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6. You are fearless

Actually, you are probably afraid of at least one thing. But there is a difference between your fears and the fears of others; your fears do not dictate how you will live your life.

5. You can live without the spotlight

If you’ve got a strong personality, then you do not need attention. So why do people who meet you think you are an attention hog? It’s because you have something besides a strong personality; you have a magnetic personality as well. People are just drawn to your openness and honesty. You don’t socialize because you have a dire need to- you do it because people need and want you around.

4. You listen to others

Sure, it sounds like a great thing that most people would appreciate. However, listening to people and giving them your honest advice can be terrifying to someone who is used to living their life in a box of conformity and shame.

3. You walk away from insensitivity, idiocy, and willful ignorance

Domineering personalities stem from a lack of knowledge, and understanding. Strong personalities are developed by being thoughtful and well-informed. There is a massive difference between these two.

See, you have spent plenty of time and effort using your brain power for good. So you don’t tolerate people who make instant judgments about things they don’t know anything about. This very well might be your best quality- not because you could use your intellect to influence others, but you can use your knowledge to encourage them to think about what they say before they poison the air.

2. You can’t stand small talk

Small talk is unbearable. You have a lot of ideas, so of course you don’t want to waste time talking about what people are wearing or who is dating whom, when you could be talking about things that matter and, oh I don’t know, maybe change the world.

1. You don’t tolerate excuses

Also called ‘accountability.’ You do not put up with excuses. If you have a strong personality, you aren’t going to listen to people whine and complain about what they can’t do, what has gone wrong, and why they can’t succeed. You’d rather spend your energy focusing on what you can do, what can be resolved, and what can be accomplished. Sure, there might be plenty of reasons why you can’t do something…but there are more reasons why you can.

Those with a strong personality are not DOMINATING or RUDE - you’re not being difficult or “crossing the line.” None of that reflects who you are, or what your personality is, at all.  In fact, most strong people are giant balls of fluff- they’re really just kind-hearted softies.

But things get twisted because people with domineering personalities (those who refuse to back down when they are wrong, and won’t admit mistakes) give those with strong personalities (those who hold the other types accountable for their actions, words, and mistakes) a bad reputation. It’s not that you have to win, you’re just not willing to let others walk all over you whenever they please.

A plane passenger who spied on her husband’s phone mid-flight and discovered he was having an affair caused such a commotion, the flight had to make an emergency landing.

The Iranian woman, who was with her husband and their young child on a Qatar Airways flight from Doha to Bali on Sunday, unlocked her sleeping hubby’s phone by putting his finger on the home button and found evidence he was cheating on her, the Times of India reported.

The woman, who reportedly had been drinking alcohol, then started a fight with her husband and “misbehaved” when flight crew tried to calm her down, according to the paper.

The situation got “out of hand” and the pilot made the decision to divert to Chennai, India. The family of three were offloaded at Chennai airport and the plane continued its journey to Bali.

As there was no security issue, the family were soon able to fly to Kuala Lumpur, where they boarded a flight back to Doha.

In a statement, an official from India’s Central Industrial Security Force confirmed the incident.
“A lady along with her husband and a child, all Iranian nationals, were offloaded by Qatar Airline as the lady passenger (who was intoxicated) misbehaved with crew members in-flight,” the official said.

“They were sent to Kuala Lumpur by Batik Air flight 6019 for further travel to Doha.”
Qatar Airways told the Times of India: “In respect of passenger privacy, we do not comment on individual cases.”

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This guy has a message to his fellow Kenyans especially to their ladies. He said to the video that went viral , their Kenyan women are beautiful but they very loose as MF to give themselves to these Nigerian men for free.
He also added that Nigerian men don't know how to speak good English and has nothing to offer to their ladies. According to him Nigerian men ran away from Nigeria and travelled to Kenya because Nigerian women are very ugly and they don't even have electricity.

To my fellow Nigerians, what's your take on this matter?

I saw this picture circulating on social media and so I want to share it here as well. They didn't name the girl but how she pose on her birthday with number 18 was truly surprising.

Some women are really good in playing hide and seek.

Congrats to your brother and his soon to be wife.

Let's share our best and worse attitude that we think nairalanders should know.

My best attitude is I am always punctual in every meeting or event and I like to treat my girl a cup of ice cream especially when she's moody.

My worse attitude is I'm a little bit impatient.

Oya, tell us yours. Leggo.

Each one of us has a favorite nairalanders to the extent we make effort to extend our friendships offline. So why not share the best traits of a nairalander(s) you really like about him or her?

Let's get wired and be familiarize with one another.

As for me, I am still looking for that person to extend my friendship.

Travel abroad bruh. This will give you an edge to get a better job. You can add that to your CV and that will be noticed.

Lol.

Iamkashybaby let's welcome the autumn my dear

IamKashyBaby:


Jeeezzzu is laawd!

Oohh plz..I hope this wont never gonna happen to me sha..

If you will give me a chance I wont let that happen to you. I sent you pm. Hope you give me a chance and i will prove it you Miss Pretty.

Smh

Yeye. What are you talking bih? Shut up.

Im satisfied with my size bih.

Happy new month to everyone.

Bruh that feeling is unexplainable.

Lol

Let's keep the ball rolling. Oya let's go!

ISSA PATHETIC.

To my brothers and sisters in the house. What is your view on this matter? Do you agree or disagree?

This is the horrifying moment a man was swallowed whole by a 7-meter-python after harvesting palm oil in a remote village in Indonesia.Akbar Salubiro, 25, went missing the night after setting off to harvest palm oil only to be found by friends the next day inside the the stomach of the giant snake.

Concerned friends and relatives found the python sprawled out in Akbar’s own back garden and feared he had been suffocated and swallowed.When the snake was captured, the boots Akbar was wearing were clearly visible in the stomach of the snake.

Using an a 18-inch long hunting knife, they sliced the serpent’s belly and were horrified to see Akbar’s lifeless body inside.Horrifying footage shows the corpse being slowly removed from the killer reptile as the leathery skin is peeled away.

Akbar’s wife, Munu, was away at the time and only found out when pictures and video emerged in the news, local media reported.Reticulated pythons are boa constrictors that suffocate their victims before swallowing them whole.They can easily eat large mammals like jaguars, deer, and pigs, so swallowing a human is not a big deal for them.

mesoprogress:
Did not bother to go to their station. A DPO that didn't care to stop after hitting me. There wasn't much damage. Those guys are criminals

Wow that's awful bro. Sorry to hear that.

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