₦airaland Forum

You will still fall victim to that your ex. She is playing a script for you exactly the way your wife played hers till you wife her.

The main thing here is that you fail to learn, you have not really drawn out any lesson from your experience,
Like a woman, you are beclouded by emotions,
When a man directs his optimal emotions the wrong way, especially in marriage and relationships, women will NEVER spare him their ruthlessness. (Not Thier fault though)

What you need to do.

Learn about the nature f women pertaining to men, marriage and relationships,
Understand the concept,

By then

You will know that you lead your woman, and not walk or work side by side her.

You will know that as a man, you MUST run your home in accord with your finances. (Remove your eye completely from your wife money)

You earn N120k and you are living in a 700k house, isn't that ridiculous, or do you expect her to cover your ridicule.

What happened to those houses that your 2 or 3 Months salaries can cover?
Plan and run your home according to your capacity, her money is advantage for quick sourcing, lend from her and repay every kobo.

Can't you see that responsibility in your home are beginning to get tilted. Reactions from most affected party is imminent, especially when that party is the woman.

Your woman naturally look upto you, for leadership and provision.

Sta your ground, lead and provide for in all your capacity.

She needs it, her nature looks up to it.

She may appear not to like it at first, but she will give yo kudos as time goes on.

Men out there!
Lead your women with love and selflessness.

The fight is common

Though this government is a mess but the grant is not audio,

I actually applied when I saw the link and I got credited 50k early june.

I still swear for them when I want to spend the money because the money appear useless.

Beremx:
This will not curb hunger in the land. Another audio grant that will not have any impact.
Open borders and let food come in.


Nonsense

NDLEA is doing a great job.

Their job is actually a tough one, they deal with different level of criminals and addicts from both rich and poor people who formed a massive chain of demand and supply of illicit drugs.

It's tough fighting addicts and those who benefits from the proceeds of the deadly business

Northerners knows and behave as if they own the country but sadly, they truly own it.

Any major law or rules imposed on Nigerians or its youths are least enforced in the north.

Northerners are not any better in behavior and attitude than the rest,

To me, their claims of being honest to is farce, they are only being tamed by their presents society because they can do worse atrocities than all other regions combine if there society demand it.

DonroxyII:
Chairman, You wan die young abi

Provide all Finances gini ....

Oboy, you no wan leave long oo ... if I no collect money from my woman make I Scatter..... Just be Fair in your dealings !

Provide all the mental needs is the better deal .. in this 2024 global economy ... Let her see you as bustop for all her mental & Physical needs ..

Even if she go borrow something from outside make ihm sha no be pen.is she can borrow all other things but faculty of kpanshing must be solely exclusive to you as Her Man if not ... Gisos

In marriage, you provide all finances, that is your power (shield), aside proper knacking.

Everybody know there can be some devastating time, she can step in temporarily if she is capable and you must refund her even add some interest when things return normal.

Providing for your women has never kill a man, lack of provision kill him faster.

When provision role is interchange, you should be ready to compromise alot as a man.

Full/subtle disrespect will come your way..

Your woman is not suppose to spend on you,

take your eye away from her money.

Una never see anything

Your wife have seen through you finish.

It is so wrong to treat women as equal. Not only Nigerian women.

They get wet who they can look up to. Not you that can't keep two relationships

What you can do.

Resume your duty fully.

Provide all finances, kindly turn down her money and refund any money she spent for the house with some interest sef.

Run your home fully with your money.

And improve your bed game.

She will notice.

She look up to and she is beginning to hate herself for choosing a weak man for herself.

She may have started cheating on you too, be vigilant but don't stress yourself with that and until she raise your suspicious or finally get caught.

Man up, take back your home.

He voiced out when his allocated slot has been dubiously used without his knowledgeable


Most Nigerian recruitment has always and will forever be like that.


Very minute percentage are considered free and fair. Else na slot.

God is fighting your battle and you are still blaming God for fight that battle for you..

Why are you so bent on continuing another man paused game.

A single lady should never be your fourth option as a single guy.

She is not meant for you, she came NEVER PUT you above her child, and the baby daddy has the key to her punnanny anytime any day.

