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Education / Re: We Often Use Acronyms That We Do Not Know Their Meaning In Our Everyday Lives by drevy(m): 7:12pm On Aug 23, 2020
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Religion / Happy Sunday..... Why U Don't Read The Bible... by drevy(m): 7:01am On Jan 07, 2018
Happy sunday...

Reasons why you dont read your Bible?
Here is my free PDF to give practical steps to help deal with excuses that prevents you from reading the Bible.

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1mtcypj51wT-In6egjGYD4tcULsh7_7rq/view?usp=drivesdk.

God bless you
Nairaland / General / Happy Sunday..... Why U Don't Read The Bible... by drevy(m): 6:17am On Jan 07, 2018
Happy sunday...

Reasons why you dont read your Bible?
Here is my free PDF to give practical steps to help deal with excuses that prevents you from reading the Bible.

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1mtcypj51wT-In6egjGYD4tcULsh7_7rq/view?usp=drivesdk
Religion / Reasons why you dont read your Bible... by drevy(m): 9:10pm On Jan 06, 2018
Happy sunday...

Reasons why you dont read your Bible?
Here is my free PDF to give practical steps to help deal with excuses that prevents you from reading the Bible.

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1mtcypj51wT-In6egjGYD4tcULsh7_7rq/view?usp=drivesdk
Car Talk / How To Save Fuel While Driving by drevy(m): 6:13pm On Dec 24, 2017
Nairaland / General / If You Care To Read....!!!.how To Save Fuel During This Festive Season... by drevy(m): 6:07pm On Dec 24, 2017
How to save fuel while during this festive season..(especially for car owners).

Just click for my free PDF

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1M-EAS64HGA-xqGhnwfhL_rwxPO2KIJO2/view?usp=drivesdk
Romance / 10 Important Pre-wedding Tests For Couples by drevy(m): 12:07pm On Sep 09, 2017
Here is a list of test every couple should undergo before they get married.

#Genotype test
# Blood group / Rhesus factor
# Thalassemia
# Screening for chronic diseases
# STDs
# Mental health assessment
# Genetic Screening
# "TORCHS"
# Fertility index
# HIV test.

Try and make research or consult your doctor.
Nairaland / General / 10 Important Pre-wedding Tests For Couples by drevy(m): 11:54am On Sep 09, 2017
Here is a list of test every couple should undergo before they get married.

#Genotype test
# Blood group / Rhesus factor
# Thalassemia
# Screening for chronic diseases
# STDs
# Mental health assessment
# Genetic Screening
# "TORCHS"
# Fertility index
# HIV test.

Try and make research of consult your doctor.
Business / Re: How To Start Bedsheets Business With Just 10k by drevy(m): 6:53am On Aug 27, 2017
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Romance / How To Handle An Ex While In A New Relationship by drevy(m): 10:20am On Aug 11, 2017
Encountering an ex while in a new relationship is common occurrence. Especially if you live in the same neighborhood, city, country. Also the emergence of the Internet, social media has made it almost impossible to avoid contact with people.

The question is how do you handle them if they show up and put pressure on you for another chance while in another serious relationship.

Some people advocate that you avoid them. This is partly true as avoiding them could help a great deal. But what if a situation arises where they cant be avoided what to you do? The truth is that we cannot always avoid them but we could learn to manage them or the situation it arise.

Also it's important to note that there is no specific way or special formula to effectively manage these real life situations.

Here are some tips that can help.
There different degrees of pressure from an ex, and these degrees demands different approaches.

1. First degree pressure (FGP).
This stage is quite easy and you can comfortably handle it. It characterised with infrequent calls and text messages, harmless pleasantries and for most people it's OK and the can handle it. So if you feel safe handling it, good for you.

2. Second degree pressure (SDP)
This is where caution is required and most often our response in the first stage often determines how fast or whether or not we would get to the second stage.
The ex becomes bolder, calls and messages becomes more frequent. This is where the red light in you begins to beep. But we often ignored it and if this is not properly handled things could get worse.

And I think it's time you involve a third party who can either be your spouse or someone you can be accountable to. Involving a third party often helps to keep us in check if by any means we get shaky alittle emontionally.

TELL YOUR SPOUSE
Please tell your spouse. It's dangerous if they find out accidentally even if your motives are pure or its just "harmless communication" Letting your spouse know is not a sign of weakness or incompetence rather its a sign of trust and love.

