chaircover: A N40K Ipad?? Please where can I get one? Ive been scammed 
On a serious note, I see where you are coming from however I am concerned that you are only citing not so relevant instances such a blackberry. If you had said that with his times 8 salary he still borrows money from you and doesn't return it or you had an illness and he hadn't helped towards the hospital bills, or you had an important professional exam to take and you were short of money and the closing date was approaching . . . . then that is a different matter and you should be worried if these kinds of things were happening.
I am not a man and dont live in Nigeria, but I know that many babes expect their boyfriends to buy them expensive phones and top up the credit on it & they then turn round and call the man mugu, so men cant be blamed for keeping their wallets tightly shut when it comes to blackberrys.
You also haven't explained how you alone lost 2 phones in such a sort period of time. Maybe he has warned you against being so careless and his not replacing the phone is his way of teaching you to be more careful . . .im just saying.
It may sound as if I am against you and siding your boyfriend, but I am all for women empowerment and self respect. You are working, so buy a phone that you can afford with your salary. That way you can hold your head high and not be held to ransom by anyone.
Apart from him not replacing your phone is he loving and caring? Is he reliable? Does he treat you with respect? Is he God fearing? does he carry out his other financial obligations? Does he overspend on irrelevant things or is he just prudent with money? Does he care about your wellbeing in other areas apart from the phone issue? Please think very carefully about all this before making any decision. I wish you all the best. @madam cc, well said..wud like to have ur email pls. |
Family › Re: I feel Cheated by ECSpee(f): 9:23am On Feb 02, 2013
