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9. DISHONESTY.
Ladies, if you are not trusted by your guy/guys; then your relationships with them/him is at stake. Ladies who lie, cheat, defraud their guys are 100% likely to give out their to other serious ladies. Later, you call it "betrayal." lady, you betrayed yourself not him nor your female friends who betrayed you. Don't go for his wealth, first build your love with trust & see him offer the things you need. So Ladies, try to be honest atleast 80% in Honesty.

8. DOMINATING.
Most ladies have that urge of dominating over the guys. You try to be incharge, maybe because you have more wealth than him or you have his secret than yours to him. When guys notice that you have that idea of dominating over them, they'll pretend to be loyal to you whilst they date other ladies including dating your best/close friend. So Ladies, leave it up to tge guys to be incharge but let your opinion count too.

7. REVOLUTION.
When ladies actively chase & revolve from one guy to the other. Guys hate Ladies who act such, hence they termed ladies as "Sex Instrument." Guys are pushed to double_date if when they've feelings that their ladies are revolving in relationships. So Ladies, who fall into this category should please stick to one guy provided the guy is faithful to her.

6. TEMPTATION(SEDUCTION).
Mostly 85% of guys are tempted through seduction(including Men of God & myself). You as a lady, you expose your guy to Clubs, Loose-Girlfriends, Visitations; when you know you have no (sexual/attractive) qualities compared to other ladies(in clubs, vistations, etc) you expose him to. In return, he goes after those ladies behind your back. So Ladies, be sensitive enough to correct such mistakes if or when made.

5. THE NORM.
This part is more to the Rich Kids. When you as a lady is confronted by your Parents/Family/Friends to stick to your standard(rich-to-rich, poor-to-poor, educated-to-educated, unskilled-to-unskilled, etc). Meanwhile, you are so much in love with him & because of the Norm he gets away to other ladies. So Ladies, try adjust your standard of dates.

4. HEREDITARY.
The adage "like Father, like Son." When the Father is that type that goes after things in skirts, both little & old. At the same time, the(his) Son/Sons looking up to become like their Father, it's then passed from Father to Son/Sons. or when guys look up to Public Figures & tend to behave(imitate) like them. You hear of BabyMamas, the guy will also give way to double-dating. So Ladies, always watch out the type of guys you go for & their family background.

3. FEMINISM.
When you claim to have equal right, power, opportunities as to your guys. Ladies, when you try to practice Feminism in your Relationship, it could push your guy/guys away to other ladies to reach his goals. Even the Bible mentioned of "Wives be Subject to your Husbands," it didn't say ".. be Equal to your Husbands." So Ladies, if you want to keep your guy/guys to yourselves alone, then keep Feminism out of your Relationships.

2. EMOTIONAL ABUSE.
They(Ladies) say it doesn't matter but truely, it matters. Emotional Abuse is the worst you could ever lay on guys. When you humilate, ignore, yell at your guy/guys. For instance, constantly calling guys "Broke Guys." That depression creates a deep wound in their hearts. The guys will be tempted to double-date, just to keep up with other ladies that will make them feel happy. So Ladies, try to tolerate their/his situation & find a lasting solution to it.

I had a vision that these Year will be full of Marriages. That's why I've come to assist People on Romance Forum with few articles.
Nevertheless, there are many Reasons why African Guys double-date. But, here's Ten Major Reasons why African Guys Double-date:
1. HEART-BREAK.
This is the Number 1 reason. How would you expect a guy to feel when someone/people he loves eventually & willfully breaks his Heart many times? Guys who double-date because of this reason bear in mind the adage "don't keep your Eggs in one Basket." Knowing that if he double-dates; when one breaks his Heart, the other amends it. So Ladies, stop giving Guys Broken Hearts.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I see. OK. Any recommendation?

I Recommend You Give Him Time, Maybe He's Trying To Know How You'll React. But, If It Persists, Try Find Other Guy Who Worth You. They Are Many, Don't Kill Yourself On One.

