So I have this problem, there is this guy at work, and through a series of very naive and very innocent choices, this guy is totally in love with me, but i don't even like this guy at all! I was just being nice! does anyone have any advice? I need to tell him to back off as he's become REALLY attatched to me, but i feel so bad! my mom keeps telling me to be myself, but being myself has gotten me into this mess, but i don't know how to be anyone else! so if you have any advice, it would be much appreciated

Thanks,
!L!