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No one can love you totally 100%. This is because the humans don't have that capacity to do that, no matter how much people profess love to you. The only person that loves you unconditionally is God. You yourself knows that if you are honest.

Believe me human love has attributes of selfishness..because humans are naturally selfish. No human love exit in pure form. So if you can't show 100% love, then why expect it from others?

But the truth is we can grow in love.
Here are some tips to know if he or she loves you..this rule applies to all forms of love..romantic love, platonic love, friendship love, family love.

Truth: one sure sign to know if a person loves you is when they always tell you the truth. They are bold to tell you when you are wrong. They are not pretenders. You know some people never really tell you the truth. They always agree with what you say or do even when they know you are wrong. Please run from such people. People who loves you corrects you. Their approach may vary...some do it calmly others harsely. Believe me they love.

To be continued. .... God bless you

I often people see people fall in love and the next minute, they are out of it. Sometimes they get confused and don't know the real reason why this happen.
The question is what did you fall in love with?
There are some reasons for this. Now I want to say this, "love is constant but the human factor varies." The foundation for this confusion is called lust or infatuation. Falling in love with external values instead of the internal value systems.

If you have this issue here are the possible reasons:

1. If you fall in love with a person's physical looks only, you may fall out of love with them when the looks and charms are gone. That's when the six packs and curves diminishes. Ask yourself this question. ."what if they lose their limbs, or get disfigured would you still love them. Physical looks are important but the beauty of heart is more important.

2. Your likely to fall out of love with them if you fell in love with their pockets. What if he suddenly gets broke? What if the cash doesn't flow as usual? What if he lost all his income? Would you still love him? This kind of scenario happens all the time. We are either guilty or victims of this.

3. You will likely to fall out of love when you fall in love with their status and position. This happens most of the time. So you begin to question the love. What it love all the way?

Falling in love with people goes beyond physical looks, money, status, etc. Here is a quote I read and it says " if you fall in love with person's soul, you will end up loving them..but if you fall in love with their body, you never be satisfied wih them."

Feel free to share your opinions. God bless you.

The new year myth.
It's a New Year, it's a new season and I am glad we made it. Welcome to 2016!!!. I hope you are as excited as I am because I know this year is full of wonderful blessings for those who will tap into it. This is because for every season, God has a plan for every Nation and its inhabitants.
It's very important how we start the year. Some start well and finish badly, while others start badly and finish well. But it's God's will for us to start well and finish well, because He that has begun a good work in you would make sure the good work is completed. On this note I would like to share some insights on maximizing this season.
At the beginning of every new year, I have observed certain things that reoccur overtime. It's like a cycle that keeps people limited. If you are a careful observer, you will hear people say things like this often "this new year, I will be a changed person"..or "am going to do this or that"... It's sometimes called a "New Year's Resolution", and overtime statistics tells us that less than 20% of these promises are kept. These people have good hearts, they really what to effect a positive change and lead better lives but they end up feeling like failures. I know you sometimes wonder why. Here is the reason why.
New year doesn't change people but a "New mentality" does. What changes people is a new mindset. When you understand this truth, i believe it would help straigthen us. In short as the year becomes new you get older, which means you are getting closer to your grave and also on a Biblical note we are closer to the endtime as predicted in the Holy Book. We are closer to the Endtime and honesty speaking the world situation would not improve... but fear not, there is hope for God's people.
The New Year also comes with new challenges. Don't expect a life void of challenges because it doesn't exist. So expect them, prepare for them because in them are opportunities of success. Someone once said "difficult doesn't mean impossible". Know this that God never promised us immunity from challenges but rather He promised us deliverance in them.
I also know there are people who are worried because they didn't achieve certain goals they set for themselves the previous year. They failed and are scared because age is on their side. They lack the zeal and motivation to move ahead. They are scared of the future.
In the same vein others are excited like Caleb...they are screaming "give me this mountain!!!". They are set for Destiny adventure, they are ready to conquer new territories. There are determined to face the challenges of life.
Your being alive is for a reason...think about those who didn't make it, some were better than you but the devil cut short their lives. Others made wrong choices and poor decisions that affected the quality of their lives. Some of us escaped the evil clutch of death by a hair's breadth. I want you to know it's not ordinary and there must be a reason why you are alive today.
Some folks wonder if this year would be different from the previous year. Well the truth is there is nothing wrong with the year. What's wrong is with our mindset, belief systems, and attitudes. Now nothing is really going to change much. It's the same challenges, opportunity and seasons of life.
Someone rightly said that you shouldn't expect things to change when you keep doing them the same way. The only thing that is constant is change. Change starts from the mind and that's more important. Let's be the change we dream about. I believe a the New Year's Resolution should be all about a " New Mind Resolution".
Focus on change... a new approach, a new methodology, new ways of doing old things, new ideas, fresh inspiration, New mindset...
Happy New year!!!... God loves you.

There are thousands of Gods promises to us that we may be able to exhaust in our life time. These promises covers all aspect of our lives. They include salvation, heaing, provision, divine security, wisdom..just name it!. But let me shock by telling you that God never promised that we would not have troubles.!!!. Really? Yes. So if didn't promise us immunity from troubles of life, then what did He promise us about troubles of life.? God promised to deliver us from every challenges. Here are some scriptures to the effect. Psalm 34:19, 107:6, 50:15. Friends no matter the challenges you going through today, don't give up because God has promised to deliver you.

Its a fact that as long as we live in this world we are not immuned from challenges. Every one faces it.. It doesn't matter your age, sex, status, position, religion, educational qualification. We experience challenges at different levels. Whether its has to do with our finances, health, academics, career, job, family, addictions, you just name it. People respond to challenges of life diffrently and this is because of our attitides and belief sysytems. Some see challenges as stepping stones, others sees it as setbacks. The question is how do you see it?.(To be continued..)