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Ronald, Many thanks for your comprehensive advise noted. Regarding to your advice, I feel is safe and about time for me to get married and I see her as the right one though there is no much pressure but I know she is expecting that considering she is a woman. I don't really know if she will be willing to wait for more 2 years probably considering her age and insecurity that i may leave her or something and i can't afford to lose her for someone else. From all indication i feel she understands that we need the building to be completed, she is not really materialistic. I am very sure of that. Beside I don't think anything can ever stop me from completing the house when the money comes in. Meanwhile I don't intend to live in the house after completion.. its 4 flats just for rent. I have other financial securities such as lands. Is it wise to do introduction to let her know i will not live her. Will humbly request for further advice...

Ronald, Many thanks for your comprehensive advise noted. Regarding to your advice, I feel is safe and about time for me to get married and I see her as the right one though there is no much pressure but I know she is expecting that considering she is a woman. I don't really know if she will be willing to wait for more 2 years probably considering her age and insecurity that i may live her or something and i can't afford to lose her for someone else. From all indication i feel she understands that we need the building to be completed, she is not really materialistic. I am very sure of that. Beside I don't think anything can ever stop me from completing the house when the money comes in. Meanwhile I don't intend to live in the house after completion.. its 4 flats just for rent. I have other financial securities such lands. Is it wise to do introduction to let her know i will not live her. Will humbly request for further advice...

I'm 30 years ....I live outside Nig and planing to relocate in 3 years to find something to do. I am building a house (upstirs 4 flats for rent) I just roof the house though i don't know when to finish the house. My issue is that my girl friend of 1 year wants me to come see her parents and pay her pride price. I love her so much no doubt. But I am a bit confused weather to finish up my house first before that though i don't know when exactly to finish it. She is 26 years old... Pls house I need your advice.