₦airaland Forum

To all:

This guy came here, asked for a help and advice but what he received from you? Everyone of you is shouting at him and sending him to hell. From my point of view, it's not nice. He did bad thing. Very bad. Okay, but we should not treat him like piece of shit because if we do, it says that we are not much better.

@poster:
Look, it was not good idea to have sex with girl of age 13. She's still very young and in some countries its illegal to have sex with person under age of 15 (no matter if its a girl or boy and no matter if that person agrees with having sex, or even demans it). Cos I do not live in Naija, I don't know where is the local age limit, but I think it more or less same.

This issue is something you cannot resolve by you own. First of all, you should respect your girlfriend. If she doesn't want the baby, it's not good trying to argue. Another thing is, that if you really want that baby, you must marry the girl. Think - do you want to marry her and spend your life together? I hope so. If you do, try to suggest this to her and to her parents. But be prepared - her father may kill you instantly! Also, her family can report you to the police and you may endup in a jail.

Maybe the best will be, if the girl will go for an interruption, you will wait couple of years, marry her later and then you can have a baby. Please consider that I really do not know if interruption is legal in Naija, for example in some of European countries it is legal and in some others it's not. Of course, there's a high risk that girl finds a new boyfriend and you'll end up alone.

What you did was very bad, but still - I wish you and your girlfriend the best.

Giving such passwords is not a good idea.
Loving each other doesn't mean that everyone of you have no right for bit of privacy. Show ur love to her some other way.

If she's asking for such thing, it coul'd mean that she doesn't trust you.

Like I said: One cannot start a new topic until he writes at least one reply in another topic ) So if U just replied in this topic, you can create new one with that upper-right button. Okay?

Oh yeah, now I see! One cannot start a new topic until he writes at least one reply in another topic )

HELP please:

I'd like to say that I was really looking for button for starting a new thread, but it's not there. Really, I am not dumb )
Browsing the forums, found link which should work the same as that button, but it says: "Error - you cannot post a new thread in this forum."
Is something wrong with my profile or what?

Thanks
ECART