I Will Be Posting Another Article Here On Nairaland Before This Week Ends, With Topic As "reasons Why African Guys Double-date." Hope You'll Enjoy The Post Soon.

Maychang:
They are not adventurous. If you know what i mean anyway.

That's Personal Trait Not To A Collective People. I Listed Collective Traits/qualities Of Igbo Guys. Just Like My Personal Trait That I Love Ladies Who Are Quiet But Troublesome In Nature(willed Ladies), Not All Igbo Guys Love Such Ladies.

Maychang:
Its not about heaetbreak. Igbo guys are cool but they always boring.

Boring? As To Which Aspect?

rebirthforgoody:
Igbo guys are the best jare

Thanks, Dear! Speaking From The Heart(mind). Congratulations!!

shammahyaro:
My boo is igbo... he is all the things u mentioned here... like u just studied him n wrote it down.His so calm n sweet.. tho we r having some misunderstanding now.

Try Talk To Me About Your Misunderstanding(quarrel) If You Wouldn't Mind. I Might Give You Solutions To It.

shammahyaro:
My boo is igbo... he is all the things u mentioned here... like u just studied

Thanks A Lot For Your Testimony! We Are The Best, My Gf Could Also Tell You More Just As You've Rightly Said.

Maychang:
THEY ARE FUCKING BORING AND NON- ADventurous

Guess, You Have Had Heartbreak. Sorry! Are You From The Igbo-tribe?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You Didn't mention uptight. It's only an igbo man you visit for the first time and he expects you to clean his house and cook.. Like wtf? Or even wash his clothes...

No Way! That's Not True, Dear. Anyone Who At First Date Request Such. He Will Soon Turn The Girl To intimacy gadget. I Didn't Say We Don't Have Guys Like That, But It's On The Low Margin. Go For Real Igbo Guy, How? Make Him Know You Worth Like Real Lady(for The Aforementioned Type). You Will Forever Enjoy The Relationship.

Safiaaa:
I was actually joking. I've been with an igbo guy before. It's not that serious

It Wasn't Serious Because You Didn't Take It To Be Serious. Igbo Guys Love When You Show You Care Before The Trust Comes In. Please Next Time, Atleast Show You Care(seriousness).

funmisticqueen:
i have one reason not to date an igbo man, they treat their wives like property because he paid bride price. The point about their family is also very true

You Mean Igbo Guys? Well, Truth Is That Only A Handful Of Them Does That. Check Your Fact, You'll Notice That Those In The Said Category Didn't Live Up To 3/4 Of Their Lives In Igboland. Hence, Got Influenced By Other Cultures.

tytunji29:
Bro smartness is nt by tribe it an individual tin

Yea, That's True. But In Genetics, There Are Traits That Last Longer Than The Other. Here, All I'm Saying Is That Igbo Guys Have That Lasting Trait Of Being Intelligent And Smart Just Like The Russian Kids Where Science Said So.

Purebeerry:
Igbo guys are the best to date.

Lovely And Perfect! Nne, You Just Made My Day. You Are Blessed.

Preshy561:
Igbo mma mmanu o

Iseeee....!!! I ga adi, Nwanne m!

homealone:
Iro nla, lie lie

Hmm! Tell Us Of What Tribe Do You See Its People Serious To Worship God? No Doubt, It's Igbos. We Even Bear Names To That In Effect. Names Like Chukwuma(God knows), Chukwuemeka(God has done well), Ifeanyichukwu(nothing is hard for God), etc. No wonder some Churches take these advantage to impoverish our people.

OneCorner:
If you're not Igbo, just pray u die before him else d family will accuse u of killing him, scrape ur hair, bath him and force u to drink d water till d mourning period is over and later throw you out of d house.

