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I met this lady after my youth service.One thing led to the other and we went into a deep relationship.From there and then we promised each other marriage. I trusted this girl more than i have done to any other girl in my life.After the medical tests and everything, i introduced her to my parents and she introduced me to hers too.Within the first one year into our relationship, we made our first hot love and this lead to pregnancy. i was not ready for an abortion and we had to perform some marital rites immediately.After this, the girl then packed into our home.It was during this period that i found out that she had another boy friend up till the time i made that hot love to her(the facts leading to this discovery are indisputable and proven beyond reasonable doubts). After everything, the put to bed a bouncing baby girl and we are almost fully married, though no wedding yet.My worries are that the boy was closer to her than myself because they stay in the same environment.Now, how do i ensure the child is really mine?Well, i am ready for a DNA test but if after that, the child doesnt belong to me, what do i do?Now i feel like throwing both the girl and child out but had to be cautious because the child may be mine.Guys in the house what is your advice on this ''if the child later becomes another person's own'' I dont have a single trust and love for the girl again.