Don't get gaslighted, don't be played, don't be fooled, she no rep you, you will look weak to her, she needs another experienced man who have shaped another woman before not you that you are just starting out.

As a man, the day you choose your wife is the very day that you choose your destiny as a guy. Thread carefully,

I put my hand on my and strictly advise you not to marry her .

Never wish to be an exception for the brutal nature of women.

They are not as physically powerful as you are, but nature bestowed to them brutal ways of dealing with erring men in their lives.

Even unknown to some of them, They punish weak men badly.

when a woman indulge in cheating, they say, she is capable of killing her husband. But you the mumu husband, will be like let me forgive her this time, she won't do it again.

Do not take the red flags of a woman with levity, she wouldn't do same to you of her instinct smells weakness from you.

She will act in her best interest at the expense of your sacrifices.


In all, men, be so selfish in choosing the woman you will commit to..
It is very valid and enough reason for to call off a 5years relationship when you found that your woman is not willing to be clean and cook for you..

It is so valid to tell your women that cheating is a deal breaker for you.

It is so important for you to understand the kind of relationship that exist between her and her dad. How she speak of him is how she will treat you.

Do not close eye to any redflag, cut the relationship before the relationship cut you

Okada should be banned as a means of public transport.

There lawlessness is the highest among all other means of transport.

Do not look out for love in a woman otherwise you will be disappointed, look for the one that have a high tendency to respect you like she respect the men in her life before you.

budaatum:
Digital money is the next evolution of money, and bank notes would soon be as dead as cowrie shells, it seems.

Not even in 50 years here in Nigeria. Dey play

It is about time kidnappers should be sentenced to death..

Shiit is becoming too much and many appears to be getting away with it.

Their psyops works wonders on us all time..

Keeping large of the population as a herd

This is where Nigeria cannot work .

The ground is not common.

The minister is thinking from a different perspective.

The imams are as well on another entire thinking faculty.

This will result to nothing but chaos

Higher powers have run hands together..
That him shimma no clean.

The Boy die in vain due to his ignorance to the nature of women in his life..

If he had been strict and act like a man enough, he won't be strangle like a chicken and his supposed companions are in the same vehicle with him

If you like, Go dey carry woman matter for your head like gala.

She will invite another man come to your burial and fvck on your grave

May your life be handled like the way APC have handled the affairs of Nigeria since they come on board..

I passed that road yesterday, construction has truly began

Vikto17:
Thank u very much bro,,, please the pad will l be the one to buy it or the company will give it to me

The company will give you, and set some target for you to met.

Now that they have ask POS AGENT to register for CAC, make sure you add telecoms business when you are registering.


You must have a brick and mortar shop( main requirements)

Well light environment in the shop,

All others will be communicated to you. Approach their office and ask politely about it.

Don't begin to question God for fighting your battle,

Just pray he sees you through the rest of the fight..

Those kids are not yours until it is proven, Get DNA done before you go ahead to claim them.

It may be that your want to take them back to their father

Many parts of Nigerians are still largely uneducated. Let alone being information literate.

The city people that are trying to put us on the map in tech are being frustrated by unfriendly policies.

Nigeria is only big for mouth

If a man point it out to you
You are truly still a small boy..

What do you know about responsibilities.
Decisions and consequences.

They are already in a world you still dream of..it is not envy, it is factual..

Enter Twitter tag the police, tag any popular human activist, type your story and add these graphic pictures, sit back and the lord fight your battle

The lawyer is been smart here, he made your rent and your six month legal quit notice to run concurrently

You must start looking for another house

Women don't frown at polygamy, it is innate, they only don't want it with a poor man

Nukilia:
To hell with family support. Let them live their lives without the rubbish and drama.

The grooms mum was divorced despite all the Cole family drama of marrying her.

Let the young g man choose his path and write his story...

Which story?

Story that didn't start and will probably not end with him,

Cant you see the lady has a plan? Cant you see she only want to get a child legitimately?

Once her plan has been achieved, she will purposely show the guy shege, plus including this family drama they are experiencing, to make him file a divorce.

She will remind him of how is family doesn't even like her and she can no longer pretend to be happy in the marriage after having some children she hold on to.

Everyone in the family can't be wrong at the same time.