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importexpert:
Bro, Experiencing a break up is not a pleasant feeling. It can even be more terrible if after the initial flood of emotions, you discover how valuable Ngozi/Aysha has been. Now you wonder if there is a way of getting her back because you know your life is better with her than without her.

First of all, I must admit that getting your ex-girlfriend back is not an easy task. Getting her back is a process that would take time and a little strategy on your part. You need to understand that there is no short cut to it. This is not the usual case of misunderstanding in a relationship, but one where the relationship supposedly has ended.

For all the "chop and clean mouth guys" please this is not your thread , this is for people who still have that humanly feeling of love in them.

What can you do to get her back?

1. Give yourselves a break:

You both need some time for yourselves. Do not go begging her to reconsider the relationship. Do not send her text messages or make silly Facebook posts. During this time, do not make any contact with her. Ignore that urge to make her see you. Remember, the scarcer a thing is, the more desirable it becomes. Make no contact at least for three weeks. Don’t fret if she goes in to a new relationship. If you really had a strong relationship, there is nothing to worry about. The new guy is just a rebound and the relationship will most likely crash before you know it.

2. Analyze your break up:

What was it that was not working about the relationship? Did you do all the hard work to make the relationship work? Did you apologize every time she did something wrong? Did you compliment her too much? Did you tell her affirm your love more than she did? Were you insecure? Who initiated the break up; was it you or her? What was the reason? These are important questions that you need to find answers to.

3. Work on yourself:

Instead of letting your emotions run haywire, invest your time on yourself. If you will stand any chance at getting her back, you need to improve yourself. Hit the gym, get new clothes, earn more money, get a new haircut, give your apartment a facelift, improve on your sense of humor etc. Just make sure there is a better you.

4. Be on good terms with her close friends:

In this part of the world, hardly can your relationship work if her friends are against you. Right now, her friends wield considerable influence over her decisions. It is better they are on your side than not. Keep in touch with them occasionally via phone calls or chats. Remember, it should be occasional! if that Amina/chioma is not by your side sometimes you are only wasting your time. girls have their own way of thinking. her friends will most of the time succeed in sabotaging your efforts. Be on good terms with them.

5. Re-establish rapport:

After you have taken time to work on yourself, establish rapport with her. This is not the time to bring up relationship matters. At this point, you have an advantage over other guys trying to date her because you know her likes and dislikes which can aid you in conversing with her. Your aim is to douse the tension between the two of you and get her to relax. The best topic to discuss with a woman is herself. Keep your chats interesting by talking about her. Employ your sense of humor as often as you can.

6. Engage her emotions:

This is your best shot at getting her back. Women are not really wired to make decisions basically on logic. A woman builds connection with a guy based on how he makes her feel. One way of doing this is to engage her discussions that gets her to talk about her deepest feelings about various topics. If she can feel the emotions for you again, you have an eighty percent chance if having her back. She will work her way around logic when she sees that you have worked on yourself.

7. Set the stage for your reunion:

This is the moment you have waited for: to ask her out again. Not yet, it will take a moment. Don’t rush to apologize and ask for a make-up. Doing so will give her the chance to tell you no. Don’t allow that opportunity. At this point, you need to act as though you are boyfriend again. Relate with her as on an intimate basis. Naturally, she knows what you are up to. If she raises it up, then, you can make your apology speech. If she plays along, then flow with the tide. She most likely wants it that way already.

Brightwood:
"Go sell some panties"...Not exactly intelligent nor do I care.

Brightwood:
China should come for Felllaini, he will be like a gigantic god, Fvcking Oscar of all players getting sold...Soccer is shìt.

hensben:
How much china sign mikel or na free transfer?

Jadeite:
Oga,stop this!! This lady gave 500k last year Christmas..A few days ago, someone asked her for 6k,you know what she said? She said" let me make it 10k instead..She is trying abeg!!

mroop:
Toke Makinwa was a guest at Funke Akindele‘s housewarming party a few days ago and she took her N2 million Gucci bag along with her to the party.

The Gucci Sylvie embroidered leather top handle bag retails for $4,180. The media girl was so proud of her ‘date’ (but who wouldn’t be?) she couldn’t stop flaunting it as she posed for pictures with other celebrities at the star-studded party.

She also got in a few shots of the arm candy at home as she stepped out for the party.

Source ::: http://www.praizeblog.com/2017/01/toke-makinwa-rocked-n2m-bag-to-funke.html?m=0

Ibime:
Mikel, Ramires and Oscar all gone within 1 year. Perfect year for me.

Chelseafan1:
We need someone stronger than Matic to partner Kante as first choice, and I don't think Erickson is better than Fabregas both defensively and offensively yet he makes their lineup every now and then.


Spurs has a lot better players than us currently.
Both of their wing backs are better than ours
Courtois = Lloris
Azpi shud replace Alonso with Zouma(he was becoming a force to reckon with b4 he got injured) taking his place.
We can get a better defender to replace Cahill or still manage him if Azpi is gonna support that left side.
Matic shud be replaced by Veratti or any other strong guy.
Fabregas should be starting our matches easily.
Then Hazard, Costa up front.


When this is taken cared of, I think we are ready to challenge the big boys(Madrid, Barca, Bayern) with our formation.







>>>>>>>>>>>>>Costa<<<<<<<<<<<<

>>>>>>Hazard>>>>>>>Fabregas<<<<<<

Azpi<<<<<Veratti>>>>>>Kante>>>>>Moses

>>>>>>Cahill<<<<<Luiz>>>>>>Zouma>>>>

<<<<<<<<<<<<<<Coutois>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

garlicrey:
;Dquick joke



"I'm finished" is when you lock your door to kill a
snake and then electricity goes off. My dear, thats when
you realize the devil has already succeeded in using
your life to test the new version of Temple Run.

kokoprincess:
I recently relocated to a new city with no family and friends around, hoping to start afresh and its not working

knightsTempler:
ROFL!! Pep's having a midlife crisis!! He keeps looking around the dressing room expecting to see Messi but all he sees is Raheem Sterling and the ghost of Joe Heart.

knightsTempler:
Did anyone watched the classless post match interview from Guardiola. I don't care what you've won, it's part of the job. Just be civil. Cringe inducing

Chelseafan1:
Seriously, our boys can do it, I mean there's Hazard, Costa, Kante, Luiz, Courtois, AZPILICUETA and the other guys. It's a win or painful draw for us.

They will attack us with their A-game tomorrow, they could get punished tho if they get too ambitious.



No balls to bet on Chelsea straight win though

diggz:
Matic leave go where,? Abeg dyabman stop ooo

ogunbekun:
Nah, this is exclusive to we mamas. No papa is allowed, cos we dont want you cooking those spermies.

Cloth is saturated with castor oil, and placed acros the lower abdomen with hot water bottle/heating pad placed over it. It is meant to promote blood flow to the uterus, promote healing of any damages, break any blockage in the fallopian tube. etc. Heard it is also good when place over the liver.

Havilah93:
Ray Wilkins

Who paid him?

macjireh:
d whole England dey pray make Tottenham win Chelsea.... but I know say d two Manchester clubs and their fans dey back Chelsea up to win.... na to their advantage even tho dem hate us....they have no choice

diggz:
Ake dey better suited to midfield imo


I prefer PVA to Bertrand Sha.....


Mane don score ooooooo

UDbester:
u

no wonder u get smellymouth. chai!

diggz:
Is it not possible to get PVA back.....?