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Orobokibo1:
You don eat vegetable

Meaning?,she use to cook,but we eat it together

Business1230:
If you want someone to help u bring her details out... I mean private investigator, u can call me let me link u up

Better

Charly68:
She is your baby mama so to say and that has not translated to marriage.. relocate and leave her to live her life.. keep a tab on her because of your child and don't ever allow any woman to destroy your peace.. Be the man and stop all this weakling tendency .

Of which I have done

Maverick777:
You're in warri yeah?
if yes, send me your contact.
If no, ignore.

make sure its a call contact
I don't do WhatsApp

I've called you already
Ignore the aforementioned.

Yes I saved your number

okoroemeka:
exactly what I wanted to ask,story smells funky

You don't understand,I still love have if she can come clean to me about the whole truth,but Pride won't make her admits her lies

Albertone:
What I'm about to say is the plain truth:
She just used you to get pregnant as age is no more on her side.

She wanted you to say you're her brother because to her, you are not dating.You are just her sperm donor.
Also,she doesn't want people to see her,as old as she is,dating a small boy.[You are the one dating her,she is not dating you].

She used juju to tie you because she wants to have more children with you.
She also wants you to keep pleasing her and spending money.

If it's so I think I need to follow advice now

DOWN2HeartLoved:
Someone said she doesn't love me anymore,she needs to travel,so distance can make her rekindle the love again,but I don't know,is letting to travel good?,or what I personally went to pack somethings at Sapele she said belongs to her, chairs of which she sold,fan,water heater and a big shelf,am I still going to experience all this?

Am thinking of moving my chairs and the last things I have in the house

Savourt:
Bro I think you are just wasting your time if you think it will still work. Start making the plans to exit the relationship and start your own life afresh.

Even if her mother asks her to be reunited with you, it will still be the same cycle of quarrels and toxicity as una don build this relationship on lies and faulty foundation.

Someone said she doesn't love me anymore,she needs to travel,so distance can make her rekindle the love again,but I don't know,is letting to travel good?,or what I personally went to pack somethings at Sapele she said belongs to her, chairs of which she sold,fan,water heater and a big shelf,am I still going to experience all this?

Zanzibar1:
You are under a spell. You need to consult a Dibia

Spell??

Gaddafih001:
Just leave with your life.
My boss was killed because he wanted to confirm what he was hearing.
I ran away from a situation worse than yours even after she had 3 kids and told me to my face that they ain’t mine.
Story long abeg but I am 100 % sure it will end your life or end in tears.

What is all these then?,why pretend at first,why are women so heartless to a loving and caring person?

UpInTheSky:
OP, your post is funny.

And am totally frustrated here?, it's just so hard to move on

Ximenez:
Please how old are you?
You are in your early 20s right?

Yes 24

Kobojunkie:
What exactly is it that is happening to you?

You dated her and even had a child with her disregarding her age and background all that while, so why are all those suddenly problems?

You say people are telling you she is a club girl, my question to you is, do you have evidence of this behind "people are saying..."?

"People are saying" she has a house, do you have evidence of this or are you simply looking for reasons to abandon her and maybe the child?

If she blocks your calls the broach the issue and figure out where your relationship is with her that way. All these other childish reasons you offer are just ridiculous to read.

God help me out, begging now wouldn't it be me lowering myself esteem again to emotional torture and blackmail?

WorldsNumber1:
She might have used kayamata for you abi no be juju be dat?

Reasons everyone is staying away from me, because they know once I have money even if it's 50K am running heels to go please her

Ravenbeast1:
OP you wey write this story, read am as one of us, e make sense to you? As you read am so, you happy with the poster?
Story looks fabricated sha

How can I come to nairaland to fabricate stories, this is happening to me and the worst part is love still dey, people say I love her too much,why she doesn't love even to admit to others that am her husband

Exjoker:
I don't know what you have invested into the relationship but if you don't love her, then kick her put your life since you are not legally married to her...

