saggitarius01:
Good evening dear Nairalanders. I'm sorry I had to create a new account to post this. I am getting really worried about how my life may turn out. I'd be straight and brief as possible so please read and give me any advice you can. Thanks.

A brief rundown about myself.

I am going to be 25 in no time, growing up I felt there is only two paths a young lady should tow...either to forget being a fashonista and all trying to be neck deep in her outlook or calm down, first things first, work hard and make money (if possible be a millionaire before 25). I choose the later and as God will have it, my dream turned a reality.

Now, while I was in this journey of not turning out to be a lady who will never be able to foot her own bills, I forgot everything about being girlie. I never what it means to have female friends or hang out with any, I don't care so much about knowing the latest party and posh places or even taking all the posh pictures like the ladies in my age bracket would. I was focused to a fault. I saved to a fault.

I might not have everything I desire but I am indeed comfortable for a young lady who made it out of the ghetto life of Igbogbo.

Now my pain..

I do most of my jobs from home and therefore I am mostly within the confines of my apartment.
No boyfriend, no fiance talk more of a husband.
I don't have any friend and I don't know to make any friend for as a result of I trying to find my feet in life, I have had, experienced, seen and heard nasty behaviours of human. I keep people at arms length. I am afraid of an average human for I believe anybody can do anything even things you don't expect of them.

I already observed that slaying and all the girlie ish is obviously not a part of me as i prefer to brainstorm and think of how to expand my business which I know an average lady my age, that is the least of her worries.

I know I need a man in my life. I don't know if it's a stereotype but I think ages 24-26 is the right age (as i have made to believe) a woman should at be at least settled Maritally. How do I go about getting a man to date and marry? Where are the places I should go to? Remember I said I have NO friends so no wedding invitations.

Am I stressing myself? But I am almost 25 and no man and truly in my hearts of hearts I know I want to be a wife someday and have a good family so need to lie about anything. Where do ladies meet their boyfriends? Not the playboys or those with pulled down shorts.

Please what do I do? What are the places to go? I tried hanging out to places for drink but you know how it feels and looks for a young lady to sit out on her own.

P.S. Yes I am not desperate but I am concerned.

Did i make a mistake by holding my life first instead of being all what the social media ladies are?

I just opened an Instagram account yesterday and still don't know how to use the app or what to do there. You can imagine the kind of lady I have become. Yes I can dress neat and combine my wears. Forget ugly, I ain't. I could do a nice make up on my face when ever I have 2 hours to spare. Never a boring fella. I just don't know how to find someone I could share all the happiness, joy and street wise advise with.
Please help me. I am so lonely. I only come on nairaland whenever I am bored. Enough said.

I am open to questions. Any at all.

First thing is, you don't have to chase a man, it is a man's thing to chase.

What i'll suggest you do is when ever you're going out, look your best; try and be more accepting of people, forget about what you've heard or read online about people's behavior that is not humanity entirely.

Trust me their are lots of good people out there and you'll be amazed on who God will bring to your part.

I wish you the best.

Yamleg:
You don't need any bang pdf. Search for Ubunja & Haddon daxsol

I have been reading those, I actually heard of the book from them. And ubunja has deleted most of his old posts.

vickyhow:
Y would any sane human encourage murder??

make dem qive u banq rule pdf make u carry am destroyer person future hobby?

lemme not stone U eba o!!

I know understand you guy.

Who buy you airtime sef?

Please help...

I will blame the mother if she's the one that taught her how to collect D*ck.

Nothing to say

I love the first generation more than all of them...

SLAP44:
Small pikin fit carry this one go suck for the next room while this woman dey another room dey watch TV

Your mouth bad I swear... lol

SageMK:


By the way, don't try to work things out with Bukky MTN.

Bad Nigga ��

TrollKiller:
Stop wanking and starting eating watermelon and garlic for 6 months. Your dick will recover. Too much porn is bad

Thank you so much, how do i do the watermelon and garlic thing? Blend it together or what?

R