texazzpete:



If you feel your wife is disrespectful to you, the law courts everywhere accept divorce petitions. Move on and marry someone else who you feel will treat you better.


How is someone who is gainfully employed being ‘treated as a houseboy’? Is it when you’re at work, doing your 9-5?

99% of the time when someone argues with this ‘houseboy’ line, the man is a layabout doing nothing while the woman is hardworking.

If you’re not the breadwinner in the house, you’re the partner with way more free time and you’re overseas where getting a maid or nanny is prohibitively expensive…the common sense thing is to pick up as much of the house chores as possible.

If your wife works 12 hour shifts as a Nurse or care worker and you’re not working at all, why will you not take care of some stuff at home if you’re not a clown?

The answer to the question you asked is simple, the wife is seen as maid by many. That's the mindset and the norm in Nigeria. In as much as it's good for a woman to be homely, marriage is supposed to be a partnership in which each partner provide support for one another.

CHoccolaTE:


I keep saying it that 80% of Nigerian men are just beasts and animals in human flesh, I don't even care how extreme that description sounds because that's the absolute truth.

When did infidelity or lack of respect become a justifiable reason for committing this type of murder? Mind you NOWHERE in this story was it mentioned that the woman that was killed was unfaithful or disrespectful to her husband. People have even come online to say the man has always being violent to her even before relocation but you see these animals calling themselves Nigerian men? The will either ignore reality or twist the truth until they can come up with any reason to blame women in any scenario.
If a woman is raped, they blame her.
If a woman suffers domestic violence they blame her
If a woman is killed (the worst) they will still blame her.
Cannot accept responsibility or accountability for anything but want to claim to be superior and more logical. These people irritate me to no end.

Very soulless evil beings.

There's no absolute in that your first statement, there are lots of terrible beings from both gender. Sha dey pray make you no jam agbako all in the name of friends or partner.

Lovit:


Are you married? even if you are thank God you married a good one

Some women are bullies, they can turn you to houseboy if you are weak and allow everything to slide

Not allowing yourself to get bullied or turned into a houseboy has nothing to do with cold blooded murder. Even jihadists wey dey behead people do provide justification for their barbaric acts e.g the case of Deborah Samuel.

Satazaa:
c'mon guys, you the op and y'all that liked this horrific comment absolutely lacks human conscience and compassion, oh y'all mean that a man who smashed the skull of his once upon a time soulmate and heartrob a good man? and probably over unsubstantiated accusation of infidelity? listen guys, my immediate junior sister never had female friends and used to hang around boys a lot and we all thought she was rotten only for her current husband to confirm her virginity when he married her, Where has all our humanity gone for Gods sake, to the dogs ? her people are currently mourning her death and her kids are now left without parents for life and y'all liking such vile and senseless comments, and y'all will still go to hoses of worships? to the dead may your soul rest in peace, ameen thuma ameen.

Na hypocrites and psychopaths full Nigeria now. The same group of people that will wear good clothes tomorrow morning to worship the merciful God at a church and the other sets that'll go to mosques for jumat on Fridays are here providing justification not for bashing in the head of a cockroach, but that of a fellow human.

Zyrac:


Why is he not as angry to his fellow guy friends?
Face the truth 90% of domestic abuse originates from a sturbon or disloyal wife the remaining 10% are from drunken husbands. Men normally are chill na women de provoke us and we will still be to blamed

And you believe that the answer to the said provocation by the wife is to bash her head in?
Only a psychopath will do that to his/her dog, not to talk of somebody you professed to love. No be by force to be in a marriage.

Fearyourcreator:

Any woman out there trying to break her husband by disrespecting him or maltreating him cus they are over thinking woman the power make the man kill am ... I hate selfish people with passion, respect your husband and let the man love his wife ... If any woman try that thing with me for abroad aswear to God I won't kill her straight, I will cut one of her breast design her face with blade and remove one of her eye ... I will take death by anything but she herself will be half dead...

Start taking tutorials on how to live happily in prison while wasting away too.

aswani:


The others might not but I wil respond.

These kind of horrible issues will happen, with the innocent children suffering, unless a proper discussion is allowed to be held and both sides of the story is examined as to how things got to that stage.

