening ear
Keep your questions open-ended and your voice neutral so it does not seem like you're coming from a judgmental place. Tell her that honesty is the foundation of any relationship, that's all you're seeking, and she should be open with you about her life, especially since you both are permanently tied to each other because of your child. Good luck.

abiolamitodun:
Ur story is kinda funny

WatchYourSix:
Did u say u have to leave your house??


What i dont get is how people get this weak

killmods:
You get liver to dey do Rawlins with girl u just met, steady digging and pouring yet u knew practically nothing about her. Even now u no even know anything about ur baby mama? I np dey insult u oo but u be real big fool. Na veteran okpo u add join ur life so.. old Tele Tele. Ur problems never even start yet. Na only the type of life u introduce that innocent child enter just dey pain me inside. Goat head

Zonefree:
So, what help do you need now?

iRepNaija1:
OP, there are a lot of details missing in this story that strangers on the internet cannot help you parse through. The only person who can give you the answers you seek is your partner/mother of your child. You need to sit down and have an honest conversation with her. Address your concerns but avoid making baseless accusations (because all I've read are suspicions and not confirmations).

She doesn't want to be reasoned with,she even blocked me on WhatsApp,this same Lady has insulted my full family

Keep your questions open-ended and your voice neutral so it does not seem like you're coming from a judgmental place. Tell her that honesty is the foundation of any relationship, that's all you're seeking, and she should be open with you about her life, especially since you both are permanently tied to each other because of your child. Good luck.

Zonefree:
So, what help do you need now?