But what if my spouse misunderstands me? Many people have had this challenge, they tell their spouse and them get blamed for it. "Its your fault, you let her into your life again" True your actions maybe misunderstood or you let down your guards and it happened. But for opening up to you speaks in volume. And as for spouses whose reactions are not accommodative, you may want to consider being in their shoes for a moment so listen with your heart.

PRAY ABOUT IT
For those of you who believe in the power of pray, then pray about it. God cares and He is willing to help you if you ask for help. You ask for his help not only when you feel you can't handle the situation but also if though you feel you can too. Talk to the Lord about it he will help you.

Pls feel free to contribute.... Thanks
Romance / How To Handle An Ex While In A New Relationship by drevy(m): 8:36am On Aug 10, 2017
Encountering an ex while in a new relationship is common occurrence. Especially if you live in the same neighborhood, city, country. Also the emergence of the Internet, social media has made it almost impossible to avoid contact with people.

The question is how do you handle them if they show up and put pressure on you for another chance while in another serious relationship.

Some people advocate that you avoid them. This is partly true as avoiding them could help a great deal. But what if a situation arises where they cant be avoided what to you do? The truth is that we cannot always avoid them but we could learn to manage them or the situation it arise.

Also it's important to note that there is no specific way or special formula to effectively manage these real life situations.

Here are some tips that can help.
There different degrees of pressure from an ex, and these degrees demands different approaches.

1. First degree pressure (FGP).
This stage is quite easy and you can comfortably handle it. It characterised with infrequent calls and text messages, harmless pleasantries and for most people it's OK and the can handle it. So if you feel safe handling it, good for you.

2. Second degree pressure (SDP)
This is where caution is required and most often our response in the first stage often determines how fast or whether or not we would get to the second stage.
The ex becomes bolder, calls and messages becomes more frequent. This is where the red light in you begins to beep. But we often ignored it and if this is not properly handled things could get worse.

And I think it's time you involve a third party who can either be your spouse or someone you can be accountable to. Involving a third party often helps to keep us in check if by any means we get shaky alittle emontionally.

TELL YOUR SPOUSE
Please tell your spouse. It's dangerous if they find out accidentally even if your motives are pure or its just "harmless communication" Letting your spouse know is not a sign of weakness or incompetence rather its a sign of trust and love.

But what if my spouse misunderstands me? Many people have had this challenge, they tell their spouse and them get blamed for it. "Its your fault, you let her into your life again" True your actions maybe misunderstood or you let down your guards and it happened. But for opening up to you speaks in volume. And as for spouses whose reactions are not accommodative, you may want to consider being in their shoes for a moment so listen with your heart.

PRAY ABOUT IT
For those of you who believe in the power of pray, then pray about it. God cares and He is willing to help you if you ask for help. You ask for his help not only when you feel you can't handle the situation but also if though you feel you can too. Talk to the Lord about it he will help you.

Pls feel free to contribute.... Thanks
Nairaland / General / How To Handle An Ex While In A New Relationship by drevy(m): 8:30am On Aug 10, 2017
Encountering an ex while in a new relationship is common occurrence. Especially if you live in the same neighborhood, city, country. Also the emergence of the Internet, social media has made it almost impossible to avoid contact with people.

The question is how do you handle them if they show up and put pressure on you for another chance while in another serious relationship.

Some people advocate that you avoid them. This is partly true as avoiding them could help a great deal. But what if a situation arises where they cant be avoided what to you do? The truth is that we cannot always avoid them but we could learn to manage them or the situation it arise.

Also it's important to note that there is no specific way or special formula to effectively manage these real life situations.

Here are some tips that can help.
There different degrees of pressure from an ex, and these degrees demands different approaches.

1. First degree pressure (FGP).
This stage is quite easy and you can comfortably handle it. It characterised with infrequent calls and text messages, harmless pleasantries and for most people it's OK and the can handle it. So if you feel safe handling it, good for you.

2. Second degree pressure (SDP)
This is where caution is required and most often our response in the first stage often determines how fast or whether or not we would get to the second stage.
The ex becomes bolder, calls and messages becomes more frequent. This is where the red light in you begins to beep. But we often ignored it and if this is not properly handled things could get worse.

And I think it's time you involve a third party who can either be your spouse or someone you can be accountable to. Involving a third party often helps to keep us in check if by any means we get shaky alittle emontionally.