A man that has three children with his wife, who has no criminal record, has been married for a while, suddenly turns evil bashing her head over and over again with a skateboard and we are supposed to just accept he is epitome of evil and move on.

Thank God there are psychologists in their prison system over there who are properly trained and will want to know how he got to that stage as from his profile, they will know this clearly isn't their typical prison person.

Every single thing I typed about what could have pushed that man to do what he did has happened to people in real life that I know. There are even other needlessly provocative things that push both men (and women too) to the edge with the other party spreading their hands and saying "wetin I do?", stating them is not misogyny, it is fact and people like you should stop burying your heads in the sand over it.

Are some men evil, yes. Should women steer well clear, yes. Should women see signs and quickly remove themselves, yes. Should women repeatedly provoke a man till he snaps, No.

Your insults mean nothing to me by the way. Regardless, the person that is "wrong" in all of this is the one that wants to suppress a discussion on this issue just to continue to perpetuate the myth of complete female victimhood in every single domestic violence issue and allow more women to be killed or injured and more men to go to jail (and vice versa) instead of ensuring women learn when things are getting out of hand and either remove themselves or stop the descent into extreme violence like we have seen in this and many more instances.

Irrespective of what happened, you believe that bashing her head in is the answer and is justified?
Well the man will likely be convicted and will waste away in prison.

Iamzik:


Learn to read with open mind. I refuse to be judged by a dullard who imposes his/her own biases on others. You need to look in the mirror

You are the actual terrible awful subhuman if you think there's anything wrong with my comment

The awful subhuman is the psychopath giving justifications for domestic violence and barbaric acts. Only a psychopath will even try to bash in the head of a live chicken, not to talk of a fellow human. No difference between you and the jihadists that will always give justification for religious killings. This is the same way we have psychopaths justifying the brutal murder of Deborah Samuel.

hopexter:


Why he no ment for Nigeria where they’ve both been living together for years? Within 2 years of living together in UK he suddenly dey ment towards the woman alone abi? E be like you get shoko for head with your way of reasoning

You obviously don't know anything about the case been discussed. People close to the couple in question actually said that the man has been waging a war of domestic violence against his wife even before she left Nigeria for the UK and before she subsequently brought him over.
I pity any woman wey jam somebody with jihadist ideologies like you in name of a partner.

hopexter:


In this case he killed the woman which was well deserved so deal with it you hypocrite

And he'll rot in jail, while his children get trained by strangers. Where's the logic in what he did?

wany:

Then
You go kill tire

Monsters in human clothing. May we not jam agbako while searching for a better half. 🙏

Iamzik:


Talk is cheap bro. Just pray not to be in the man's shoes. You will be surprised at what you will do.

May God not let us marry an abusive spouses

That shows you lack control over your emotions then. Emotional intelligence is key in many situations.

Fearyourcreator:
That's why e good as he kee the woman ... Thats what she deserves

And that's why the man deserves to rot in jail. But what about the kids that are you to be deprived of their biological parents?

Fearyourcreator:
That's why e good as he kee the woman ... Thats what she deserves

And that's why the man deserves to rot in jail. But what about the kids that are you to be deprived of their biological parents?

Felabrity:
Chelsea players no dey use top 6 teams matches play

Na like UCL for them

Like they did last week against Arsenal abi? 😄😄

Sonnobax15:
. At least dem no disgrace US like last weekend na.

😄😄😄😄

hopexter:


I’ve already concluded. No man would pick up a skateboard that is heavier than a hammer and hit his wife on the head if he wasn’t planning to kill her. He chose murder and a life sentence over whatever she did.

You shouldn't even do this to a dog, not to talk of somebody you professed to love. That man is simply a monster.

hopexter:


At least he’s safe from mental torture and once he realised that, he’s snap out of whatever break down and live on like a man. He’s got kids to his name, that’s good enough for him.

If convicted, he's going to waste away in prison. Good enough for him indeed.

Sonnobax15:

Come on boys.....

We are Chelsea for a god-damned reason

How many of you? 😄😄😄😬😬😬😬

Lekan239:
if you don't know anything about football, just face front.