These Are Things You Watch In Home Movies Believing It's Real. If It Was, Then It Must Have Been In Ages Past. We Are In A World Of Civilization. No One Would Accuse You(ladies) Of Such Crimes, But Better Keep Your Hands Clean, Be True To Yourself And Leave The Rest For God. Mind You, Every Tribe Have Its Tradition. Do Not Try To Use It And Benchmark Other Qualities.

tytunji29:
Smart indeed wen dey ve good in been a maga ve seen alot of dem during my service yr one enugu garl sent his allawee twice to a lady e met on fb yet she no cum, now sending the first one any guy MIGHT do dat bt u sent april allawee she no cum and u guys stopd chating june she surfaced agan claiming she wan to cum nd do 3weeks wit u, my mumu padi sent all d allawee for tp agan d lady no still come

It's Likely To Happen To First Timers Who Maybe Under The Influence Of Charm Or Infatuation. But, If You Read My Lines Carefully You Will Notice Where I Mentioned "mostly" Not "all." If One Person Fall For Such, Does It Mean That Majority Do Fall For The Same? In Total, Igbo Guys Are Smarter Than You Ever Thought, Meet Real Ones And See For Yourself. Besides, The Maga Fell Because He Wanted To Showcase His Act Of Love. But, Trust Me That Won't Happen Anymore.

neloyah:
You have spoken well. The elders are pleased!

Thanks! And You Too, You Are Kind.

Drnice:
10. BEING GOD-FEARING.
Lastly, this part is amazing. True, We the Igbos are God-Fearing especially when dealing with diverse religion. A relationship based on God-Fearing Principle can develop all you want in a successful one. Ladies, to avoid broken relationship, you need to date Igbo guys cos they are God-Fearing. you may laugh at this, but it's true. Incase, he seems not that type of God-Fearing. Try invite him to attend Church Programmes, if he loves you, he will acknowledge and attend. Then, guide him to learn, adjust and you will see him grow in such status.
NB: Drop other reasons you find attractive or drop any questions regarding to relationships with Igbo guys, you will get them answered to your satisfaction.
Have A Nice Day, Nlanders!
Courtesy: Drnice.

cc: Lalasticlala, Rocktation, farano, ishilove, seun.

neloyah:
Anugonum! all this principles just to date..

Not At All, Dearie! No One Is Perfect But Atleast One Have To Work Towards Perfection. These Principles Are Like Manuals That Guide You On How To Best Make Use Of Things(including We Humans) That Are Yours Or To Some Other Persons Dear To Your Heart.

10. BEING GOD-FEARING.
Lastly, this part is amazing. True, We the Igbos are God-Fearing especially when dealing with diverse religion. A relationship based on God-Fearing Principle can develop all you want in a successful one. Ladies, to avoid broken relationships, you need to date Igbo guys cos they are God-Fearing. you may laugh at this, but it's true. Incase, he seems not that type of God-Fearing. Try invite him to attend Church Programmes, if he loves you, he will acknowledge and attend. Then, guide him to learn, adjust and you will see him grow in such status.
NB: Drop other reasons you find attractive or drop any questions regarding to relationships with Igbo guys, you will get them answered to your satisfaction.
Have A Nice Day, Nlanders!
Courtesy: Drnice.

neloyah:
Nna editienu that tinu! Igbo guys are romantic? which romantic are we talking about here bikonu?

Nwa Idi Ok. They Are Romantic But You Have To Be Nice And Open Before Some(mostly Shy) Could Unleash It. And It Also Depends The Way You Portrait Yourself To An Igbo Guy. Don't Be Too Cheap But Be Moderate.

Bibi294:
Bet you guys are akagum

You've Got It All Wrong. Your Motives Towards Him Made It So. Besides, Any Igbo Guy Stingy Is Due To The Fact That Either He Had Been Betrayed By Whom He Trusted Or He Have Heard Stories Of Ladies Coming After A Guy's Wealth Instead Of Deep-rooting Inside Of Love And Gain The Other Side(his Wealth).