TELL YOUR SPOUSE
Please tell your spouse. It's dangerous if they find out accidentally even if your motives are pure or its just "harmless communication" Letting your spouse know is not a sign of weakness or incompetence rather its a sign of trust and love.

But what if my spouse misunderstands me? Many people have had this challenge, they tell their spouse and them get blamed for it. "Its your fault, you let her into your life again" True your actions maybe misunderstood or you let down your guards and it happened. But for opening up to you speaks in volume. And as for spouses whose reactions are not accommodative, you may want to consider being in their shoes for a moment so listen with your heart.

PRAY ABOUT IT
For those of you who believe in the power of pray, then pray about itpray about it. God cares and He is willing to help you if you ask for help. You ask for his help not only when you feel you can't handle the situation but also if though you feel you can too. Talk to the Lord about it he will help you.

Pls feel free to contribute.... Thanks
Autos / How To Handle An Ex While In A New Relationship by drevy(m): 8:24am On Aug 10, 2017
Encountering an ex while in a new relationship is common occurrence. Especially if you live in the same neighborhood, city, country. Also the emergence of the Internet, social media has made it almost impossible to avoid contact with people.

The question is how do you handle them if they show up and put pressure on you for another chance while in another serious relationship.

Some people advocate that you avoid them. This is partly true as avoiding them could help a great deal. But what if a situation arises where they cant be avoided what to you do? The truth is that we cannot always avoid them but we could learn to manage them or the situation it arise.

Also it's important to note that there is no specific way or special formula to effectively manage these real life situations.

Here are some tips that can help.
There different degrees of pressure from an ex, and these degrees demands different approaches.

1. First degree pressure (FGP).
This stage is quite easy and you can comfortably handle it. It characterised with infrequent calls and text messages, harmless pleasantries and for most people it's OK and the can handle it. So if you feel safe handling it, good for you.

2. Second degree pressure (SDP)
This is where caution is required and most often our response in the first stage often determines how fast or whether or not we would get to the second stage.
The ex becomes bolder, calls and messages becomes more frequent. This is where the red light in you begins to beep. But we often ignored it and if this is not properly handled things could get worse.

And I think it's time you involve a third party who can either be your spouse or someone you can be accountable to. Involving a third party often helps to keep us in check if by any means we get shaky alittle emontionally.

TELL YOUR SPOUSE
Please tell your spouse. It's dangerous if they find out accidentally even if your motives are pure or its just "harmless communication" Letting your spouse know is not a sign of weakness or incompetence rather its a sign of trust and love.

But what if my spouse misunderstands me? Many people have had this challenge, they tell their spouse and them get blamed for it. "Its your fault, you let her into your life again" True your actions maybe misunderstood or you let down your guards and it happened. But for opening up to you speaks in volume. And as for spouses whose reactions are not accommodative, you may want to consider being in their shoes for a moment so listen with your heart.

PRAY ABOUT IT
For those of you who believe in the power of pray, then pray about it. God cares and He is willing to help you if you ask for help. You ask for his help not only when you feel you can't handle the situation but also if though you feel you can too. Talk to the Lord about it he will help you.
Pls feel free to contribute.... Thanks
Investment / Re: New And Profitable Investment Opportunity by drevy(m): 7:09am On Dec 15, 2016
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Religion / How To Thank God In Difficult Times by drevy(m): 9:44pm On Mar 25, 2016
Every one do experience hard times. It doesn't matter your age, sex, religion, education, race ...etcetera.
But God expects us to thank Him in it. I want you to know we are thank God for His blessings and thank Him in the midst of bad things. We dont thank Him for bad things because He is not responsible for them. It's not easy but it's possible.
For example when you are confused about making a major decision in your life. Instead of worrying and crying, begin to thank God in that crises. "What am I thanking Him for?" You may ask. You thank Him for His word, because He said He will give us wisdom. .so thank Him for wisdom and you will see the manifestation.
If you going through hard times, and you need to know what God's word says, indicate and I will reply you. GBU
Romance / Re: The Reason Why You Often Fall In And Out Of Love. by drevy(m): 9:17am On Mar 25, 2016
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Romance / Re: The Reason Why You Often Fall In And Out Of Love. by drevy(m): 7:14am On Mar 25, 2016
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Romance / The Reason Why You Often Fall In And Out Of Love. by drevy(m): 6:36am On Mar 25, 2016
I often people see people fall in love and the next minute, they are out of it. Sometimes they get confused and don't know the real reason why this happen.
The question is what did you fall in love with?
There are some reasons for this. Now I want to say this, "love is constant but the human factor varies." The foundation for this confusion is called lust or infatuation. Falling in love with external values instead of the internal value systems.