When she wants to give birth I took BG risk, she's from Orogun,if anything would have happened to her I would have been held responsible,still yet

A point I skipped,why did she say I should say am her brother at the Hospital.

Can you believe same thing happened on the Onset of the relationship,I should say am her brother

Enikeey:
@Op, sincerely speaking she has moved on long ago, smell the coffee bro.

She told me that am just wasting my time

Savourt:
Chai! you don really suffer. You need to move on.

Called the mother saying I should exercise patience,what patience can I exercise?, your daughter is in my house,I moved out still yet relationship gets bad day by day despite the distance

Enikeey:
@Op, sincerely speaking she has moved on long ago, smell the coffee bro.

Savourt:
Did you do any marriage rites with her or you guys were just living together?

Just living together

Savourt:
Really? No wonder everyone is looking at you as the mad person and she as the good person.

Why will you call her mother and raise baseless accusations?
Do you have proof?
Have you been doing this kind of thing before (calling her mum or others to raise baseless accusations)?
Are you sure she isn't right about reporting you to vigilante? It seems like you might actually be the troublesome one truely for you to lay baseless accusations.

Quick questions;

1.What exactly do you have against her? Asides asking to rent 2 bedsitters, what else are the things you think she is doing wrong?

2. What does she have against you? What are the things she has generally complained about you or the reasons she reported you to vigilante and wants to evict you?

3. Is she done with the relationship? Like is she asking both of you to part ways? What about you are you done or still interested?

4. When you say she is not traceable, I thought you knew her mum's residence? Or don't you?

5. Regarding her age, I understand your doubts but then since you made reference to her brothers, can you wisely find out from any of them the contact of an elderly uncle or man in there family? You can go and see him confidentially and express your concern about the age thing and others. You will make it seem like you wanted to know the truth as you want to proceed with marriage rites (I assume you haven't already done this?) The man will tell you all the truth.

Let's start from answering these questions bro. Your posts seem disjointed but answering these questions will put an order to it and make it more comprehensive, then I and others can accurately advise you based on experience.

Hoping to hear back from you.

Cheers.

She told me plainly that she doesn't love me,I should go and die,she probably doesn't want me to die on her neck,this lady(mature one at that), Knows I love her and just look at the nonsense am facing

Ayomel:
Love can render you useless

After this do you think I'll take the risk again

iRepNaija1:
I didn't realize it was that serious. Do you have access to your child at all? If so, you may want to consider ending whatever relationship you have with this woman, maintain a platonic relationship, and define a child arrangement schedule (for communication and visitation between the two of you). If she is not open to dialogue, then there's not much you can do except ensure that the both of you have equitable and open access to your child.

She even ridicules me to neighbors anytime am around,like the craze man don come again, they'll be telling her not to even talk to me, just imagine

Savourt:
Really? No wonder everyone is looking at you as the mad person and she as the good person.

Why will you call her mother and raise baseless accusations?
Do you have proof?
Have you been doing this kind of thing before (calling her mum or others to raise baseless accusations)?
Are you sure she isn't right about reporting you to vigilante? It seems like you might actually be the troublesome one truely for you to lay baseless accusations.

Quick questions;

1.What exactly do you have against her? Asides asking to rent 2 bedsitters, what else are the things you think she is doing wrong?

2. What does she have against you? What are the things she has generally complained about you or the reasons she reported you to vigilante and wants to evict you?

3. Is she done with the relationship? Like is she asking both of you to part ways? What about you are you done or still interested?

4. When you say she is not traceable, I thought you knew her mum's residence? Or don't you?

5. Regarding her age, I understand your doubts but then since you made reference to her brothers, can you wisely find out from any of them the contact of an elderly uncle or man in there family? You can go and see him confidentially and express your concern about the age thing and others. You will make it seem like you wanted to know the truth as you want to proceed with marriage rites (I assume you haven't already done this?) The man will tell you all the truth.

Let's start from answering these questions bro. Your posts seem disjointed but answering these questions will put an order to it and make it more comprehensive, then I and others can accurately advise you based on experience.

