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irumole1975:
That’s why I advise my male friends that they need to slave for their wives in their marriages. That’s how the marriage can last. Make money just for her. Cook, clean and provide for her. Also, sometimes let her cheat in peace without you harassing her for cheating. That way she will know you truly love her and she won’t leave u

nurse titi he has escaped from yaba left

People paying for COS are equally guilty as those selling. He who comes to equity must come with clean hands

The doors of japa has closed. No where better to cheap to go

The men are not innocent. Abroad requires that the woman contribute. But many 9ja men don’t want to do house chores remember they had maids in Nigeria or the wife did all. So make the woman dey work still take care of kids, chores and cook while you chill

Some men beat their wives in Nigeria and the women got their vengeance when they relocated.

There are also 9ja women in the abroad that refuse to contribute to bills . In most cases the man has been paying her bills while dating and marriage. They are used to my money my money nonsense. The man will get frustrated and marriage scatters

She doesn’t like you

People are actually reading the book? Una jobless sha

who i funding this man self?

erad:
I don't think most South Africans understand the harm hate does especially in the mind of young generations.

One day there won't be foreigners to pour out this hate on anymore but you must channel it somewhere, where will they channel it?

themselves just like we are doing wazobia vs minorities here .

That dog will be eaten soon

Voltron007:
I say let me use google map and search for Nigerian restaurant near me since I’m in a new town. The first suggestion I got was “Suya spot”, 3km from me. Na so I rush go there. From the reception I should have known it’s a scam. The attendant was Ghanaian while her assistant - a Cameroonian.

Na so I ordered egusi soup and pounded yam. Cut long story short, I had to trash the food. Na so $37 take waste.

Ghanaians will be using Nigerian names to attract customers only to end up selling crap.

the owner in the kitchen is likely Nigerian. Went to a Nigerian restaurant in Mississauga and the attendants were Indians. I assumed they must have lived in Nigeria at some point. Only for the owner to come pick something outside.

Even if, Indians are selling oyinbo and Mexican food and we dey chop am.

Nigerian restaurants many times are hit and miss. He fit sweet today, tomorrow trash 😂.

MadamExcellency:
The Government has started doing what should have been done after the refineries started working. There is no reason the dollar shouldn't fall to N500. Our refineries are working. Let's stabilize foreign exchange and see multinationals come back to invest in Nigeria.

which refinery is working asides from dangote?

chatinent:
I don't really understand this case..

she allegedly stole someone’s identity to remain in South Africa and also give birth to Chidinma

Too many Indians were brought in as students outpacing jobs and housing . The whole thing con cast😩

Elon musk must not see this o. I have used this condom like twice when i dey 9ja. Bought from aboki shop. Awusubilahi

I pity those who believe 9ja go better

Nigerian women love feminism till it reach sharing bills 😂

Nigeria is not their target market

Jeezuzpick:
See his earrings, pink lips and nails......he's the bottom.

The tops are usually the boy molesters......though e for fit dey suck dia small doo-doo, sha.............🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮

And meanwhile e go get sisters wey dey crush on am as e dey sing for Uni dat year.......make den go do Thanksgiving now o, because na so den for just marry husband on the Down Low.

who told you bottoms dont molest? Abeg e don do all these gay terms dey turn my belle 😂

Ko ni ra gba fun e

BlueStripper:


This looks photoshopped

caye:
I checked it myself. I saw the Photoshop.
No surname, nothing. Just a random.

Excuse me, is that picture convincing enough that he is married to a gay? ( Let me just assume I no see the fake nails)

its on instablog too. His name is Jimmy. People in OOU confirmed they knew him

https://x.com/popo_gb/status/1892875129270481354?s=46 This tweet is from someone who knew him in school.

If this guy was in Nigeria he would have married a woman, continued pastor work and be molesting boys in church. People like you will still say its a lie

xandy84:
If you have lived in Canada as you claimed, then you will know that there are home depot stores in Canada and people still stand at the entrance of such stores offering their services to anybody who need helps and they get paid for such. Such jobs are not "Under the table" like you said but there are rules that prevent you from reporting such job to internal revenue. For example, it's makes no sense to report to IRS someone cutting your grass for $50. That will be waste of time.
I agree with you people can lose their post grad visa cos of overworking but they can take up side gig that does not report hours. Delivering pizza or doordash, Uber eat does not count hours either.I had lived long enough in US to come to conclusion that there are many ways to skin a cat here. Just make it here first before you start to worry yourself about less important stuff.

u guys are enjoying in the USA every one knows. Usa is not like Canada. Uber and doordash are now required to report income/time worked to our tax authorities here starting last month. Many students can no longer work over the 20 hours. Soliciting in home depot here will get you arrested 😂

xandy84:
Every work is not hourly in US that I know about. I own a company and offer job to people that pays by the job as a need basis. For example, you can go to home depot and pick up people to help with project and pay them when they are done. To say people can't work beyond 20 hours a week is ignorant to say the least.
There is nothing criminal to help other shove snow or pave driveway and get paid. Nobody cares if its one hour, 100 hours it takes you to finish the job. Everybody does it. Americans, Mexicans and Africans. Your comment suggest you either still in Niaja or live in glass bubble in abroad.