If you have this issue here are the possible reasons:

1. If you fall in love with a person's physical looks only, you may fall out of love with them when the looks and charms are gone. That's when the six packs and curves diminishes. Ask yourself this question. ."what if they lose their limbs, or get disfigured would you still love them. Physical looks are important but the beauty of heart is more important.

2. Your likely to fall out of love with them if you fell in love with their pockets. What if he suddenly gets broke? What if the cash doesn't flow as usual? What if he lost all his income? Would you still love him? This kind of scenario happens all the time. We are either guilty or victims of this.

3. You will likely to fall out of love when you fall in love with their status and position. This happens most of the time. So you begin to question the love. What it love all the way?

Falling in love with people goes beyond physical looks, money, status, etc. Here is a quote I read and it says " if you fall in love with person's soul, you will end up loving them..but if you fall in love with their body, you never be satisfied wih them."

Feel free to share your opinions. God bless you.
Investment / Re: Be Our Representative By Selling Our Application In Your City. by drevy(m): 3:50pm On Mar 17, 2016
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Religion / don't expect God to ask you these questions. ..must read..!!! by drevy(m): 9:28pm On Jan 10, 2016
Believe me folks, so many people are in for a shocker when they meet God.

Here are some question God will not ask you.

1. God will not ask you your bank statement.. (that's for folks who put their trust in money).

2. God will not ask you if you were educated or not. (It's not about the degrees..because "people don't care how much you know until they know how much you care".

3. God will not ask you how many houses and cars you have.. ( He is not impressed . He has mansions in heaven and streets of gold..!!!..wow..!!!..can you beat that??).

4. God will not ask you if you were rich or poor.
(Being rich or poor is a choice).

5. God would not be intrested in your skin colour, Nationality or geographic location.

6. God will not ask you what church you attented or you religion.. (its not all about denominations and religions).


Rather God would ask you some of these..

1. How you responded to His Son Jesus. How you responded to His Love...His plan for salvation through Jesus Christ. (Salvation is God's plan for everyone. Accept Jesus today. This is the most important step).

2. How you managed the gifts, talents He gave you. How you were able to use what He gave you to make the world a better place.

3. God would ask you how you spent your time.

4. God would ask you how you used you how many times you showed love to people. How many times you cared for people around you. (Don't forget the orphans, widows and the poor
...show some love). Be a blessing and reach out.

5. Very importantly. ...He would ask you if you fulfilled your purpose on earth...the reason He created you.

6. He will ask you how you managed the resources He gave you.

God bless you as you think about these life truths. Judge yourself and make necessary ammends. .drevy..
Romance / What To Do When LOVE Gets So Cold.....a Must Read!!! by drevy(m): 1:01pm On Jan 09, 2016
There are many aspects to love. Love is a feeling, sometimes it's an emotion, other times it's something you can't just explain....but you feel it and ..words are not enough to describe the feeling....(can I have a witness).

At times it sweet, other times you question it. It gets crazy and confusing sometimes. A major challenge is when you are with your spouse and you don't feel the "love euphoria". Does it mean you no longer love the person or peharps they don't love anymore? The love is so cold...what do you do? ..because these are times you have temptations to cheat, quit. That's when you meet this new guy/girl..that's when your ex shows up..that's when things get hard. Whats happening you may ask? Its called "seasons of love" and everyone experiences it. It not permanent.

When you are sure you guys are meant to be, and you've honestly accessed the situation and you guys been honest and tried to solve things then try this.

LOVE AS A DECISION AND NOT JUST FEELINGS

Love that based of feelings alone and mudane things often have a short life span. Make a decision. DecisIons is the key...!!!..this is where love becomes a decision and not just a feeling. When you do this you have a higher chance of keeping the relationship and minimize the risk to yield to temptations. (You know what I mean...#winks#..)

Decide to love. It's hard....but both spouse should make this decision. Love as a decision can help sustain you when love as a feeling is not good enough. God bless you. ...drevy.

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