Hoping to hear back from you.

Cheers.

Please am on WhatsApp,09157675389

This issue is serious, because right now I can't focus on doing anything,2 months apart now, she's living I don't care life there, while am suffering bitterly here, but if am to call her there's money,she definitely starts planning on how it should be used

Does this woman even love me?

Savourt:
Really? No wonder everyone is looking at you as the mad person and she as the good person.

Why will you call her mother and raise baseless accusations?
Do you have proof?
Have you been doing this kind of thing before (calling her mum or others to raise baseless accusations)?
Are you sure she isn't right about reporting you to vigilante? It seems like you might actually be the troublesome one truely for you to lay baseless accusations.

Quick questions;

1.What exactly do you have against her? Asides asking to rent 2 bedsitters, what else are the things you think she is doing wrong?

2. What does she have against you? What are the things she has generally complained about you or the reasons she reported you to vigilante and wants to evict you?

3. Is she done with the relationship? Like is she asking both of you to part ways? What about you are you done or still interested?

4. When you say she is not traceable, I thought you knew her mum's residence? Or don't you?

Let's start from answering these questions bro. Your posts seem disjointed but answering these questions will put an order to it and make it more comprehensive, then I and others can accurately advise you based on experience.

Hoping to hear back from you.

Cheers.

Please am on WhatsApp,what will be love if not to forgive?,I know she's far older than me,on her certificate I saw her age of birth 1987, she's always telling me she's just a little age older than me,how pathetic,how someone can be 26 to 28 every year,and I take everything hook-line and sinker

Savourt:
Really? No wonder everyone is looking at you as the mad person and she as the good person.

Why will you call her mother and raise baseless accusations?
Do you have proof?
Have you been doing this kind of thing before (calling her mum or others to raise baseless accusations)?
Are you sure she isn't right about reporting you to vigilante? It seems like you might actually be the troublesome one truely for you to lay baseless accusations.

Quick questions;

1.What exactly do you have against her? Asides asking to rent 2 bedsitters, what else are the things you think she is doing wrong?

2. What does she have against you? What are the things she has generally complained about you or the reasons she reported you to vigilante and wants to evict you?

3. Is she done with the relationship? Like is she asking both of you to part ways? What about you are you done or still interested?

4. When you say she is not traceable, I thought you knew her mum's residence? Or don't you?

Let's start from answering these questions bro. Your posts seem disjointed but answering these questions will put an order to it and make it more comprehensive, then I and others can accurately advise you based on experience.

Hoping to hear back from you.

Cheers.

Seriously I have loved her, although I cheated once that was last year,we allowed it to slide, she's acting as if she's God,the unforgiving type,and blames you till you feel useless, always complaining am about to take the same step my dad did by abadoning her and my child,am really confused,she even dropped a voicenote on WhatsApp that the child is not mine,due to everyday fight, everyday quarrels I left,

iRepNaija1:
I didn't realize it was that serious. Do you have access to your child at all? If so, you may want to consider ending whatever relationship you have with this woman, maintain a platonic relationship, and define a child arrangement schedule (for communication and visitation between the two of you). If she is not open to dialogue, then there's not much you can do except ensure that the both of you have equitable and open access to your child.

She even threatened that at least I still call her, she's going to leave the house and I will not be able to trace her,the child is my own ,she seriously taking to people's advise now

Acidosis:
So what do you want to do now?

Everyone is just telling me run for your life, run for your life what about my child?

obinnazy:
Omo guys dey really suffer for ladies hand ooo

'I have invested heavily'...please did she force you to?

If not for love,what else?

Toktee:
what's her name ?
make we do back ground check for you.

Blessing

killmods:
You better get up and pull urself out with ur child from that girl. U shouldn't even be entangled with her at all.. I hope the child is even urs. U should have done ur home work. Don't be surprised that girl has families for different men in different cities. Some of them na their way. I wish u goodluck

Ewoooo!!!! Am finished �