did i mention USA in my post I said uk or Canada. I have lived and worked in both countries. So no come here con form psuedo intellectual. The post i was responding to was about study visa. People have been denied post graduate visas in uk and Canada for working over the 20 hours their student visa allows. Na u dey bubble, in America everyone knows its easy to work under the table

aywagze:
The story get k leg! ..🤔

asylum things. I know a couple who didn’t see their kids for 15 years. U claimed asylum and said your life is in danger. You wont be able to go visit Nigeria

ahmedio2017:
Don't be decieved, 10million is not a small money it will go a long way, try work visa .
Even it will be enough for study too u just need to be strategic, at least with 6million you should be a ble to pay part of your school fee then when I enter you pay the remaining balance. Just be smart

this is what has led many to depression, death, dropping out etc. in countries like UK and Canada where u are only allowed 20 hours a week work as a student plus high cost of living/ unemployment rate. U go just suffer for nothing.

In most developed countries Its a criminal offence to pay for work visa plus majority of them are scams. See these one below that scammer their fellow Nigerians for UK COS. Una go wise by force

We just like wasting money on rubbish. Why is a wedding banner even needed

Those cars will be in Lagos by September. Clean non accidented toks for sale

Makavelli001:
"BEFORE YOU DECIDE TO LEAVE ME IN BETWEEN THE CROSSROADS, REMEMBER YOUR WORDS ON THAT DAY I BROUGHT THE MONEY MADE FROM THE SALES OF MY FATHER'S MOTORCYCLE TO YOU IN FESTAC TO RECORD YOUR FIRST SONG"~~Annie Macaulay.

2 Face Idibia's estranged wife, Annie Idibia Macaulay has penned an emotional letter for her man. The lady whose battling with her mental health has taken time to address 2 Baba after the African King announced their divorce which is already in process. 2Baba went ahead to engage his new found love, Honorable Natasha.

She Wrote:

""Dear Innocent, this is my first and only true love; forgive me if I have disrespected you by calling your name.

You have left me with no choice as I am still trying to understand how you are gradually slipping away from my warm hands.

I don't want to believe you are following the money because, for over 22 years, I have been married to you; we have never lacked anything courtesy of God's grace.

I don't want to believe you are trying to make a name because your name is my last name and it is loud on the lips of everyone across Africa and beyond.

Looking at you and the sudden change in retrospection of where we are coming from and how far we have traveled through life's journey, I ask myself, where did I go wrong? How did I become so irritating to you?

Have you forgotten so soon? What happened to "Together Forever"? What happened to our mantra of never letting go no matter how hard we fight?

Have you forgotten how i had to sneak out my father's motorcycle, sold it and brought the money to you to record your first song?

Pleaae Innocent, you need time to think. Do not get carried away. I love you forever❤️""~~Annie Macaulay

lies

temiflex01:
You go sabi fail exam with dignity. Topic said respect, not monetary value.

When you tell people years back you work in a bank, they'll give you your space, tell anyone now, they'll just see you as normal employed person.

Lawyers sef lost respect, na bunch of official liars and money making criminals now.

money is respect in Nigeria. With the amount of charge and bail lawyers wey dey 9ja many dont respect the profession again.

Suicideboy:
lawyers are needed every where in the world


the highest paid lawyers in nigeria are divorce lawyers



the world can't function without lawyers




some of jiggers underrate law profession

false the highest paid lawyers in Nigeria are those who handle election matters and corporate law.

Nnaemiemax:
The question was about 'respect' not pay.
I am not a Lawyer, but tagging law a useless degree is shocking. BTW, all top law firms pay comparatively high salary with banks as per levels - ETs and Associates alike.

how many top law firms exist that can hire many of the estimated 4k law graduates yearly. 😩

Nnaemiemax:
Law still rocks!
It's definitely got to be Banking. It was the gold of all professions some 10-15 years ago.

how many law firms pay more than 50k? How many law firms even exist in the country? Law is a useless degree for majority
https://www.nairaland.com/8216916/why-most-nigerian-lawyers-broke

Bank contracts staff are being paid 80-120k while some pay entry level full time staff over 300k

Afolavid:
Thank you to everyone that contributed to the discussion. I reached out to a friend regarding the issue and during the convo, a thought came into my head, to send her a document that shows I'm being asked to leave Canada and I need the money to book flight etc... This is supposed to be the last line of action before I involve the parents tomorrow and so on. I sent in a WP application which was refused and told her I've been asked to leave, after backs and forth, it worked. She sent the money!!! Thank you

you guys will reconcile soon and later marry 😅