₦airaland Forum

You've been on Nairaland since 2007 & you still never get sense

Kobojunkie:
I happen to know a woman who doesn't really know to cook well. She is your basic level cook but she has a son who is about 13 now, who not only knows how to cook, but does it well and he cleans the house too. He does not complain as he prefers to do it than have his mum handle it. He says she disorganized the place when she cleaned and that maybe irks him too. His mum is a busy banker any who is wired well for her Job but not for domestic stuff. The husband knows to cook too.

Compulsory, it is not. A home can survive well without the woman as a cook.

All these things are really meaningless things that can easily be resolved without having to impose it on one member of the union or the other. We live in an age where more and more even single folks order over 50% of their meals. And this is becoming a thing even for the married, showing how meaningless these traditions we once had really are.

You were making sense until you added Sexing. Nah woman dey benefit pass from sex. We satisfy them. That's why they have a whole clitoris

Curvinus:
OP I think you are taking this redpill talk to an extreme and toxic level that may end up consuming you. To put things in perspective, Redpill is not the same as hating women. Its like you've never been cared for by women, hence the bitterness.

Personally, I've benefitted a lot from women so I dont go about bashing them needlessly. However, there are the entitled class of women who want to exploit you without contributing meaningfully to your life. It is this lot that redpill teaches you to avoid.

A lot of women in our society today are bread winners for their families. My own sister has been the one catering for her family since she got married in 2012. Her husband is unemployed and she even tried raising money for him to go into agro business bwhich didnt turn out well. I lent her some money to start up her own business after she got fired working as sales attendant in a pharmacy and today she has opened a business for her husband from the proceeds after repaying part of the loan.

I have a lot of respect for Nigerian women because of what they go through on a daily basis in this weird system we are operating. Nigeria is a known poverty capital. What did you expect that the women will lie down and rot without trying to survive. Men and women are at the receiving end of this harsh economic climate and it's pointless just bashing women endlessly.

A lot of this women, what they want from a man is just commitment that could lead to marriage and once they are in a relationship with you, they do everything within their powers, like washing, cooking, cleaning, sexing and some even spending on you just so you could end up as couples and start a family. But In the end, most men will still leave them for a younger and prettier girl.

I think you are too detached from what is happening in the trenches to make valid contributions on this redpill talk.

Continue finding the men that'll marry you if you don't know how to cook. Nah baby mama you go turn to

Iyaebe:
Not all men,cooking skills ain't that important to some men