A simple mistake from the coach could disorganised the flow and morale of the players in a match and it will cost them.. I said the formation he used against villa is better than that rubbish he used in the backline against Arsenal

Here you are talking about backline after I told you the gospel truth. With or without Thiago Silva, this current Chelsea side would have lost against Arsenal.
You know this to be true, yet you're still in denial. Whether the scoreline would have been up to 5 nil isn't what I'm debating with you, Arsenal definitely would have scored. Then who do you think looked like scoring for Chelsea against Arsenal? The Michael Jackson you're calling a striker?
You're more serious than Chelsea players sef. 😄😄😄

Edoblakky:
Sweet goal from Gallagher

Gballagher is the next best thing after sliced-bread. 😊😊

hopexter:


He married her, men don’t just harm or hurt their other half no matter their temper. Why didn’t he kill her in Nigeria if that was the case? In western world, your temper does not make you forget the strict law. He must have been pushed to the wall within just two years of going to Uk that he had to choose going to prison if it comes to worst.

This your first statement is a lie and is against what's obtainable in reality. We have many married men who are cheats and many engaged in domestic violence against their spouse even in Nigeria. We have many cases of domestic violence in Nigeria. Your assertion is totally wrong.

ARISHEM:
During face off, Angry Husband will warn wife to stop been rude to him. Wife will walk out majestically out of his presence and squeal "Duuuurl" on his face and you wisely expect a possessed man not to kill her for that.

He and his possessed being will cool it off in jail. Say na duuuurl.

hopexter:


If you imagine what he must have gone through in the hands of his wife that pushed him to smash her head with a skateboard and face the consequences, you’ll know that prison is a 2-star hotel compared to being with her. I hope she finds peace in the underworld 😌

This is an insensitive comment. Irrespective of what happened between them, you believe that death is the answer? May none of your family members not be a victim of domestic violence.

seborrhic:
First time watching Noni Madueke up close and I must say that boy is a player.
Given the same opportunities and freedom to operate like Palmer,that guy would be a better player than Palmer.
He can dribble,he can hold the ball in tight spots and has an eye for goal.
Give Madueke a good coach,a champions league club he would be a star

This is supposed to be a joke right?
Well you've got me reeling in laughter here. Gbadueke the baller. 😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄

Ever8090:
na only penalty Palmer dey score naa. This one no be penalty

😄😄😄😄

Ekaka14:
2-1 Madueke

Comeback? 🤔

Travelpes:
Please can someone explain to me why people say murdrky has talent?

If they (i.e Chelsea fans) said he's talented, then he's talented ni my brother. 😔😔😔

Lekan239:
this ur comment means u knows nothing about chelsea and you shouldn't be here

Using this formation he used against villa is even better than the one he use against Arsenal. Just exclud Palmer who was sick and add sterling

You're the one that doesn't know what he's saying. What did Sterling do when he came in against Arsenal?
With or without Sterling and Thiago Silva, Chelsea would have lost against Arsenal.
Lower your expectations on this current Chelsea side, you're too young to become hypertensive.

A word is enough for the wise. 👆

Truthsandtrusts:








Peter Obi has deceived many to japa, you dey Nigeria you nor kill you reach aboard you kill your wife .. obidients come and see your Japa people o

And you think that we don't have several cases of spousal abuse/domestic violence in Nigeria?
Or you think that there are no cases of husbands killing their wives and vice versa in Nigeria?

1000Capacity:





No matter how good or cautious you are, some situations will humble you. You'll do things you'll never think about doing.
Life can humble a man real fast

Yes, but then it was supposed to be a partnership not an imprisonment. Was that man tied down or forcefully made to remain in the marriage?
He has done the crime, now he's about to do the time. The saddest part of the tragic occurrence is the kids that will get thrown into another/other home(s).

Dikegodspower:
Nigerian women always turn lord and maltreat their husband emotionally and otherwise when ever they found themselves in the west.
Rip to her, but I think she will learn how to be humble and respectful in her next world

So the punishment for being disrespectful towards your partner is death according to you?
May none of my relative be jinxed with meeting people with monster-beliefs/ideologies like you. 🙏🙏