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Acidbath:
Just tell her.

Start by asking her if she sweats alot...lie that you just noticed she smells like she sweats alot and you used to have that little issue until you started using..........

She will want to know what you use cause she knows she has a problem.

She is your friend so be a friend.

Thank you so much. You’ve just given me the perfect idea to approach this

MufasaLion:
You're wrong. You are exhibiting "entitlement mentality," get rid of it.

Bro, she’s my friend. I’ll give her money

Orgasmgiver123:
Don’t tell her if you feel it will sound rude to her

Yea
You can tell her you once battle body odour thats why you understand her

Are you sure she takes her bath twice a day

And another, the smell may be caused by the mixture of body cream and perfume she uses

I stylishly asked her, she doesn’t use creams

Orgasmgiver123:
Don’t tell her
Get her deodorants and perfumes as gifts
She’ll get the message. If she doesn’t, tell her in the nicest way you can, I repeat, nicest way you can. Don’t go and shatter someone’s self esteem oh

See my wahala, I don’t know how to do it without shattering her self esteem.

Abi I should lie and tell her I had body odor too and that’s why I understand her. It’ll probably Soften the blow

Jennyclay:
Whether she's financially buoyant or not. Let him count some money and hand it over to her to shop the necessary items she need. That's to show he really care about her condition and no hard feelings or mockery. I'm very sure she would appreciate.

I want to take her myself for shopping

Jennyclay:
Must you bring it to nairaland so that people can mock her .

I don't even know why people are scared to say things like this. Just Sit her down and tell her you have noticed something which is not nice.

Haba!! You are her friend for a reason. She will be glad you told her the truth and she will respect you more.
Tell her the necessary things she should do and give her some money to shop.

I’m sorry for bringing it here. I just didn’t know what to do.

People will tell me I’m closer to her and will make sly comments about her hygiene and I’ll not know what to say. What if it depresses her?

I have a friend who has this. She walks into the room and everywhere is bad. Like a gutter.

I don’t know how to tell her without making her depressed or making her feel horrible.

I’ve considered taking her out for shopping and buying her stuff like deodorant but she’s too stubborn and will refuse.